has been chasing the drama " dear life ".
She is the heroine, but I have never had the courage to tell her story, because her story is too distressing!
01. She offended relatives everywhere
Although she was the only child in the family when she was a child, she was not loved by her father and grandmother at all.
When her father was 3 years old, her grandfather died, and her grandmother pulled her father to grow up by herself, and her father became a typical mother and treasure boy.
's father is the only son in the family, and grandma puts the burden of inheriting the family on his father.
When her mother gave birth to her, her gender became a thorn in the hearts of grandma and father.
Because her parents had jobs at the time and they couldn't have a second child, her grandmother put all her grievances on her.
Because she is a girl, grandma doesn't like to see her, and her name is not eligible to appear on the family tree.
Because she is a girl, her father doesn't like her, and he often wrongs her to appease her grandma.
Because she is a girl, the children of her relatives often bully her. She resists and offends her relatives.
She became the broom star in the eyes of grandma, the unfilial daughter in the mouth of her father, and her relatives said she was a bad boy.
Her family of origin suffocates her.
02. She is studying hard and making progress
In order to survive, she has to run away!
She studied hard and achieved excellent grades since she was a child. In the end, she completed a bachelor’s, master’s and doctoral degree and became a trainee of obstetrics and gynecology in a famous hospital.
To improve her sewing skills, she trains day and night. When
was in the hospital, she practiced diligently. After returning home, she continued to practice with chicken legs.
She only sleeps 6 hours a day.
because she knew that if she didn't work hard and couldn't take root in the city, she would have to go back to her hometown and relive her childhood nightmare.
finally escaped. She didn't want to go back and continue to suffer. The patriarchal preference of her grandmother and her father really made her unacceptable.
Her hard work and progress have also brought hope. Her stitching skills are among the highest among the same class of Pearsons.
is not perfect. Although she has strong business ability, her unsmiling personality hinders her normal communication with others, especially when she encounters family members who prefer sons to daughters, she will lose control of her emotions.
All of this is the pain her family of origin brought her.
03. She was reported by her biological father
thought she was slowly and successfully leaving her original family, but she was still dragged down by her original family.
Her parents went to the hospital to find her without telling her. When
saw her mother, she was stunned, because her 50-year-old mother was pregnant with Liujia.
She was so angry that even if her parents begged her to set up a file for her mother in the hospital, she would not agree.
What's even more excessive is that the father keeps asking her to confirm the sex of the child when she gives the mother B super .
She didn't agree, her father stalked her, and it was too much that her parents asked her colleagues for help. In order to send her parents away early,
lied to her father that her mother was a boy.
's father felt that he was finally old enough to have a son, and happily took his mother away.
But the mother is old and has many underlying diseases. An accident occurred in the late pregnancy, causing cerebral hemorrhage .
Although the mother's operation went well, she became a vegetable. In the end,
could only perform a cesarean section for her mother. Her mother gave birth not to a son, but to a daughter.
When the father found out that he had given birth to another daughter, he was insane. The long-awaited son was gone. The father made something out of nothing and reported to the hospital that she was doing fetal gender identification without permission.
's father was very cruel. After reporting her, he returned to his hometown.
not only took care of her mother's funeral for herself, but also threw her second daughter in the hospital.
After she was reported, the hospital suspended her and she had to take care of her newborn sister.
Her difficulties are really distressing.
epilogue:
herThe story is true and heart-wrenching.
In rural areas, the idea of patriarchal women has brought a lot of pain to many girls, and it takes them a lifetime to heal.
I was also born in the countryside, but I'm lucky because my parents didn't give preference to sons and daughters, thank them, thank you!
