At night, the office.
While the woman was not paying attention, the man knocked her to the ground with a club, and when the woman woke up, the man had tied her up.
Immediately after, the man begins to abuse the woman and takes the video.
The woman finally broke free of the rope, and the exasperated man immediately grabbed her hair and pressed it on the table, hoping to violate her immediately...
When she collapsed and despaired, the woman caught a glimpse of the pen on the table, and decisively stabbed the man in the eye with the tip of the pen .
She finally escaped, but in a panic, she was involved in a car accident.
When she wakes up, everything changes:
herself is no longer the white-collar worker she used to be, there is no man who violated her, her dead father and younger brother are resurrected, and someone who looks like her boyfriend has also become a different person. Unknown cops...
What the hell is going on here?
Last weekend, a new drama starring Xu Weining, and Alyssa Chia was launched.
So without further ado, let's talk about it today -
"She and Her"
The woman mentioned at the beginning is named Lin Chenxi, a well-known headhunting consultant in the city.
She has outstanding abilities, but to outsiders, she is a bit withdrawn, with only work and no friends.
On weekdays, Lin Chenxi basically doesn't interact with colleagues very much, and never participates in social events or anything.
In life, Lin Chenxi has a gentle and considerate boyfriend who will keep the house clean and prepare a table of meals for her to eat together.
Surprisingly, she couldn't help but want to break up, which made her boyfriend feel very insecure.
Recently, a high-level cousin, Du Junru, was parachuted into the company, which became Lin Chenxi's nightmare.
Du Junru first lied that her cousin wanted to talk to her about the details of her promotion to partner, and tricked her into a banquet she never attended, and took the opportunity to deliberately make physical contact.
Next, the two were arranged to dig an important company executive, but Du Junru failed and Lin Chenxi succeeded.
So the next day, when Lin Chenxi just arrived at the company, Du Junru suddenly rushed up and pulled her to kiss her...
Lin Chenxi was about to reprimand after she broke free, and he directly hit back:
Colleagues are all there, you are like this in the company It's really bad to hug me, show some respect, please don't do this next time!
You are clearly harassing others, how can you confidently pretend to be a victim? ? ! !
This is not the end.
came to the pantry, Du Junru started to act on Lin Chenxi, and after Lin Chenxi resisted, he started acting again:
How many times do you want me to say, I love my wife very much, can you please not harass me! !
When I saw this, my whole body exploded with anger and my blood pressure soared. How can people be so shameless?
and so on, Lin Chenxi, who couldn't bear it, decided to leave the company and planned to accept offers from other companies.
didn't admit it, Du Junru made trouble and called her to threaten her to come to the company. Then the scene at the beginning happened, Lin Chenxi got into a car accident, and she came to a "Brave New World" overnight.
then, Is Lin Chenxi crossing into a parallel world?
doesn't seem to be.
The family told her that she had been in a car accident and suffered a concussion and had forgotten many things. Dr.
said that work, boyfriend, Du Junru, etc. do not exist at all, that is a fictional plot created in her brain, caused her mental dissociation because of the car accident.
That is, the moment is real.
Although Lin Chenxi is full of doubts and is always troubled by her own fictional plot, she can only accept this setting and start a new life, gaining the long-lost family love.
During this process, Lin Chenxi met Xiao Liu, a police officer who looked exactly like her fictional boyfriend.
Lin Chenxi's high school chemistry teacher Lao Xie was killed earlier, and Xiao Liu is investigating the matter. Accompanying his investigation, Lin Chenxi's lost memories begin to recover, and some terrifying truths surface.
In high school, both Lin Chenxi and senior sister Yan Shenghua were sexually assaulted by Lao Xie. For so many years, the two have been living with incurable wounds.
Before the car accident, Lin Chenxi approached Yan Shenghua and said that he wanted to kill Lao Xie.
As a result, after Yan Shenghua gave Lao Xie a sleeping pill, Lin Chenxi's father and younger brother came back and forth, and finally the younger brother strangled Lao Xie.
All along, Xie's wife thought that Lao Xie's death must be related to Lin Chenxi, so after she woke up from a car accident, she began to approach her intentionally.
And with the development of the plot, the younger brother decided to get rid of his wife Xie.
The tragic thing is that he didn't succeed and let his wife deceive Lin Chenxi too.
Xie his wife is going to avenge her husband and get rid of Lin Chenxi.
At the critical moment, Xiao Liu arrived in time. With the help of Xiao Liu, Lin Chenxi was able to escape, but as she ran, she suddenly remembered a question:
Didn't my brother and father pass away many years ago?
Immediately after, with a series of memories, Lin Chenxi's surroundings began to change. When she recovered, she was already at the police station.
what happened?
It turns out that the death of her younger brother and father is real, and the police Xiao Liu does not exist. The original part of 's plot is the reality, and "Brave New World" is the fiction of her spiritual dissociation.
We can understand it this way, Lin Chenxi entered the world of dissociated from and then returned to reality.
The dissociation of the world is false, but some things are true.
For example, the sexual assault of Lin Chenxi and Yan Shenghua by Lao Xie really happened, and the psychological trauma has always existed.
The reason why Lin Chenxi had this dissociation was the sexual assault by Lao Xie in high school, and the trigger was the violent crime committed by Du Junru against her.
It can be said that in the whole "She and Her She", the most disturbing thing is the real feelings surrounding sexual assault and the spiritual destruction that sexual assault brings to women.
The trauma repeatedly tortured Lin Chenxi and Yan Shenghua, causing them to fall into depression.
They feel that they are disgusting.
Yan Shenghua didn't dare to tell others, he has been bearing it all by himself, Lin Chenxi finally told his parents after passing the exam painfully.
However, her father actually said this at the time: Is
true? Is it because Lao Xie is usually too strict and you lie? Did you resist? Did you not push him away?
Not to mention whether a female student can stand up to an adult male in terms of physical strength, psychologically speaking, she is still a child, and the whole person is horrified by this incident. How can you make her resist?
Later, the family asked Lao Xie for an explanation.
Lao Xie refused to admit it, and justified that he was too concerned about the students using the wrong method. His wife even brought out a set of rhetoric that could crush people to death:
What's in it for you when things got bigger? How will Lin Chenxi behave in the future? ?
Lao Xie is a model teacher. When the news spreads, who do you think people will believe?
I think everyone has heard these words, and they are still said to this day.
I just want to ask, girls are obviously victims, how can this become a stain on their lives? What are they doing wrong?
and Lao Xie's wife, she actually witnessed Lao Xie violated Lin Chenxi, but as a woman, just because the other party is her husband, she can ignore right and wrong and turn a blind eye to the suffering of Lin Chenxi, who is also a woman. We have seen a lot of situations like
in life and in the news.
Under pressure, Lin Chenxi's parents chose to settle down, but the impact of this incident did not end there.
On the contrary, it has always tormented Lin Chenxi for a long time, following her like a shadow, completely out of control, countless times of dissociation, countless times of being nearly hit by a car, countless times of being in a trance, and countless times of nightmares.
Before she found her boyfriend, Lin Chenxi also had a boyfriend. They used many methods and attempts, but Lin Chenxi still failed to get out of the shadow of sexual assault, which has also been adding negative emotions to their relationship.
She pretended to be okay again and again, trying to convince herself that there was still sunshine in the world, but she couldn't get out of being trapped in it.
Why she always wants to break up with her current boyfriend is also the reason. A life like
is really overwhelming.
In addition to sexual assault, the series also comprehensively presents the plight of women at multiple levels in their daily lives, and each can be empathetic.
Regarding being single, when Lin Chenxi decided to accept an offer from another company, the other party said something like this:
Are you planning to get married recently? I hope you can work as a married person, after all, a single and beautiful woman like you can easily get into some trouble in the company.
Regarding fertility, Chen Zhiling, Lin Chenxi's sister in the dissociation world, has someone in her company who is about to give birth. The female leader of
said that it is really irresponsible for you to suddenly become pregnant. Come back to work as soon as possible after giving birth, and some people are still on standby at home on maternity leave!
However, as Chen Zhiling said, we should be more considerate and tolerant of pregnant women, and social and corporate policies should also be inclined towards this.
Even from the perspective of utilitarianism , having children is a contribution to society.
turns a blind eye to the value of fertility, and neither acknowledges nor makes up for the loss and damage caused by fertility, how could it possibly increase the birth rate!
on "gender dominance".
is also in Chen Zhiling's company, and some female employees will dress up very sexy and charming, and go to accompany the wine to talk about business.
Chen Zhiling criticized the company's leadership, said that they use women as money-making tools, and a female employee who also participated in the wine company said:
are all voluntary, and no one forces them.
In reality, it is not uncommon to force female employees to accompany drinks, even if it is voluntary, we should also think about what is behind this voluntary.
is that if you don't "voluntarily" you may lose your job, and you won't be able to earn more salary...
Before we discuss volunteering or not, we should think clearly about why this happens? What makes it easier to negotiate a business by providing additional services?
Under the huge and complex system of oppression and materialization, how much of what people call voluntary is not the result of being alienated.
Similar to Lin Chenxi's other sister Yang Jiaying, she is a person who is good at using "femininity" and knows how to behave and dress to be more sexy and attractive to men.
However, after she attracted a man, she was secretly photographed by a man and shared with her friends...
When Yang Jiaying went to find that man, the man didn't think he was wrong at all and discussed it shamelessly, otherwise I would let me Your friend will send you his girlfriend's video too.
Not long after, Yang Jiaying's video was spread all over the Internet, and her parents had to cut ties with her.
Such stinky behavior, doesn't it happen every day somewhere on the web?
Finally, about domestic violence .
This is what happened to Yan Shenghua who grew up in the real world. Her husband is Du Junru who wants to violate Lin Chenxi.
The experience of being sexually assaulted in high school has left her with self-doubt, self-loathing, and a seriously flattering personality.
Facing Du Junru's PUA, verbal violence and physical violence, she never dared to resist, always obeyed and forbeared, and even brainwashed herself to rationalize Du Junru's behavior.
Fortunately, at the end of the episode, she finally mustered up the courage and decided to divorce Du Junru, and together with Lin Chenxi, let Du Junru get legal sanctions, and both of them gradually came out of the shadows.
It is true that this show has some problems with the rhythm, and the ending is somewhat chicken soup, but it is very difficult to express the situation of women so deeply and sincerely.
Women are not a gender but a situation.
Let everyone, including women, live in a more equal and more secure social environment, which is something everyone should strive for.
I don't have much else to say. I sincerely recommend everyone to watch this drama, whether male or female, please like and follow if you agree.
is here today!
Bye bye!
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