recently pulled the literary film " into the dust ", with a cumulative box office of over 100 million, but the controversy has never stopped.
Gansu peasant Ma Youtie and his wife's despised life and humble love shocked countless viewers.
Some people lamented that the whole drama did not say bitterness, but the bitterness went out of the sky. The whole play does not say love, but love to the bone marrow. There were no tears in the audience, but the tears flowed into a stream.
Some people complain about over-promoting negative energy, smearing rural China, and the description of "poverty" is too exaggerated...
can only say that in today's era of worry-free food and clothing, many people have indeed lost their imagination of poverty.
As the heroine of this film and the only professional actor in it, Haiqing successfully subverted everyone's inherent impression of her.
Many viewers admire her breakthrough, and it reminds me of her real work, " double-sided tape ", which is considered to be the pinnacle of her acting skills before she became a big hit.
A man is the double-sided tape in marriage, sticking his mother and wife tightly together. Once he has selfishness and his behavior is biased, the relationship will inevitably lose the bond of connection and collapse.
At first, this play doesn't seem to be anything special, it's nothing more than the trivial things in family life, the conflicts between husband and wife, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
But after the broadcast, the reaction was super strong, and it became a hot topic after dinner.
Shanghai girl Hu Lijuan was raised a little arrogantly by her parents, but she has no bad intentions.
looks shrewd, but in fact is a simple-minded fool.
Growing up in a long hall, she insisted on marrying Li Yaping, a young man from Northeast China who stayed in Shanghai to work after graduating from college.
Yaping was born poor and worked hard in Shanghai alone. Fortunately, his own conditions were good. At that time, his salary exceeded 10,000 yuan, and he was considered a phoenix man.
Lijuan's mother always wanted her daughter to find a local boyfriend, so she strongly opposed: this person, you need no family background, no background, you are a little girl in Shanghai, you can choose any man from all over the world, can you give Mom pick a better one?
Hu Lijuan is immersed in love. She believes that Yaping is "tall and has a sense of security". More importantly, she is not petty and never checks her cell phone, nor does she object to her taking calls from other men.
In order to convince her mother, she did not hesitate to use "false pregnancy" to deceive her and not marry him.
With the help of Lijuan's parents, the young couple bought a house and held a wedding.
After more than a year of marriage, Li Yaping obeyed Lijuan's words, asked Lijuan for help, and took care of him in every possible way. He was completely a good husband.
Lijuan also admires and relies on her husband, and she is glad that she did not see the wrong person.
Until the arrival of Yaping's parents, the peaceful life of the couple was completely broken.
To say that Lijuan and her mother-in-law did not have malicious intentions at the beginning of their relationship.
's mother-in-law ( Li Mingqi ) first arrived in Shanghai, rushing to contribute to the family's cleaning and cooking; Lijuan will also invite her mother-in-law to watch TV together and tell her not to eat leftovers.
But then the conflicts of various trivial matters piled up, exposing the core contradiction between the two families - the three views are different.
After her mother-in-law came, Yaping once again enjoyed the treatment of "clothing and eating and opening her mouth", and began to complain that Lijuan did not boil bath water for him or prepare clothes.
Even when confronted with conflicts, Yaping always stands by her mother unconditionally, always hoping that Lijuan can endure.
The mother-in-law, who suffers from machismo at home, looks at Lijuan, who makes people feel uncomfortable -
How can you be so used to your daughter-in-law?
This is family style! Men are confessed at home, how can they practice like that? I just don't allow it! At least don't take pleasure in being an old man! Look at her like that, and ask you to serve rice, why did she come with her hands empty? Shitty stickers.
wife, you need education!
Yaping, who has received ideological education in the new era, did not correct his mother's theory of "men are superior to women", but was persuaded.
So the old lady began to discipline her daughter-in-law for her son under Yaping's silence.
A plate of braised pork needs to be eaten by her husband and father-in-law, Lijuan will be scolded as "greedy" if she eats one more piece; The cuckoo poured the water and commanded his daughter-in-law to wash the dishes arrogantly...
Lijuan said that she was not ready to have children first, and was trained to cry by her macho in-laws.
In these disputes, Yaping has been trying to use cold and violent methods in exchange for Lijuan's compromise.
Yaping's father was diagnosed with cancer. Her mother-in-law felt distressed that her son was tired from work during the day, and asked Lijuan and herself to take turns in bed.
Lijuan was angry but she only felt sorry for her son, so she refused and offered to add Yaping, and the three took turns.
Yaping's father scolded: This kind of woman is not virtuous or filial, just treat it as not. And Yaping also used her indifferent behavior that night to express her condemnation of Lijuan.
The tortured Lijuan gave Yaping a sense of accomplishment. He felt that he was finally not "trodden on" by Lijuan.
After a long time, his violence is no longer just spiritual.
With the frequent accidents of Li Yaping's family, their family madly sucked the blood of Lijuan's family.
Finally one day, Lijuan broke out.
But she has always been hard-mouthed and soft-hearted. She never expected that her originally gentle and considerate husband would show such a horrible and hateful face.
"Hu Lijuan! I'll kill you!!!"
Yaping jumped up, grabbed Lijuan's neck, and pressed it down with all her might, and the back of Lijuan's head was smashed against the wall.
After this time, the mother-in-law fainted, and Lijuan escaped and moved out of the house.
Faced with an irreversible situation, he showed a fierce look and chased after Li Juan and shouted:
"If you want to leave, this family, my mother, my son, and me must stay, you Get out of here!"
In the end, Yaping's father's health is getting worse day by day, and he wants to hold a grandson.
Yaping started a "love" attack on Lijuan, who was still in love.
After Yaping's father died and Lijuan gave birth, he acquiesced to his cousin and mother to bully his daughter-in-law.
even came home from get off work one day, and the baby called Lijuan, "Mom... bad."
Lijuan thought it was taught by her mother-in-law, and the final battle broke out!
Yaping beat his daughter-in-law fiercely.
At the end of the story, Yaping's mother is critically ill, and Lijuan brings her child to see the old lady for the last time.
Many people think that this drama is filled with a family-suppressing atmosphere, which is too tortuous. How can there be so many shocking contradictions in ordinary families?
But after reading the prototype of the original novel, I realized how warm and harmonious the ending is in the TV series. At the end of the
TV series, they just got divorced.
In reality, Lijuan's prototype was beaten to death by her husband, the woman's father couldn't bear the blow, died of a heart attack, and her mother became mentally ill because of it, and she is still in the Shanghai mental hospital...
The original author once interviewed the male protagonist's prototype, She later recalled:
"The murderer grinned at us and said that he was looking for a Shanghai woman to get rid of poverty for the whole family. Now, the Shanghai husband and wife refused to give money to subsidize his family, so why did he keep his Shanghai wife?"
Li Yaping is a A typical Phoenix man, cowardly and selfish, he will do anything to stay in the metropolis.
In his eyes, Hu Lijuan has never been a lover or a wife, but a springboard and a tool to satisfy the interests of their whole family.
If "Hidden in the Dust" is far from real life, but no matter the time, people will be troubled by worldliness, selfish desires, contradictions, diseases, and be wrapped up in unpredictable and unpredictable lives.
Whenever, you have to understand: Marriage is support, not poverty alleviation.
You can only be happy if you are evenly matched.
