Love is not something you can talk about once, but you have to go through some things before you can mature.
Most people will experience love and breakup. When this day comes, they will face a choice: meet again, or never see each other again?
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"Predecessor 3: Goodbye to Ex", tells the story of urban men and women Meng Yun and Lin Jia's five-year love has entered a period of burnout, and they want to break up because of a trivial matter. And Yu Fei and Ding Dian are their mutual friends, and they are also lovers. In the process of persuading the couple to get back together, their love has also been severely tested.
's two pairs of boyfriend protagonists have an epiphany in life after experiencing various events. Although Yu Fei and Ding Dian were noisy, they never separated. They kept in contact and communicated in different ways, and they did not break up in the end. Although Meng Yun and Lin Jia were concerned about each other, they were thinking about each other in everything they did, always in their minds. Looking for memories, but unable to speak at the juncture, the two sides did not open their hearts and missed the opportunity.
The same characters have the same emotional values, but the story is refurbished. Yu Fei and Ding Dian cherish them even more after their experience, Han Geng is still the same Han Geng, but Meng Yun is no longer the Meng Yun, and he regrets it after losing it. Those who want to leave will never stay, and those who want to stay will never leave.
Compared with the love that needs face and suffers, the love that always refuses to break up is more precious.
If both parties are still single after breaking up, still in love with their ex, and firmly believe that they will no longer be defeated by any difficulties, then don't let yourself have any regrets, keep it when you need it, turn back when you need it, and cherish the love and care for you when you need it. caring person.
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reported on the Internet or the people around me, after watching "Predecessor 3: Goodbye to my ex", I suddenly remembered what my ex had done for me, gave up the people who were with me, recklessly followed suit, and went to find the person who hurt me People are friendly, and this kind of person has not learned what love is at all.
This movie does not make people miss the goodness of their predecessors, but makes people more "cherish" the people around them. Not all emotions are worth retaining, don't miss the people who are with you now and who care and care for you because of the past. The
movie is good because it can be divorced from reality. But the reality is different. Adults have to bear the consequences for everything they do, and don't blindly follow suit. The reason why
history needs to be remembered is to avoid repeating the same mistakes; the reason why the predecessor became the predecessor is to meet the real right person.
When a relationship comes to an end, no matter what the reason is, there is a proper reason for it.
A period of time has passed, and not everyone will stay in place forever. What they should do is to continue to move forward with great strides. Because not all "I love you" can be exchanged for "I love you too". All
can do is to sum up experience and understand why this relationship fails. Only by making yourself better can you meet better people.
For love, you must have the enthusiasm of "if you want to do it, do it", and act immediately; moreover, you must have the determination of "not following the trend, not wavering", persevering to the end, persevering, never giving up, and persevering until death. true love.
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What is love?
Everyone's love has experiences of different ages, stages and periods.
Some people think that love is the feeling when the hearts touch each other; some people think that love is the longest confession in company; some people think that love is always focusing on the heart no matter where you go. that person.
For true love, you must know how to see the world through the eyes of the other party; you must think about life from the perspective of the other party; you must learn to constantly appreciate the physical and mental feelings of the other party, so that selfless altruism can be strongly distributed in love.
In fact, the love and marriage relationship in "The Ex 3: Goodbye to the Ex" is not as good as it was originally imagined. With the increase of contact and the long time together, the shortcomings of each other are exposed. The things that the two sides can understand or tolerate, because they are too familiar with each other, they have less respect for each other, and they are allowed to develop into the most familiar strangers.
In the process of falling in love, Meng Yun and Lin Jia, Yu Fei and Ding Dian did not have a problem with love, but belonged to loveBeing privatized, there is attachment in love, and the concept of possession in love, more and more hope that the other party will become what you want, there is demand, and there is confrontation, between independent individuals There is less and less space for freedom, and gradually both are unwilling to be controlled and bound, so there is the possibility of pain in the love that needs to be shared, which leads to various failures and problems. In the end, selfishness is the root of the disease. affect.
avoid all kinds of problems, and love each other should handle love and marriage with compassion, equality, communication and sincerity. This is the key to getting along.
In fact, time is like a circle, no matter how time travels, it will eventually bring everything back to the original starting point.
I learned a simple truth from watching "Predecessor 3: Goodbye to my ex": love is not the initial sweetness, but after the prosperity retreats, it still never leaves.
