, a man in the United States won a $273 million prize.
Prior to this, he had been unemployed for several years, and his ex-wife chose to divorce six months ago because he couldn't stand him. After
won the grand prize, he felt that his life had finally won the light, and he was sure that his ex-wife would regret leaving him, and even in an interview with reporters, he claimed that his ex-wife had contacted him, begged him for forgiveness, and tried to share with him This windfall.
In a proud tone, he described his ex-wife as a woman who sees money.
However, his ex-wife quickly slapped his face. When interviewed by reporters, the ex-wife said: Even if she has more money, she would not want to return to this man. The ex-wife of
proved to him with actual actions: it was not because he had no money to leave him.
Everything is just his wishful thinking.
In fact, the choice of money and love has always been a big test of human nature.
And this choice is particularly evident in women's mate selection.
Yesterday, I saw a video edited by Liu Yan in the movie "The Beneficiary" on Weibo and I was deeply moved.
The conditions in her family are not good. She has been out of society since she was a child. She has drifted north, lived in a group rented house, suffered a lot, and suffered a lot of sins.
She once thought that she would wait until the man who rescued herself from the mud, but she hadn't met until she was 38.
Later, she did not wait for the one who rescued her from the mud, but waited for the one who accompany her to fight in the mud.
is just such a person, but for him she gave up the live broadcast she loved, ruined her job, took off her makeup, took off her wig, and revealed that she was married...
at the moment, she just wants to be a person’s wife. This is She is like a moth to the fire, chasing love and being determined and courageous to her partner.
The movie "Beneficiary" tells the story of deceit and love .
In the beginning, Dapeng's friend Zhong Zhenjiang embezzled public funds. He needed money to fill this hole. He planned a scam of finding someone to get married, then had an accident, and finally defrauded high premiums.
Although Dapeng didn't want to harm others, on the one hand, his son's condition was getting worse, and on the other hand, his long-time friend was begging and coercing and temptation, so he could only be helpless.
When they finally decided to implement this scam, Liu Yan became the prey to be arrested.
She looks like a superficial gold-worshiping little internet celebrity. She loves vanity. She relies on the side ball to get out of her position and acts like coquettish to the people in the live broadcast room to gain benefits. She wants to achieve class leap by hanging a "golden turtle". People like
are too easy to succeed when they are prey, and they do not feel guilty.
However, they did not expect that just such a "secular" woman, who said that she was looking for a "golden-in-law", would be moved by the love of "you have a hundred yuan, and you are willing to spend 99 yuan for me".
When Dapeng was preaching this movie, there was a saying that was very good, you would never think of their ending, and this is the most exciting part of the movie.
Dapeng secretly returned to Liu Yan’s hometown. It was really a very poor place. His father was disabled in a wheelchair, and his younger brother was idle and not doing business. The walls of the house were all broken and there was no decent furniture. With dried chili...
Dapeng was just to defraud the insurance, so she lied to her that she would treat her family as relatives, didn't mind her infertility, and even performed ligation for her.
Liu Yan believed all these things for real, she fought back like a moth to the fire, and fought back towards her love and married her with a beautiful vision for the future.
She thought she was about to start a new life, but she didn't expect that her son who was temporarily sent away by Dapeng ran back secretly, exposing his elaborate scam.
Internet cafe is someone else’s, a BMW car is borrowed, I have had a child, it is a second marriage...
Do you think such a vanity-loving woman would immediately become angry and go to divorce after discovering that she was cheated on marriage, right?
But Liu Yan didn't, not only didn't, she also gave up her famous brand watches worth more than 60,000 yuan to pay off the debt for the man who cheated her, and bought the air purifier with the 30,000 yuan she got for the other's children; I also help him wash clothes, teach children homework, prepare birthday cakes...
is nothing else, justBecause Dapeng once let her see that point of sincerity, just like the fairy Zixia said: deceive, just like a moth, knowing that it will be hurt or will fall into the fire, the moth is so stupid .
She is such a silly woman. The most curious thing about
is the scene of Liu Yan eating peppers competition. Her stomach is not good and she can't eat peppers at all, but she still pinches the stopwatch and keeps stuffing peppers in her mouth, even if her mouth is swollen. ....
She just wants to get the prize and give it to the other party.
She never thought that the marriage she thought was her destiny, turned out to be just a tool to defraud. When she tried to be nice to Dapeng, Dapeng was planning with others to exchange her for a premium.
was clearly a marriage started by a scam, but the two of them couldn't help but take the initiative.
Liu Yan's performance is real and full of tension. It has made such a character full of flesh and blood. Many girls have seen their shadows in her.
And Dapeng is also a plastic performance, fully interpreting the performance and state of a small person.
I really like this kind of emotional line, which is intertwined between deceit and love. There is confession, tolerance, acceptance, psychological struggle, conflict of interest, and the glory of human nature.
What moved me most was the feelings between them. Although
fell into the dust, although life is difficult, they still use their own body temperature to warm each other.
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In Nanjing Subway Station, a man in a suit and leather shoes once lay down. He looked decently dressed, but fell into a corner crying when he was drunk.
After the citizen called the police, he saw the police who cared about him and couldn't help but uttered his sadness, "My wife and I have been working in Nanjing for several years. We have tasted everything. In order to sign the order, I accompany him every day. Customers drink, I can't drink, really can't drink."
After ten minutes, his wife hurried over.
saw her husband sitting on the ground embarrassedly, with dirty vomit still hanging on her body. She didn't dislike him at all. Instead, she hugged him distressedly and comforted him softly.
After being hugged by his wife, the man cried like a child, and kept apologizing to his wife, "Baby, I'm sorry, I'm useless." The apology of
made people burst into tears instantly. After
was drunk, he didn't complain about anyone, but just hated that he didn't give his wife a better life, but in fact, his wife never regretted marrying him. The wife of
understands that her husband’s work is not easy, and that he works so hard for their little family. After marrying her husband, she has never envied the feelings of others. She just wants to be a backing for her husband.
Life is not easy, but at least we warm each other.
By the side of the street in Xi'an, there is a 24-year-old man named Zuo Liheng.
He sets up a street stall selling vegetables, and is often busy until two or three in the morning. But every night, with his pregnant wife Miao Xin, he would sit next to the stall to accompany him.
The night in Xi'an was extremely cold. Someone asked Miao Xin: "Do you come to accompany him every night?"
nodded: "Well, every day."
asked again: "But aren't you pregnant now? It's such a cold day, why are you staying with him so late?" The girl
smiled shyly, "I won't feel cold with him." What Miao Xin said by
, isn't that what every girl thinks?
always thinks that love must have money to be happy, but when you meet that person, you will find that as long as the other person can make you feel at ease, even eating a bowl of noodles in a rental house will be a good memory of life.
Compared with the happiness when I was with him, what is it to endure a little bit of hardship?
is the most trivial things in life that move women the most.
is like running home with one, two and three without an umbrella in the evening of heavy rain.
is like buying fish together, keeping them one by one, observing them every day, and treating them as their own children;
is like eating takeaways and watching videos together, full of ketchup, and holding tissues for each other with the wrist;
stays in our memory The deepest thing is not money, money, but these steaming scenes full of life.
Sometimes a woman is very innocent, so you think more about her, She can love you more;
if you are willing to buy her a soy milk fritters in the morning, she is willing to give up the French meal for you;
you can say thank you for her dedication, and she can completely ignore the gains and losses. .....
But the premise is that you are worthy.
So, in the final analysis, money is not the only criterion for measuring a relationship, the world is not worthy of you, she is willing.
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Zhihu once read such a heart-wrenching question: Why didn't the
who is willing to accompany you to accompany you to the end?
's highest praise answer is like this:
Since she decided to accompany you to endure hardships at the beginning, it shows that she cares not about suffering or not, but whether you love or not, can you create your future with you . Don't let her suffer and question her determination to go to the future with you.
is actually the same in the movie "Beneficiary".
Liu Yan didn't even think about the long-term development with Dapeng, so she made no secret of her superficial worship of gold. He had to pay for meals and expensive diamond-encrusted watches.
, but in the scam, Dapeng moved her with many details.
had no money but bought her a watch, secretly bought a massage chair for her disabled father in her name, announced in front of everyone to help her prop up this poor family together, and even was willing to perform ligation for her.
Therefore, she did not hesitate to turn back, and did not care for herself.
Dapeng himself was a lie, but he was deeply moved by this stupid woman. Liu Yan made him feel at home. He wanted to spend a small life with this woman like never before.
They are just two people living at the bottom of society, but even such ordinary two people do their best to warm each other and let each other see their future.
About money and love, San Mao and Jose had a classic conversation:
Jose: What kind of person do you want to marry?
Sanmao: It's pleasing to the eye. Multi-millionaires also marry. Those who don't look pleasing to the eye, billionaires also marry.
Jose: By the way, you still want to marry a rich man.
Sanmao glanced at Jose: There are exceptions.
Jose: "Then what if you marry me?"
Sanmao sighed: If it were you, then only the money for food would be enough.
Jose: "Then do you eat more?"
Sanmao is very careful: "No more, no more, you can eat less in the future."
Yishu wrote a famous sentence: I want a lot of love, If not, it will cost a lot of money.
For this love, even if she is asked to take off her Chinese clothes and jewelry and face the hardships of life, she will be happy.
I once asked my mother, when my father was so poor, why would you still marry him?
My mother laughed all of a sudden and said, "I was cheated by your dad back then, and he sent me home, he sent me food, and he went to the fields to help me work, saying that he could live a good life with him. How can I think of marrying him, I have suffered so much."
Although my mom didn't enjoy much prosperity and wealth when married to my dad, my dad basically took care of all the family affairs and was reluctant to let her do the heavy work. After a quarrel, I was the first one to be soft.
He spent a lifetime protecting someone, so my mother never thought of regretting it.
In fact, how can women be so cheating? They are much smarter than men, but they are sure that this man can work hand in hand for a lifetime, and it is worth to love him.
They love you, so they will tolerate, accept and give for you.
Therefore, above "deception", it must be love.
can deceive a lifetime, is love.
