01 I can’t watch "Goodbye Lover 4" anymore. The trivial details of life. You talk about the city gate building, she talks about the communication barrier of the hip axis. The cutting continues, and the reason remains chaotic. The father says that the father is righ

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I can’t stand "Goodbye Lover 4" anymore.

The trivial details of life.

You talk about the city gate building, she talks about the communication barrier of the hip axis.

The cutting is constant, and the reason is still chaotic. The public says that the public is reasonable, and the mother-in-law says that the mother-in-law is reasonable.

is really suffocating.

Little Lucky Star often misses the feeling of watching the first season of "Goodbye Lover".

Although they also have the odds and ends of life,

the beautiful moments of married life follow them closely.

is really angry when he is angry. When

feels sad, I really feel sad for them.

I couldn’t stop crying while watching "Goodbye Lover 1".

I never stopped getting angry while watching "Goodbye Lover 4".

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is obviously the same program and the same configuration, why is there such a big gap?

I can only say that wonderful people like Guo Keyu are rare.

When we first met, Guo Keyu looked like an aunt who had been swallowed up by life.

She was naked and wrapped in a large headscarf, her whole face was scrawled and alienated.

I thought she would be a resentful woman from a family who was tortured by her marriage.

But the beauty revealed in her body is still unforgettable. When the

program was being recorded, she had been divorced by Zhang He for a year.

They have been married for 10 years and have one child.

live under the same roof, each with his own loneliness.

Zhang He cannot enter Guo Keyu's life.

Guo Keyu doesn’t want to go to Zhang He’s life.

Guo Keyu is with his friends, funny and smiling.

With Zhang He, there is nothing but silence.

Zhang He was very worried about this.

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Guo Keyu is weak on the outside but strong and stubborn on the inside.

html Chapter 3 He is full of hormones, but he is a soft-hearted man who loves to cry.

Zhang He wanted to ask Guo Keyu on the show, what have I been in the past ten years?

In fact, what he really wanted to ask Guo Keyu was, have you ever loved me in these ten years?

Guo Keyu said that there is no love between us, we get married for the sake of getting married.

In fact, she loves her deeply, but she just doesn't want to admit it.

They met on the set of the movie " The Perfect Bride ".

Guo Keyu had a relationship that failed miserably, so he hated getting married and couldn't wait to have a child.

Zhang He also felt that when it was time to start a family and start a business, who would he marry?

The two hit it off and got married a month later.

Because of the problems of his native family, Guo Keyu is ready to tolerate everything.

But she still underestimated the details and grinding of marriage.

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Is there really no love in their 10-year marriage?

Actually no, they are no less tied to each other than others.

It's just that they simply and crudely attributed all the ties to care, not love.

If there was no love between them, how could Zhang He walk towards the cliff despite the pressure of being afraid of heights.

He opened his mouth and said: "Guo Ke, thank you for the past 10 years. Thank you very much. In the future, live the way you like. You must live the way you like. Me too! I will also live the way I want. The way you want it. "

When I read this paragraph, I really burst into tears.

If there was no love between them, how could Guo Keyu hug Zhang He's waist in the back seat of the motorcycle and say: "Hug, dear".

If there was no love between them, how could Guo Keyu stare at Zhang He's pajamas and find them too wrinkled and tasteless.

Zhang He replied to her: "Don't smell my body fragrance secretly."

After Zhang He finished speaking, Guo Keyu hid his face and smiled.

There are always hormones flowing between them, but they will extinguish them in time, especially Guo Keyu.

She always seems to be flirting with Zhang He, and then turns around and runs away.

And Zhang He was thinking more about Guo Keyu's true thoughts.

What is this if not love?

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Many people don’t understand what went wrong in their marriage.

Simply put, they have different expectations for marriage.

Guo Keyu once excitedly said to Zhang He: "That restaurant is so beautiful, I must go with you once, but the food is quite average, but do you know? The earrings worn by the proprietress are very beautiful."

Zhang He: "Just tell me whether you have eaten or not."

When a literary goddess meets a rough man, one sentence can destroy all beautiful illusions.

There have been countless conversations like this in their 10 years of marriage.

If we look at marriage support alone, Zhang He is definitely a good husband.

Guo Keyu himself said that Zhang He has raised her very well in the past 10 years, allowing her to watch movies at home with peace of mind and enjoy life.

But from the perspective of marriage emotions, Zhang He has a lot of shortcomings.

Guo Keyu’s native family was extremely miserable.

Her mother is very traditional, following the standards of three obediences and four virtues, and living a life where men are superior to women.

His father was an extremely selfish man, and would even lock the door of his room to isolate his mother and daughter.

Guo Keyu has never felt maternal love, let alone fatherly love.

So her need for a husband also includes the role of "father".

She chose Zhang He because Zhang He fit the role of "father".

She left Zhang He also because Zhang He could only provide the role of "father".

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What is even more terrifying than the above conclusion is that Guo Keyu found that he was imitating his mother's life without knowing it.

She is a woman of the new era. She dared to shoot large-scale scenes in "Red Cherry" 20 years ago, which is enough to prove her determination to break free.

can return to life, and her unconditional obedience is so natural that it scares her.

In order to manage this marriage well, she gave up her career, her circle, and even herself.

goes to the supermarket every day to buy groceries and cook, goes home to wash clothes, water the flowers and watch movies, and the rest of the time takes care of her children and husband.

Originally Guo Keyu could have continued to persist, but Zhang He always said: "My teacher Guo is an artist, so I will become an actor."

These words are so hurtful.

Especially Guo Keyu gave her credit card to Zhang He, and Zhang He would repay the money for her every time the repayment date came.

This kind of behavior is a great humiliation for a woman who always wants to break free. The most important thing is that she asked for it.

had been living in depression for a long time. Guo Keyu fell ill. The side effects of the medicine made her gain 30 pounds. The dress she used to attend events suddenly couldn't fit anymore.

During the long journey of seeking medical treatment, she had never seen Zhang He. The various aspects of life in the hospital made Guo Keyu realize that she needed to change from the inside out.

So, she took the initiative to choose divorce and let the three words "Guo Keyu" become an adult instead of the slightly mocking artist her husband said.

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All these are enough to prove that the first season of "Goodbye Lover" is not an otherworldly fireworks show.

Then why does it have such a big change from the second, third and fourth seasons that followed.

After all, we are still guests. Wang Qiuyu in the first season of

was irritating enough, but when he realized that Zhu Yaqiong had made up his mind to leave him, he sat outside alone all night.

There are no quarrels, no father-like lectures, and no nonsense, hysteria, or messing around. Some just let go quietly.

Guo Keyu is the same as Zhang He. At the end of the

program, Guo Keyu chose to get off the car.

Zhang He slowly walked towards her, the wind messed up her hair and blew up her dress.

Zhang He took off his windbreaker and wanted to put it on Guo Keyu, but Guo Keyu jumped into Zhang He's arms.

They embraced each other under the sunset, and the 10 years of grudges, love and hatred disappeared at this moment.

They leaned forward and walked forward, cherishing and saying goodbye. Although the

program only lasted 18 days, they got the answer. They really loved each other, and that was enough.

In the end, they did not choose to remarry, but to find their next happiness.

This also brings the regret of "Goodbye Lover 1" to its peak.

If you don’t love it, you don’t love it anymore.

What can we do without love?