It has been half a month since Zhou Haimei passed away.
Recently, the media revealed that Zhou Haimei’s mother is selling her Beijing mansion for about 30 million. Could it be that something happened if she is so anxious to sell her mansion?
According to Hong Kong media, Zhou Haimei’s mother and her family have lived in Hong Kong for a long time. Moreover, her mother is old and unable to pay the high maintenance and operation expenses required for the house. Previously, many netizens and fans went to Zhou Haimei's Beijing mansion to pay their respects, which caused great trouble to her family and violated their privacy. Therefore, selling the mansion now may be the best choice.
Some time ago, sister Zhou Haimei made a statement on issues such as the distribution of Ms. Zhou Haimei’s inheritance, the cause of her death and how to arrange her pets.
Zhou Haimei died of a sudden heart attack. She passed away peacefully and without pain. All her property and real estate will be inherited by her mother in accordance with the law. The dogs that Zhou Haimei loved most during her lifetime will be adopted by acquaintances and friends.
Zhou Haimei’s death still makes many netizens still unable to recover.
Zhou Haimei can be said to be the dream lover of all Hong Kong men at that time, and she was also the most beautiful Bai Yueguang in the hearts of countless viewers. The Zhou Zhiruo she played, like the "Zixia Fairy" played by Zhu Yin and "Huang Rong" played by Weng Meiling, has become a A classic of the times.
But when she reappeared in the public eye in recent years, she had transformed into Zhou Zhiruo's master, "Master Miejie", and the most poisonous "Queen" Tu Yao in the Heavenly Palace... Because of not Zhou Haimei constantly played unlikable roles, and Zhou Haimei was scolded to the point of quitting Weibo.
In addition to her precarious career, it is not difficult to find that Zhou Haimei is not married. When talking about being single in an interview, she said that "men are in the way."
People can’t help but wonder, what have our goddesses experienced in these years?
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Career: From "Zhou Zhiruo" to "Mie Mie Shitai"
Zhou Haimei was born in Hong Kong, China, in 1966. She came from a prominent family and not only was she not pampered since she was a child, she was also like a boy, carefree and undisciplined.
Father wanted Zhou Haimei to look like a girl, so he simply signed her up for the Miss Hong Kong competition and let her see other girls. However, Zhou Haimei's "talent" allowed her to easily achieve a better ranking in the competition.
As soon as the competition ended, TVB quickly signed a contract with Zhou Haimei and sent her the resources of "The Yang Family" to show her affection. Therefore, the acting matter completely touched Zhou Haimei.
But Zhou Haimei’s mother did not agree with her daughter taking this hard and difficult path to get ahead, but Zhou Haimei was very confident, saying that she would become a heroine in just two years.
Since then, her acting career has skyrocketed like a cheat.
In 1989, Zhou Haimei partnered with Huang Rihua in "The Obligation" and became the most popular actress in Hong Kong; in 1994, she played Zhou Zhiruo in "The Legend of Heaven and the Dragon Slayer", setting a new ratings record. Jin Yong even said, "If I had known it was Zhou Haimei who would play the role, I would have written Zhou Zhiruo and Zhang Wuji together." And Zhou Haimei's version of Zhou Zhiruo has really been surpassed by no one so far.
Zhou Haimei continued to work hard after that. It was not until 1998 when she was filming "Across the World" that she suffered from lupus erythematosus, which forced her to take a break and adjust...
Everyone knows that in the ever-changing entertainment industry, once you leave, you will never want to start again. It's really hard to get back to the top. The same goes for Zhou Haimei. After recovering from her illness, she could only receive some insignificant supporting roles. However, after playing the role of Concubine Yang in "The Legend of Wu Mei Niang", many netizens still praised, "After many years, she is still the same goddess!"
Until 2018 In 2019, Zhou Haimei played the villain Tu Yaotian in "Sweet Honey as Ashes as Frost", and in 2019 she played the Queen Mother of the Miejie Master in "Eternal Dragon Sword". Because of the hateful face of the character, she suffered severe online attacks and had to " Retreat bravely from the rapids."
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Feelings: From "deep love" to "not loving"
Zhou Haimei's career path can be said to have experienced ups and downs, and her relationship path seems to be just like her career.
In 1985, while Zhou Haimei was filming "Island", she fell in love with actor Lu Liangwei, and they registered for marriage after four years of dating.
During this marriage, Zhou Haimei's career gradually reached its peak, and her two collaborations with Liming were secretly rumored to be fake by countless Hong Kong media. Soon Zhou Haimei divorced Lu Liangwei.
Many people believe that Zhou Haimei's divorce is inseparable from the scandal with Liming, but there are also rumors that Lu Liangwei was concerned that Zhou Haimei could not take care of his sick father, which led to the breakdown of the relationship.
Then, Zhou Haimei became famous and attracted the pursuit of many wealthy businessmen in Hong Kong. After the divorce, Zhou Haimei fell into a passionate love with Wu Shirong, executive director of Dickson Group. However, not long after the relationship, Zhou Haimei unfortunately suffered from lupus erythematosus. Wu Shirong, who learned about the disease, decisively abandoned Zhou Haimei and ended the relationship by cheating on her.
After retiring from acting for several years, Zhou Haimei, who had recovered, moved to the Mainland for development. Although she could not return to the peak of her career, she found love. For this outsider boyfriend who was 7 years younger than her, she ignored the opposition of her family and friends and went her own way for her boyfriend. Settled in Beijing. After seeing Zhou Haimei's dedication, her boyfriend outside the industry also proposed decisively, but Zhou Haimei did not agree and broke up with her publicly a year later.
It turned out that it was because Zhou Haimei suddenly learned that she was born with low platelets and could not have children in her life, so she did not want to delay the impact on this man who was 7 years younger than her, so she took the initiative to break up.
After the breakup, Zhou Haimei decided not to get married. She said, "Without love, I still live happily."
If it is said that Zhou Haimei's non-marriage is just because she is infertile, I think the reason is inevitably a bit far-fetched. After all, after she divorced Lu Liangwei, she once said "Maybe marriage is not the best destination for me, so I can only run on the road of love."
So what made her, who had lived a colorful life, choose not to get married? Don’t want love either?
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Not getting married is a kind of escape.
It also requires a kind of confidence.
Speaking of Zhou Haimei not being in love and not getting married, it must be inseparable from her three relationships.
When she married Lu Liangwei, Zhou Haimei was only 23 years old, an age when she was still full of unknowns and ignorance about love. She could promise a lifetime just because of the current love, but Lu Liangwei was not her husband. After getting married, Zhou Haimei discovered that her husband married her. She wasn't just because of that feeling.
Zhou Haimei, who unfortunately suffered from lupus erythematosus, was severely abandoned by the wealthy businessman who was chasing after her, which made her realize the warmth and coldness of love, and she became more and more disappointed in relationships. But at this time, she may have given up on marriage, but she still looks forward to love.
Finally, a man who could cure her appeared, but she was opposed by her family and friends. For her, the road of love was too tortuous and embarrassing. Later, she also discovered that she had a fertility defect and could not give her loved one a complete home. Therefore, subconsciously it was difficult for her to gain happiness, so she decisively chose to leave and decided not to enter the realm of love again.
It actually takes a lot of courage for a woman to choose not to expect love and not to enter marriage. And Zhou Haimei has all this courage and confidence.
First of all, years of career development have given her enough financial strength to earn a good life without relying on anyone, so she has no "rich family dreams" and is not afraid of being alone.
If financial ability is only the basis for her choice, then her fearless side of the world is the source of her courage to face the world alone.
As her career develops, she can give up her former role as "Zhou Zhiruo" and advance to the role of "Miracle Master"; she can put down her "baggage" and play the role of "The Vicious Queen" just for love. When the abuse became louder and louder, even affecting her life, she was not deeply affected by it. Instead, she chose to quit the Internet and "continue to expand my horizons and expand my horizons."
This is especially true when it comes to love. She can give everything she has for true love, or she can think about the other person and let go alone.
It is just such a woman who is not afraid of worldly opinions that has the ability to make any decision calmly.
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Not being married does not exclude love,
is not obsessed with marriage either.
Around us, there are many women who have been seriously injured due to relationships, but compared to Zhou Haimei's "not getting married", most of them started "not getting married" after being injured. Hate to marry".
They are extremely eager to find a new sustenance to heal the dark moments of their past years, but whether they are "not married" or "hate to marry", women are losing themselves for the sake of feelings, so they just ignore these three points.
1. No internal friction, love yourself
Internal friction is actually "self-consumption". It also means that after you interact with the outside world, you have conflicting understandings and feelings in your heart. In other words, we care too much about other people's opinions and suffer alone.
Zhou Haimei is actually a woman who has no internal friction. No matter in love or career, she can choose to turn a blind eye to bad comments.
Speaking of this, I will think of many "divorced women". They will imagine that there are sarcastic voices behind them wherever they go. Therefore, after divorce, their biggest worry is "Can I remarry?"
In fact, only if you love yourself enough , others will love you more. Instead of caring about others' evaluation of you, it is better to seriously evaluate yourself, recognize your strengths, improve some shortcomings, and become a better self.
2. Financial ability is the armor in relationships
In relationships, women are emotional animals. They are most likely to lose themselves and give up on themselves more easily than men. But we have all ignored that financial strength is a woman’s greatest armor. How many wives dare not leave scumbag men because they have no ability to make money, and how many women have given up their shining points for marriage.
Only if your financial strength allows you to "run wild" in love wantonly, because you have the confidence to leave at any time and the courage to start firmly.
3. She does not reject love and is not obsessed with marriage.
Zhou Haimei was interviewed by reporters even though she was alone in the empty house. She said that there was nothing wrong with her current situation and she did not have the slightest regret because she lived her life alone. of colorful.
But I believe that her "not getting married" is not a "firm not getting married", but that she is not obsessed with marriage on the basis of not rejecting love. is at peace with the situation, and the years are quiet.
One person can live a good life, but I believe that two people should also be good.
is written at the end:
There are many choices in life,
some are earth-shattering, and some are ordinary.
The happiest life is when you live the way you want most.
I hope she will still be happy in heaven. Good health. beauty.
