movie " Marriage Story " was released in December 2019. This film, which has been nominated for 6 Oscars, is still mentioned from time to time even though it has been out for three years.
recently saw several comment posts about it, some from the perspective of "vulnerable women", some from the perspective of "people are confused in things", and so on. Naturally, these perspectives have their own merits, but I cannot fully agree with some of them. As the saying goes, there are a thousand readers, there are a thousand Hamlets, so, there are a thousand viewers, there are a thousand "Marriage Story". Not one thousand, but eight hundred.
Actually, I don't like this movie, just because it's too real, so real that it hurts my heart. Although marriage is no longer a big deal in contemporary society, everyone has the right to choose their own way of life, or single, or cohabitation, or marriage, or divorce, or divorce and end, whatever, this is not a big deal.
may be more because he sees the selfish side of human nature. The movie
not only once again truly presents a common phenomenon, that is, when either party wants to end a marriage, it turns out to be so irreversible and there is no room for it. And because it tells people how selfish the pair were when they decided to fly separately.
Nicole and Charlie in this process, in addition to showing low IQ confusion, they are eager to protect their selfish side. Because of this, it is irrational to lead a matter that could have been peacefully resolved into an escalating divorce war.
is also because they are so busy taking into account their own feelings that they rarely think about the loneliness and confusion of taking care of the egg under the nest - of course, children should not and will not be a real obstacle to divorce. If
wasn't selfish, he wouldn't force his child to spend Halloween twice in one night. Nicole insists on keeping Charlie out of her Halloween schedule because she feels so at ease. And after Charlie took over the child from Nicole, he forced him to go to the street again to ask for candy. I wonder, is this making up for the missing fatherly love? Compensate for yourself!
Many times, people's love for themselves is expressed as "selfless and endless" love for others.
It also makes people see a marriage that has ended. It can devour a person's past without leaving any residue, not only because of the huge legal fees that both parties have been swept away, but also because of the tearing of family love through divorce. Even the identity of the father.
Of course, none of these should be excuses for not getting a divorce and making do, but they are by no means selfish excuses.
