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In the latest plot of " exam ", 5 college students from different families began to complain about various dissatisfaction in the group.
Wu Jiajun , who wants to take the art test, complained: "Nth time I talk to my parents about collapse", Tian Wenwen, who was put away by her parents, replied: "It's better than my mother who doesn't care about me at all."
has a "waste dad" The Xueba Zhou Bowen said: "It's better than I have to take care of my dad."
In fact, compared to the two "extreme situations" Wu Jiajun and Tian Wenwen, as well as the fatherless Gao Mingyu, his parents Pan Xiaoxuan, who is divorced from various groups of families, Zhou Bowen is really the happiest.
Zhou Bowen's father and mother are both by his side, and his mother cares about him without caring too much. Everything is just right.
And his "waste dad" Zhou Meiren, besides playing games and not working, really has no other problems. He is terribly afraid of his son, as if he is a "son" and Zhou Bowen is " dad".
I believe that many people do not understand Zhou Bowen's mother like me. She is very hardworking and needs help in opening a restaurant, but why does she condone her husband's idleness and laziness, and support him to be a "trash"? ?
I didn't understand Zhou Bowen's mother until I saw Zhou Meiren pick up his wife's hand and kiss him, and asked her to help him draw game equipment. The root cause of condoning husbands.
"Trash" Zhou Meiren
has to say, Wang Xiao really brought Zhou Meiren to life!
is a 40-year-old middle-aged man who wears pajamas all day and is sloppy. Apart from eating and sleeping, he is sitting in front of the computer and playing games with headphones on. From time to time, he shouts and dances with excitement.
is such a man with healthy limbs, but he is lazy to the point of being worse than a child:
's wife will not take the initiative to serve the meal when his wife is ready; he is reluctant to get up to help when his wife changes the light bulb alone; , He didn't even want to get up, and he was lying on his wife's lap to act like a spoiled child. After the wife had coaxed him, she had to warm him up.
The key is that his son is going to take the college entrance examination, Zhou Meiren not only doesn't care, but also plays games with his computer all day.
Dad doesn't care about his son, but his son cares about his dad. Zhou Bowen first changed the password of Zhou Meiren's game account, and then dismantled the computer host.
This toss almost killed Zhou Meiren, he became overwhelmed and completely paralyzed! All day long, secretly and secretly pestering his wife to find his son to intercede.
Zhou Meiren, where is this husband and father? Obviously "son".
No wonder everyone says that Zhou Bowen's mother "married a son and gave birth to a father", nothing is more apt than this description!
Zhou's mother who "does her husband as her son"
In fact, if Zhou Bowen's mother didn't dote on her husband, Zhou Meiren's "waste life" would not be so comfortable and comfortable.
When Zhou Bowen threatened his father to work for his mother with a game account, the mother's strengths of "protecting the calf" began to come into play.
For example, Zhou Bowen asked his father to get up early to accompany his mother to go shopping at the vegetable market, but Zhou Meiren couldn't get up. When Zhou Bowen used the trick, Zhou's mother stopped him:
let him adapt slowly.
finally got to the vegetable market, Zhou Meiren was so sleepy that he couldn't keep his eyes open, Zhou's mother let him sleep in the car, go to buy and move the goods by himself, let Zhou Meiren go to play with friends on the way back, and then lied to his son about Zhou Meiren has done a lot of work.
Zhou's mother treats her husband like a parent pampering a child.
has another scene that makes people laugh.
Zhou's mother asked Zhou Meiren to eat. Seeing that there was no movement, she ran to the bedroom to find him. Seeing Zhou Meiren lying on the bed, Mother Zhou whispered in his ear that she had made dried bamboo shoots and shredded pork noodles like she was coaxing her child.
Zhou Meiren said that he couldn't eat and felt uncomfortable. Zhou's mother quickly probed his forehead, and there was no problem. Zhou's mother sat beside him and stroked his head. In fact, he just wanted to play games.
Looking at it again, Zhou Meiren turned over and lay on his wife's lap and acted like a spoiled child. Apart from his size and age, he was just a "baby", and Zhou's mother liked her husband's lazy appearance.
"About Zhou Meiren"
Mother Zhou saw her husband's thoughts, he just wanted a game account and a computer, so he persuaded Zhou Bowen, Zhou Bowen couldn't handle this "mud can't support the wall" dad anymore , let him fend for himself.
Zhou Bowen persuaded his mother to divorce his father, but his mother insisted that Zhou Meiren could not be abandoned because he did not have the ability to live independently.
This makes Zhou Bowen even more incomprehensible. What is the picture of mother marrying mother?
Zhou Bowen persuaded his mother to get a divorce, so he had to persuade his mother to stop his father's pocket money, stop being so tolerant to him, and make sure that he could take care of him obediently.
But her mother was still reluctant, because she married Zhou Meiren just to live, not to make him be obedient to her.
Zhou Bowen was even more puzzled. What did his mother think of him when she married such a man?
Zhou's mother only revealed her hidden secrets. In fact, Zhou Meiren was not like this before. He is the most famous bricklayer in Shili Baxiang, and he has been famous since he was a teenager.
Later, because Zhou's mother wanted to take her son to go to school in the city, she secretly sold the land and real estate at home. Zhou Meiren was forced to work in the city, but he could not communicate with others, and changed several decoration teams to do it. No, had to give up.
Zhou Meiren was still helping at the restaurant at home, but he couldn't do anything well, so Zhou's mother wouldn't let him do it, and let him do whatever he wanted, and Zhou's mother alone took up the responsibility of supporting the family.
Maybe Zhou's mother felt that she owed her husband, because she asked to come to the city, which ruined Zhou Meiren's career, so he would not let him make any sacrifices for the rest of his life.
However, this is not the fundamental reason why Zhou's mother indulges her husband. After all, the children are theirs. Zhou Meiren blames him for not finding a job, and Zhou's mother moved her to the city to give her son a better education.
The root cause of "Mother Zhou indulges Zhou Meiren"
Actually, the fundamental reason why Mother Zhou indulges Zhou Meiren to be delicious and lazy is only two words - love.
If Zhou's mother did not love her husband, she would not have put up with him for more than ten years. No matter how good-tempered she was, she would not be as cheerful as she was, and she was extremely gentle to her husband and son.
A woman's state after marriage depends to a large extent on how her husband treats her. If there is a husband who is moody and bad-tempered, the woman will become a grudge.
And Zhou's whole body is relaxed and at ease. It's impossible to pretend. After all, her eyes won't lie, and she and Zhou Meiren won't lie. If she doesn't have love in her heart, she doesn't want to. Get close to the other half.
And the reason why Zhou Bowen's mother loves Zhou Meiren very much is because Zhou Meiren also loves his wife very much, and Zhou Meiren can bring her spiritual pleasure.
Zhou's family has only one son. He has good grades and is sensible. He doesn't need parents to worry about it at all. The only thing Zhou's mother has to do is to provide logistical support for her son. Her restaurant is enough to make the family live without worries.
Therefore, as long as no family members are sick, Zhou's mother can be said to have no life pressure; as long as the family atmosphere is harmonious and family relations are harmonious, Zhou's mother will have no psychological burden.
So Zhou's mother doesn't need her husband to make money for her, as long as her husband is in good health, she is satisfied. The most important thing is that Zhou Meiren has a good temper.
is not good-tempered because Zhou Meiren doesn't work and feels ashamed, but because of love.
In fact, good or bad temper has nothing to do with people's abilityThere are some capable men in life who are still very irritable; there are also some unscrupulous men who take up everything in food, drink, prostitution and gambling, and still abuse their wives.
So, compared to those men, Zhou Meiren looks too cute.
No matter how his son treats him, he will never lose his temper. Whether it is changing the game password, dismantling the console, or reporting him to gather in a crowd to play cards, he always looks like a "good boy", holding his computer and hanging his head in frustration, half-hearted. Can't say a bad word.
Zhou Meiren won't even take his anger out on his wife. His good temper and good mood for decades are really rare!
This is also an important reason why Zhou Bowen can grow up to be a sunny and mentally healthy big boy.
Zhou Meiren was like a child who made mistakes in front of his son, he didn't dare to let out the air;
was like a pampered and arrogant child in front of his wife who only acted like a spoiled child.
It's not that there is no future, but that there is love. This is the fundamental reason why Bowen's mother is used to Zhou Meiren.
