's " Thirty Only ", the sweet and lovely Zhong Xiaoqin played by Mao Xiaotong , and the steady and deep Chen Yu played by Yang Jue are a young couple. Chen Yu, who works in the system, owns the fundraising room , which is divided by the unit. The two live in this small home and live an orderly life.
However, Xiaoqin suffered a miscarriage in her first pregnancy. When the child was gone, Xiaoqin cried every day, but Chen Yu behaved numbly, which made Xiaoqin feel chills. In addition, in daily life, Chen Yu basically did not communicate with Xiaoqin, and he didn't keep his appointment for no reason. Chen Yu wanted her to obey his will in everything. Xiaoqin felt that this person had no feelings for her, so she decided to go through the divorce procedures with him. After
divorced, Xiaoqin was enthusiastically pursued by a young, handsome and rich male colleague Zhong Xiaoyang , which made Xiaoqin regain her sweetness. However, after going around, Xiaoqin remarried her old love Chen Yu.
Zhong Xiaoyang is a boy who fell in love with Xiaoqin at first sight. He is usually very attentive to her, coaxing people, and very romantic. He makes surprises from time to time, and treats his sister Xiaoqin, who is six years older than him, as a little girl. As the saying goes, good horses don't eat back grass, and in the face of the fresh meat younger brother who loves her passionately, why did Xiaoqin fail to accept the cute and considerate newcomer, but returned to her ex-husband's arms?
In my opinion, the main reason why Xiaoqin eats the "returning grass" is precisely that when they divorced, Chen Yu was willing to give half of the fund-raising room divided by the unit to Xiaoqin when they divorced. Originally, Chen Yu bought this suite before marriage, and they repaid the loan together after marriage, but Chen Yu's income was much higher than Xiaoqin's, and most of the loan repayment was borne by Chen Yu.
Throughout the society, the most important wealth of every family is the house. When countless couples divorced, they fought hard to get more property for themselves, especially the house issue. For the ownership of their ancestral property, their biological brothers and sisters often staged scenes of going to court to fight.
Chen Yu and Xiaoqin who got married after a blind date have only lived together for more than three years. Chen Yu, who has a dull personality and is not good at expressing his feelings, judging from the details of his usual life with Xiaoqin, he has no enthusiasm for Xiaoqin at all, and even despises her from time to time. For example, she disliked her naivety like a child, she didn't grow up, she couldn't bring a baby at all, so she didn't want to have children for a few years. At home, he spends more time with Yu than with Xiaoqin.
is who would rather look at a tank of colorful tropical fish affectionately than accompany his daughter-in-law or even want their children, and don't want to take a look at her. He has no fun, no enthusiasm, no communication, no coaxing She was not very considerate to accompany her husband. When she divorced, she offered to give her half of her house. Xiaoqin never expected it. This behavior of
Chen Yu illustrates the following points.
First of all, Chen Yu attached great importance to this marriage, and also cared about Xiaoqin very much. The biggest recognition a man can give his daughter-in-law is that he is willing and extremely sure to give half of his hard-earned wealth to the other party, which is impossible for countless selfish and heartless men.
Secondly, he usually ignores Xiaoqin's love and breaks appointments many times. On the one hand, it is because he has a dull personality and does not want to express his love directly. On the other hand, many men feel that their daughter-in-law is already a family member after marriage. It is necessary to ask questions like when they are in love again, and take care of them everywhere. Instead, they are more willing to spend more time on their work, hobbies, and being with buddies.
Finally, Chen Yu said that he wanted to use this half of the house to make up for the mental blow and emotional damage to Xiaoqin caused by the child's miscarriage. This shows that Chen Yu cares about Xiaoqin and the little fetus, and has feelings. After the miscarriage, Xiaoqin felt that Chen Yu was indifferent, and even felt that he, the father, didn't want children, and the fetus could not survive because he felt it. Of course, when she lost her child, her emotions were out of control, and her heart was fragile, it was understandable to think like this.
In fact, when Chen Yu accompanied Xiaoqin to the hospital for an obstetric checkup, it was the first time I heard about the fetusAfter 's fetal heart beat 's powerful "boom blah blah" sound, he was excitedly looking forward to the arrival of the child, which completely changed his mentality of not wanting a child. The fetus failed to survive, and Chen Yu felt very sad and lost, but he was always emotionally restrained, so he couldn't release his fragile emotions like Xiaoqin with snot and tears.
In her marriage with Chen Yu, Xiaoqin felt depressed and dull, and she often disagreed with Chen Yu's thoughts on big and small matters, and she had to obey this macho husband unconditionally. So as soon as she got divorced, she released herself. Every day apart from going to work, she happily went to play and have fun. She also had a handsome younger brother by her side, who was regarded as her bodyguard and company.
So why did Zhong Xiaoqin choose to remarry?
first, Chen Yu offered to divide her half of the house so that she could see Chen Yu's sincerity towards herself.
is second, from all aspects, Chen Yu is still a good man, a good husband, and now a reliable man who cares about his wife and can be depended on is still very rare and worth cherishing.
For example, Gu Jia and her husband have a solid relationship based on their relationship experience, she gave everything for her family, her husband and children, but Xu Huanshan still couldn't control herself and cheated Lin Youyou , Before that, there was a little bit of ambiguous plot with the company's female subordinate. Fortunately, Gu Jia got the female employee out of the game in time, otherwise a fire in the backyard would inevitably occur. But the marriage eventually broke down.
Let's see her best friend Wang Manni , the wealthy and free Hong Kong businessman Liang Zhengxian pursues her, gives her a luxury car, and takes her to meet elites from the upper classes of society, such as international big-name designers. But he concealed his girlfriend of seven years. In fact, this girlfriend has always been supported by Liang, and her identity is no different from that of his wife. It's just that Liang pretends to be a non-marriageist and has not registered for marriage. Manni, who thought she had found a multi-gold man, fell into the predicament of the third mistress. Her inner anxiety and pain and the blow she received once caused her career and life to go downhill.
In contrast, when proposed to divorce Chen Yu, Chen Yu did not cheat, nor was he irresponsible to the family. Although he did not speak sweetly, he was able to live with Xiaoqin in a down-to-earth way. He has some of the common problems with straight men, but he doesn't make those unforgivable mistakes.
In addition, Xiaoqin is a girl who cares about her parents very much. Chen Yu, her husband, is a good choice in the eyes of her parents, but Zhong Xiaoyang, who is very young and may not be fully mature, does not agree with Zhong's mother and Zhong's father.
Therefore, Xiaoqin did not accept Zhong Xiaoyang in the end, but remarried her ex-husband Chen Yu, which was based on her in-depth understanding of Chen Yu and the multiple perspectives of her parents and herself. Moreover, she was a little impulsive when she filed for divorce, and this incident also made Chen Yu reflect on himself deeply and made him willing to change himself for Xiaoqin, and the two finally came together again logically.
