mentioned Ding Haifeng , many people may not know.
But when it comes to Wu Song in "Water Margin", I believe many people will slap their thighs and shout: "It turns out to be him!" Classic character.
in the play, he is upright, principled, and uncompromising. Take the super popular " People's Name " and " Wolf Warrior II " in the past few years, the image of a tough guy has made him countless fans.
Outside the play, he is also widely recognized as a good man, and he will never leave his wife with cancer.
But the relationship between the two has not always been so good. During the filming of "Water Margin", Ding Haifeng fell in love with "Pan Jinlian" actor Wang Siyi , and for a while, the scandal between the two was a lot of trouble.
is now, a proper Weibo hot search.
even Ding Haifeng almost divorced his wife Tang Ge, but I didn't expect Tang Ge's wisdom to control men to be too clever.
finally got the prodigal son back, and he never gave up on himself.
What did Tang Ge do?
01
In 1969, Ding Haifeng was born in the beautiful city of Jilin.
He was born in a dual-earner family, his father is a worker and his mother is an accountant, so his life is decent.
In his spare time, Ding Haifeng's father likes to play with musical instruments and is a master of musical instruments.
Influenced by his father, Ding Haifeng showed a strong interest in music from a very young age.
Before he could walk, every time he heard the sound of the musical instrument, he would dance with joy, his little butt turning upside down.
When he was a few years old, Ding Haifeng was obsessed with pop songs. Among the many musical instruments at home, he was particularly obsessed with guitar. He was inspired to take the exam at the Conservatory of Music.
For this ideal, my father felt bitter and could not tell, because when he was a child, he dreamed of becoming a singer, but his dream was always ruthlessly shattered by reality, and finally he had no choice but to become a worker.
However, my father didn't attack Ding Haifeng because he thought he was still young, so he would just pass by after a while.
did not expect Ding Haifeng to become more and more obsessed. In his teens, he ran to the roadside for a concert with a few younger brothers who played music. The audience was surrounded by layers.
But patronizing and playing music, his academic performance plummeted, and his parents had to start intervening.
is 15 years old, Ding Haifeng has just graduated from junior high school, his parents forced him to enter Jilin Construction Vocational School and majored in architecture, thinking that he will have a skill in the future, and it will not be a problem to support himself.
But at school, Ding Haifeng was not interested in dealing with the cold bricks and tiles all day long.
When others manipulate him, he just watches, slips when he can, and plays his music when he has time, which makes the school teachers dislike him, which makes Ding Haifeng even more rebellious.
The vocational school at the time was allocating packages. Under normal circumstances, students were assigned to construction companies after graduation.
But Ding Haifeng strongly asked him to find a job, but the school did not agree, until Ding Haifeng wrote a letter of guarantee, stating that it was voluntary and that the school would not dare to go with him.
That's it, Ding Haifeng, hiding from his parents, found a singing job in a karaoke club, worked at night, and studied music during the day.
When his parents found out, they shivered with anger and called him home immediately.
Ding Haifeng faced the questioning of his parents, revealed his music dream, and told his parents that heYou will be responsible for your life.
It was difficult for his parents to accept, and they wanted to continue to persuade him, but Ding Haifeng always insisted on his decision, and finally his parents had to let him go.
After Ding Haifeng left home, he rented a small house and was determined to realize his music dream. In order to make a living,
sings at night to earn some living expenses, and forms a band with friends who play music during the day, enjoying the sea of music. The name of the band
is "Shanhu Band", and Ding Haifeng is the guitarist.
Ding Haifeng was happy during this time with music, and luckily, he met a girl.
02
This girl is called Tang Ge, two years older than Ding Haifeng. She is a kindergarten teacher who likes music and is an amateur keyboard player.
Tang Ge has a gentle personality and a delicate mind. He likes to write poems when he has nothing to do.
Tang Ge took good care of this younger brother. Seeing that Ding Haifeng's clothes were not clean, he often washed his clothes.
Through the common love of music, the two slowly came together.
Tang Ge thinks that Ding Haifeng's image is very good, and it is not a bad choice to take the road of acting.
then encouraged Ding Haifeng to continue his studies. After hard work, Ding Haifeng was admitted to and of Jilin Academy of Arts and studied acting.
After graduating, Ding Haifeng felt that Beijing still had more opportunities to act, so he decided to go to Beijing to develop.
But this is about to separate from his girlfriend who has been in love for four years. Unexpectedly, Tang Ge quit his official job and wants to go with him.
In 1993, like many young people from Beidri, they lived in the basement and could make do with steamed buns and pickles.
just arrived in Beijing, and he couldn't take on any leading roles, so he kept playing tricks and played any roles.
persisted for two years, Ding Haifeng accumulated a lot of acting experience, and finally encountered the biggest turning point in his life.
In 1994, CCTV invested in the filming of the 98th edition of "Water Margin", which was the last of the four famous novels to be filmed at that time, so the whole country was looking forward to it.
was prepared from the beginning, and most of the domestic actors came to audition.
The director in charge of this drama is called Zhang Shaolin . At that time, he has won the Feitian Award for Excellent Director for many TV series such as " Yang Jiajiang ".
Zhang Shaolin's definition of the Water Margin is different from the original, and he has his own ideas, especially the role selection.
For example, Pan Jinlian, he wants to show not the image of a prostitute from the beginning, but a process of gradual change of a good family woman.
So the role of Pan Jinlian took a year and a half to choose, and Wang Siyi was finally chosen.
Wu Song is even more difficult to choose. The Wu Song he wants to show is not a rude strong man, but a young man with spirited eyes and a chivalrous man.
tried one after another, but always didn't like it.
One day, Zhang Shaolin occasionally saw a rural TV drama played by Ding Haifeng on TV, and he fell in love with Ding Haifeng at a glance.
Ding Haifeng is 1.82 meters tall, handsome and upright, with some majesty in his eyes. After contacting
, Ding Haifeng came to audition for the play. Due to his suitable image and acting experience, he was finally selected successfully.
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was very difficult. Due to the technical limitations at the time, there was no good animation special effects, so I could only choose a real tiger to fight him.
Hearing this, Ding Haifeng beat drums in his heart, isn't this a joke, who dares to fight a real tiger?
had no choice but to bite the bullet because he had the momentum of a young man. Before the filming of
, the crew told Ding Haifeng that they had bought him an insurance of 100,000 yuan, so that he could act with confidence. After saying this, Ding Haifeng was even more afraid. Although the filming of
is very thrilling, Ding Haifeng has "gained" in another matter.
In the process of acting, Ding Haifeng fell in love with Wang Siyi, the actor of Pan Jinlian.
Pan Jinlian and Wu Song have a lot of opposite scenes, so the two actors have frequent private contacts.
Wang Siyi's appearance and figure are too tempting. Ding Haifeng did not sit still like Wu Song in the play.
Wang Siyi's drama was finished early, but Ding Haifeng asked her to stay for one more month to accompany him to finish the last few scenes.
Soon, the scandal between the two became a lot of trouble, and Tang Ge was hit hard. He stayed at home every day and washed his face with tears.
Ding Haifeng went home quickly after hearing about it, but what he said to Tang Ge was: "I fell in love with Wang Siyi." Two scattered.
didn't expect Tang Ge to say: "That's great, hurry up and leave, I can finally find someone who can read my poems. Okay, think about it, and give me the result directly."
finished. , Tang Ge left the house, leaving Ding Haifeng at a loss.
03
Tang Ge didn't make a fuss like other girls, she knew that it wouldn't solve the problem, but it would annoy the other party.
She left calmly, let Ding Haifeng calm down, and prepared to use tenderness to melt this tough guy's heart.
Tang Ge's reaction surprised Ding Haifeng and felt a little overwhelmed. The next day, Ding Haifeng received a letter from Tang Ge that contained a poem.
Ding Haifeng took a can of beer and read while drinking.
After reading this poem, Ding Haifeng put the letter to his chest and stared blankly at the night outside the window.
's past moments, like a movie, played slowly in his mind, and his memory suddenly returned to the time when the two first met.
Back then, he was cool, with long hair, in denim, and when the guitar rang, he would just get carried away and forget all his troubles.
But this sister, who is two years older than him, gradually became more and more important in his heart.
Tang Ge usually has a gentle personality, but when he plays the electronic keyboard , he is uncharacteristically free and unrestrained.
Tang Ge offered to help him wash his clothes, but he brought a lot of them, but Tang Ge didn't have any objection and helped him wash them all. After
got together, they were strongly opposed by their parents.
Ding Haifeng's parents felt that Tang Ge was a little old and wanted their son to find something smaller; Tang Ge's parents even disagreed, because Ding Haifeng was dressed like a rock youth at that time, yes, yellow hair, jeans , look in the mirror all day long.
Ding Haifeng doesn't care about the opinions of his parents. He was very rebellious from the beginning. He never thought that Tang Ge, a good girl from a young age, would follow Ding Haifeng with all his heart despite the opposition of his parents.
When Ding Haifeng chose Bei Piao, Tang Ge actually gave up his official job, almost broke with his family, and had to go to Beijing with him to endure hardship.
arrived in Beijing, and the two received a marriage certificate , sharing joys and sorrows, Ding Haifeng is a big man, and he doesn't care about many things at home, but Tang Ge always takes care of his life in an orderly manner, so that he has no worries and concentrates. Working hard...
thought of this, Ding Haifeng raised his head and drank the remaining half can of beer.
, who had never written a letter, picked up a pen and wrote a thousand-word apology letter to his wife, deeply reviewing his own problems.
turned around and called Wang Siyi again, expressing a deep apology.
04
The two got back together, Tang Ge took care of Ding Haifeng as always, and it seemed that nothing had happened.
After this incident, Ding Haifeng has changed completely. In the past, he didn't care about the details of family life. Now he starts to observe life and appreciate Tang Ge's goodness.
He finally realized that Tang Ge was not only in his life, but in his heart, even in his blood.
From that incident, Ding Haifeng deliberately avoided Wang Siyi while filming, so as to avoid the recurrence of scandals and hurt all three.
In 2000, when his daughter was born, Tang Ge devoted himself to taking care of the children at home, and Ding Haifeng also started the mode of pampering his daughter and his wife.
As long as there is no filming, go home immediately, help with housework, or take the girls out to play.
Later, the TV series " Blue Enchantress " started filming and wanted to invite Ding Haifeng, but when Ding Haifeng learned that the heroine was Wang Siyi, he planned to reject it.
or Tang Ge told him that if he deliberately avoided it, it would make people more misunderstood.
Ding Haifeng went to participate in the show, but I didn't expect the rumors to rise again, saying "the two will continue their relationship".
Ding Haifeng was very worried that Tang Ge would not be able to bear it, so he called Tang Ge every day, but Tang Ge was very calm and said he would not believe those.
Wang Siyi was worried about Tang Ge's misunderstanding, so he made a special trip to Ding Haifeng's house. The three of them sat together and talked about it.
Tang Ge not only did not hold grudges, but also became good friends with Wang Siyi.
Since then, this bad relationship has finally come to an end, Ding Haifeng no longer has these concerns, and finally concentrates on his acting career.
In those years, Ding Haifeng made a lot of TV dramas such as "'s Passionate Years ", "Shooting the Condor", " Jiangmen Fengyun " and so on.
Ding Haifeng's career is booming. After he had savings, he bought a house in Beijing. Tang Ge took the initiative to take Ding Haifeng's parents over to live with him.
plus two children, Tang Ge's daily life is busy but also very happy.
Originally, life here, the ending should be very beautiful. But fate always loves to make fun of people. In 2015, Tang Ge was diagnosed with breast cancer . Tang Ge was hit hard, and his mood suddenly fell to the bottom.
Ding Haifeng, who was at the peak of his career at the time, couldn't think about it, he immediately dismissed all the dramas, accompanied his wife to the hospital for treatment every day, told her jokes and made her happy.
Slowly, after more than two years, Tang Ge's condition improved, Ding Haifeng then devoted himself to his career, and filmed classic roles such as "In the Name of the People" and "Wolf Warrior II".
wrote at the end:
Ding Haifeng is excellent in and out of the play, the audience loves his acting skills, and everyone around him praises Ding Haifeng as a good man.
But Ding Haifeng himself said that he can perform such a good drama, all because of the silent support of his wife behind his back, so that he can devote himself to his career and perform high-quality dramas.
He's not perfect, and he's had an emotional desertion.
But now, Ding Haifeng never leaves his wife with cancer. When facing the media, Ding Haifeng said to Tang Ge: "I can give everything I have for you, even my life." Saying that the prodigal son has turned his back is already laudable.
And, the tried and tested love is stronger.
Do you think Ding Haifeng is a good man?
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Reference:
"Very Couple" Beijing Science and Education TV
"52-year-old Ding Haifeng plays Wu Song again, his wife is ill and never abandons, but there is a scandal with "Pan Jinlian" Baijia account. Author: Lu You Mo Yuji
"National Tough Guy Ding Haifeng: Married a wife two years older, married for more than 30 years and a cancer-stricken wife like first love" NetEase
