I didn’t know what I wanted to hear at first, and then listening to it is the end of the song. I’m most afraid of suddenly understanding a song, or reading a movie or a book. You have experienced it because of the story and mood he told.
The story of gifted scholars and beautiful ladies is mostly about the joys and sorrows. The longing together can be a blessing. In fact, it also shows that the probability of existence is not high. So how do you depend on the other half to get white? There are 3 high EQ methods that can help you.
has to choose the right person from the beginning.
The movie "Evil and the West" directed by Wong Kar-wai looks like a martial arts drama, but it is actually a literary and artistic film of love. After being young and ignorant, and experiencing the ups and downs of emotions, I realized that the original form of love has long been seen by Director Wang.
The story of how many people start from meeting, Cangyang Gyatso's ten commandments poem says that the first is best not to meet, so that you can not fall in love.
The second best is not to know each other, so you can not love each other. Just like that year, if Huang Yaoshi didn't meet the girl who loved peach blossoms, there would be no future entanglements with Murong Yan and peach blossoms.
There are eight misfortunes in life, among which the ones involved in feelings are separation, resentment, and unwillingness. Compared with the impermanence of life, most of these sufferings are caused by man-made causes.
Huang Yaoshi because the woman who likes peach blossoms has someone he likes, he also wants to know what it feels like to be liked.
So he provokes Murong Yan, who is disguised as a man, and his friend's wife Taohua. His original intention was only to vent his inner resentment that was nowhere to be released. And the person who was provoked really fell in love with him wholeheartedly.
This is the uncontrollable feeling, there is no principle of equivalent exchange. In the torment that could not be desired, Murong Yan split into Dugu seeking defeat, and in her heart, she repeatedly questioned whether she loved her or not.
Peach Blossom's happy life also ended with the departure of her husband, the blind swordsman. They all want to pursue happiness, but they use the wrong way in their relationship, and they are all unfortunate in the end.
The beginning of the relationship is very important. Choosing the right person at the beginning can ensure the development of the story in the future. And they are the people who met the wrong people, and naturally their feelings could not take root. We may only be able to meet the right person after going around, so we can be sure of his presence.
Don’t be too obsessed with right and wrong, love or dislike
. We say that the development of things has a causal relationship, and in the seemingly fragmented story of "Evil Evil and Western Poison", the root is actually Ouyang Feng and the woman who likes peach blossoms. love.
The crux of their love lies in the persistence of both parties. The woman is obsessed with asking Ouyang Feng to say whether she loves her or not, but Ouyang Feng finds it difficult to say that sentence. The
woman said, "He thought I had to marry him, but I didn't expect to later marry his brother." She thought she had won in this relationship. When she passed away, she realized that she had lost, "At her best age, the people she likes are not by her side." In fact, that sentence is not that important.
When the tormented Murong Yan treated Ouyang Feng as a yellow pharmacist, crying and whispering "If one day I ask you if you love me or not, you must say love me", Ouyang Feng found that changing to the role of yellow pharmacist is very It is easy to say love.
He later realized that this sentence was not so difficult to say. But the woman who liked peach blossoms has passed away, and his feelings will never go back.
They met the best people at the best age, but neither of them is the best self.
They are also confused and unsure, they don't know how to love, how to get love, so that they always want each other to give themselves a definite answer.
finally missed the one he loved the most, and the rest of the way is to return to the Baituo Mountain where he left.
Free and easy plus hard work, is the true meaning of feelings
When he was young, Ouyang Feng was full of hesitation. His heart was uncertain. He always wanted to see what the opposite of the mountain was, and he was afraid of making promises in his feelings.
I think if I can come back again, Ouyang Feng must be like Hong Qi, confident and free and easy, taking his wife into the rivers and lakes, who can say no, it is human.
In the movie, Hong Qi’s wife’s face is not revealed much. As a simple wife, what I see is her determination and courage to follow Hong Qi all the way. She is absolutely worthy of the spirited Hong Qi. On the contrary, the woman who loves peach blossoms turned out to be imprisoned by one of her obsessions.
In fact, in this movie, Hong Qi's story is bright and bright, like the sun, can not bear to look directly at it, it is the most free and easy section of the whole situation, it gives people a feeling of invigoration, and it is also the beginning of everyone's reflection. Behind the
mountain is still a mountain, nothing. What restricts us is always the imprisonment that we impose on ourselves.
For everyone, it is our wish to live together with the one we love. But in reality, there are often various reasons that cannot be realized.
Mr. Lu Xun said that tragedy means tearing up reality for us to see, and shed tears in other people’s stories. What we need to understand is to actively strive for what we like, to make it clear what we should say, and to be considerate and not attached.
