Wen/Chu Yujun
Many years ago, I was a student, a very ordinary student, and a very timid student. For nothing else, it's just because of a little late development, so there is a huge gap in height or strength compared with classmates or classmates in the same grade. Therefore, I dare not offend anyone, I have always been tolerant. However, some adults think of "bad boys" because I didn't copy homework for them, and then stared at me.
On the way home from school, they blocked me halfway, and forced me to ask me why I didn’t copy homework for them? And even took out a steel pipe to threaten me? The good thing is that they are not so cruel. I was just scared, but still scared. However, I am a "good student", the teacher said, the words that cannot be copied for homework are deeply burned in my heart, so next time, I still dare not copy homework for them. Not listening to the teacher.
The second time, I was beaten, my hands and feet were beaten by their steel pipes. Although they didn't try their best, it still hurt. This kind of pain is still very scared when I remember it. Later, my little gangster's uncle found out and scared these people a lot, and the matter was over. However, my uncle is a well-known "little bastard" in our area, and most people don't dare to offend him at all, because they all know that he has practiced martial arts, how many times.
But think about it, if there is no such "little bastard" uncle, I don't know where I will go. Therefore, the mention of campus bullying always touches the sensitive and fragile nerves deep in my heart. Because there has been a past, it can resonate even more. And this time, "You are a teenager" is just such a work.
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Youth campus-themed movies, infused with reflections on reality
works that mention campus bullying or bullying, I have always been afraid of one thing, that is, will the plot brought by the work itself fail to get the education effect it deserves , Instead of becoming a model for some young people to imitate?
Previously, many people "criminally commit crimes" based on some plots of film and television works, which seems to be no news. Also because of such news, a very real problem is also at hand, that is, how to prevent campus bullying from being imitated by teenagers? In our minds, such behavior is shameful and hateful, because our three views have basically taken shape. But for young people, it is not necessarily. Because their three views are the same as their bodies, they are still developing, and they may even think that bullying students are cool. Such a reality must be avoided.
Perhaps, taking into account such practical problems, "Young You" has its own handling and response to this, that is, it does not release the details of bullying, such as shooting nude photos, which are basically just police officers. In a word, in addition, when bullying, there is no too much shooting, only after being bullied, the scars on the faces of those "victims" reveal one point: she or he has just been bullied. Such an understatement is necessary. Because, if something is displayed too intuitively, it will inevitably be imitated by some young people, or even learned. In this way, it will become a misleading rather than a reflection. From this point of view, "Young You" is doing well.
is also due to this kind of water down, so the things that "You Are in Youth" pay more attention to, or that is, the more prominent things are also better displayed. That is, how do we look at such things at ? How do the protagonists in the work deal with these things? Are their practices and choices correct? If we are them, what should we do? ...All these issues are very necessary to think about. , or rather, is the value that this movie brings. Because, while the film continues to reveal the truth, the thinking on these issues is slowly revealed.
Perhaps it is also because the work highlights what I want to highlight and weakens what I feel needs to be weakened. Therefore, such works are also well received. Every one of us must have some "tap water" in the circle of friends. And in the end, the score of the work on Douban also reached 8.4 points. For a youth school drama, such a score can be regarded as a "extraordinary" existence.
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"You protect the world, I protect you" are touched and helpless
In "You are a young man", many people know that the victim at the beginning was Hu Xiaodie, because she encountered campus bullying, because of Wei Lai etc. People bully her at any time, and ultimately her choice is to bid farewell to this world. Such Hu Xiaodie is a super tragic character. Because her only weakness may be that she is too weak, but she "cannot live" because of campus bullying. Therefore, she chose to say goodbye. Afterwards, Chen Nian was spotted by Wei Lai and others for covering Hu Xiaodie with clothes. The final outcome was that Chen Nian became the next person to be bullied on campus. When Xiaobei appeared to protect Chen Nian, Xiaomiao became Wei Lai's next target. This reality proves that without the intervention of external forces, campus bullying will not disappear out of thin air, it will only go from one goal to another. The appearance of
Xiaobei is also an external force in the work. It can even be said that Xiaobei, as a "small gangster", is also the key to reversing the situation. Being in such works brings a different reflection. Among them, after Xiaobei General Wei Lai pressed on the wall and told her not to touch Chen Nian, coupled with Xiaobei's journey along the way, Chen Nian also gained a short-term sense of security. Originally, Chen Nian was a little disgusted with Xiaobei's residence, because it was too crude and shabby. However, because of Xiaobei's protection of her, it also gave her more sense of security. Then, Xiaobei's home became Chen Nian's temporary "safe haven."
And the two of them have "lived together" in such a pure way. At this time, no one dared to move Chen Nian. Even Wei Lai felt a little bit bullied by Xiao Bei. In other words, sometimes the perpetrator and the victim of campus bullying can also be interchangeable. For example, Wei Lai was pushed to death by Chen Nian in the end, which also implied such a truth. Many balances of
are only temporary. Chen Nian and Wei Lai are in peace, which is actually an example. It can be said that if it had not been for the appearance of Xiaobei, for Chen Nian, his personal fate would have been even more horrible. But because of his appearance, she got a short respite before the college entrance examination. But such a balance is not absolutely safe. For example, when Xiaobei was unable to pick up Chen Nian due to police investigation, Chen Nian became the target of campus bullying, and even Xiaomiao had to bully Chen Nian together under pressure. But before that , Chen Nian and Xiaomiao were in a certain sense people who helped each other, but in the face of campus bullying, everything was nothing to mention. Perhaps the so-called "weak people hurt each other" should be such a logic and reason.
For Chen Nian, the lack of paternal love, the mother is deeply trapped in MLM and has no time to take care of everything about her, her original ecological family is indeed very unfortunate. Later, it was bullied by Wei Lai and others, which was also unfortunate. And meeting Xiaobei, for a weak person like her, was lucky. Because Xiaobei temporarily used her own means to build a safety barrier for her. Such a barrier gives her temporary warmth, but it is very fragile. Because the source of the problem, Wei Lai, the initiator of campus bullying, is still there. Therefore, although Xiaobei's phrase "You protect the world, I protect you" is very moving, the helplessness behind it is also obvious.
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Behind every campus bullying, there are all kinds of problems
Many people have been thinking about a realistic question, why is Wei Lai, who is beautiful and has good grades, become the initiator of campus bullying? This kind of work, the actor who plays Wei Lai, is also very cleverly interpreting cuteness and viciousness. The so-called "Laughing Tiger" and "Laughing Knife" may be just such characters. A character like
looks very simple, especially, she is a smiling person at all times, but no one has guessed that her real appearance is so terrible. The actors' acting skills are very good, so the roles of the works are even more flesh and blood. But at the same time, a more realistic question also came, why did Wei Lay become Wei Lai? Does her growth environment have any decisive influence?
This point, watching the movie is enough to know that the first problem comes from family education. After Chen Nian called the police, Hu Xiaodie's death also had more room for interpretation. However, in the face of various inquiries from the police, we saw the attitude of Wei Lai's parents. That is, I tried my best to protect my children, and also expressed that I don't believe my children are like that. protect like thisBaby's parents are actually a kind of doting. But in fact, spoiling is never a good thing for a child's growth. Spoiling and guarding the baby... In Wei Lai, we have seen the weakness and problems of her parents. Under such family education, it does not seem surprising that there are children like Wei Lai.
In addition to the unqualified family education, the lack of school education and error correction mechanism is also an important reason why Wei Lai became a bullying perpetrator on campus. We know that after Chen Nian called the police, the school’s first reaction was to calm things down. Then, under various pressures, the class teacher who had treated Chen Nian well before was also "forced" to leave. At a time node like , such a departure always gives people some room for association. That is, Wei Lai's family background is not simple. After such a thing, Wei Lai had no effect. And this also angered Wei Lai, and Wei Lai's bullying of Chen Nian was no longer the kind of "smiling", but naked. After that, Chen Nian found Xiaobei. It can be said that in this matter, the righteous teacher was transferred away, which also contributed to Wei Lai’s arrogance. That is, there are many things that can be settled in my own family. I am a knife, you are a fish, and you can take it. what should I do? In addition to the absence of family education and school education, there is actually the inability of judicial assistance. In such works, Zheng Yi's homonym is "justice", so in theory, it must be "justice". In general, it is the same. But at the beginning, because the evidence of campus bullying was difficult to find, then Hu Xiaodie's death was indeed a suicide. As a result, the judicial remedy seemed weak. This also caused Chen Nian to lose his trust in Zheng Yi. After that, Chen Nian and Xiaobei worked seamlessly together. But in the end, Zheng Yi cracked it. The sentence "Xiao Bei was sentenced to death" brought Xiao Bei and Chen Nian back to justice.
all kinds of factors are superimposed together, only then has Wei Lai's various arrogance and domineering. This kind of work, dare to face the bloody reality, is worthy of recognition. For many problems, first have the courage to face them, and then there is the possibility of solving them.
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To curb campus bullying, the "young you" needs to guard
in many ways. Generally speaking, the ending of the work "young you" is quite perfect. That is, under Zheng Yi's efforts, things have also reached the right side. Originally, Chen Nian and Xiao Bei cooperated seamlessly to answer, basically it can bring the matter to the end. However, Zheng Yi has been working hard to find the truth and eventually found justice. Then, no one is taking the blame for others, and no one is taking the blame. All things are in line with justice, and all procedures reach justice. The situation like is indeed perfect. The work itself is actually implied, that is, let everything belong to the law, that is the solution to the problem.
in this way can be regarded as an "ultimate answer". However, this ultimate answer is already the last resort. In other words, will only be able to provide judicial assistance if something tragic happens. Otherwise, a lot of injuries, a lot of intimidation, and a lot of bullying, even habitual, cannot be defined. This reality is embarrassing. Therefore, from this perspective, judicial assistance alone is definitely not enough.
Because, in many cases, justice is only the last barrier. Before starting such a barrier, some "proofs" are needed. Such evidence must be explicit. This is very difficult for the victim to do. Because of this, our society needs to interpret and interpret it from more angles.
For example, family education is in place. For any parent, it is not necessary to be a top expert or educator, but at the very least education, parental love, etc., should be done. Only in this way can children develop a healthy personality and personality. In addition to family education, in-depth school education is also necessary. For many of our schools, too much emphasis on scores while ignoring the reality of general education is still objective. In other words, before judicial assistance, school education and family education should still be in place. Only in this way can it be considered a safe network to protect against bullying on campus. Because, for many things, it is not enough to make one-sided efforts, but to make all-round efforts in multiple aspects.
In addition, a reality is also worthy of attention, that is, when the "Youth of You" was released, the 14th meeting of the 13th National People's Congress Standing Committee held group deliberations to address the issue of minor criminal penalties and incarceration. , Discuss the "Draft Revision of the Law on the Protection of Minors" and the "Draft Revision of the Law on the Prevention of Juvenile Delinquency". As shown at the end of the film, the state has introduced relevant measures for "school bullying" several times. The perfection of these bottom-line laws is necessary and urgent. It can even be said that it is a microcosm of the active efforts of all parties. Such reality is also a kind of comfort.
summarizes the ending of the movie
. In fact, there are "revelations" and "hints". That is: Chen Nian escorts female students home. The purpose is obviously to avoid the so-called "campus bullying". Kind of "protecting the self." At the same time, Xiao Bei also escorted the two at the back, that is to say, Xiao Bei is also the guardian.
However, Xiaobei dared to look at the camera, and he dared to protect the two in an open manner. This reality actually implies the scene that Chen Nian said before, "We must be able to walk side by side and openly on the streets." This requires the joint efforts of the whole society. Only when everyone has his own "Xiao Bei and Zheng Yi" from education and law, will the phenomenon of campus bullying become less and less, even into the dust of history.
