Feng Gong and his wife Wen Hui met in middle school. They are both childhood sweethearts and each other's first love. Because Wen Hui was relatively young, Feng Gong often helped her with work and took care of her in various ways. Slowly, Wen Hui naturally had a crush on this man ten years older than herself.
Feng Gong would sometimes send Wen Hui home on purpose, and Wen Hui would secretly bring Feng Gong something to eat. In this way, both of them fell in love, but because the age gap between them was too big, they both brought food to Feng Gong. This intention stays in my heart.
Feng Gong and Wen Hui didn't officially get together until after graduation, but the good times didn't last long. Feng Gong's family suffered a sudden change. He knew that he couldn't give Wen Hui a good living environment, but Wen Hui didn't dislike it at all. At that time, she married Feng Gong and became her wife.
According to insiders, 's wedding was very simple, even considered a "naked wedding". There was no bride price, no wedding dress, and no house. It is no exaggeration to say that there were almost none of the things that a wedding should have.
But even so, Feng Gong and Wen Hui's hearts are sweeter than eating candied dates. This may be the magic of love. can make two people not care about material things, but only care about each other.
After marriage, Feng Gong and Wen Hui proved what "true love" is. At that time, Feng Gong was assigned to work in Beijing. However, due to household registration restrictions, his wife could only settle in Tianjin. In desperation, Feng Gong traveled around and spent all his spare time with his wife.
Later, the two sons were born, and Feng Gong also ushered in the peak of his career because of his appearance in the Spring Festival Gala. Although there was an "affair" incident, Wen Hui has always stood firmly on Feng Gong's side and never wavered.
originally thought they would live like this forever, but the plan couldn’t keep up with the changes. Some people said that “the best marriage can’t stand the time.” Even Feng Gong and Wenhui didn’t escape this curse. Happiness, , but over time, conflicts will inevitably arise.
Seeing that Feng Gong has been working outside for a long time, and his son has gradually grown up and started his own career, Wen Hui gradually felt lonely after retirement, and gradually lost sight of her own value, so she quarreled with Feng Gong more and more. It's been a long time since we saw each other, and all the time was spent arguing.
watched the relationship drift away, but he couldn't do anything, Feng Gong felt very tired about it, fortunately, Chen Daoming, who is also her husband, gave him a trick, which made him realize it completely.
Even to express his gratitude to Chen Daoming, Feng Gong bluntly said in the media: "Thank you Chen Daoming for helping me resolve the marriage crisis." It is enough to see how grateful he is to Chen Daoming for his generous help.
It was an accidental meeting. Feng Gong mentioned to Chen Daoming that the relationship between himself and his wife was not going well, and hoped that he could help him find a solution. have to say. Chen Daoming really has the right to speak in this regard, because he and his wife have always been very smooth, and there are very few conflicts in life.
Chen Daoming said this to Feng Gong at the time: "After your wife retired, her social role has also changed. She already has a job and doesn't feel lonely, but now she is alone at home. You and your son are not here, and she feels uncomfortable. It's normal."
It was these few short sentences that made Feng Gong deeply aware of his own problems. It turned out that the contradictions appeared because he didn't know his wife well enough. Since then, Feng Gong and his wife have changed the way of getting along and learned to Empathize, and stop blaming the other party for your mistakes like before, and don't reflect on your own actions.
Soon, Feng Gong and Wen Hui reconciled as before, and based on the previous relationship, the relationship between the two became better, and got along more harmoniously, as if all the unhappiness disappeared.
It's not easy to meet someone who loves each other. When conflicts arise, they must be resolved in time. Don't wait until something really goes wrong before regretting it. The most important thing between
husband and wife is to consider each other more, to understand and respect each other, so that the marriage can last for a long time and live up to the vigorous love.