Sa Beining once said: "If you decide to be splendid, the mountains are not covered, the sea is not blocked."
And in " Xinghan is brilliant ", from the heroine, you can see a little girl who is independent and self-reliant Mother
After watching this drama, I was not only attracted by the plot, but also moved by the stories between the characters, and applauded their online acting skills.
I believe that many people are like me. Sometimes they are the supporting roles in the story, laughing, sometimes the love between the protagonists, tears, and even more emotional because of the hatred and intrigue between the family and the country.
But seeing Cheng Shaoshang's behavior, I couldn't help but admire, maybe life is not beautiful, but she still wants to be the unique self.
Compared with love, Cheng Shaoshang's sobriety touched me even more. She became a winner in life, and it came naturally.
1. I only do what I think is right
What would you do if someone made fun of you? What do you do when you face someone you hate? Will you deny yourself because of other people's words?
Because life is different and situation is different, so the answer may not be the same.
After seeing Cheng Shaoshang, I think she will be a bright, brave and gentle person no matter what era she lives in.
has not been around since she was born, and she is not like other girls in the capital who learn piano, chess, calligraphy, calligraphy, poetry and etiquette, so she is a girl who doesn't know the general, vulgar, and big characters.
So no one really respects her, no one really appreciates her.
Despite this, she still hasn't given up her love of life, she will still love what she loves, with principles, abilities and pursuits.
Before Ling did not suspect a rebellion, she knew that it would be a near-death situation, but she kept waiting.
Because she had already given him all of her body and mind, she wanted to accompany him to take revenge. If Ling Budo couldn't let go of his family and country, and if he decided to die, she would definitely not live.
So on the eve of their big wedding, she went to look for Ling Budo in red, and her parents asked her where she was going? Why go?
She said with a smile: "People always have to work hard to do something."
She rode her horse and whipped straight to the palace, just to protect the people in her heart.
But how could Ling Budo make the girl he was tempted to worry about for her, so he gave up on her and jumped off the cliff in order to protect her safety. Feel what it feels like to be abandoned.
Since then, she has trapped herself in the Changqiu Palace for five years, from a person who likes to be lively to a person who is generous and completely obeys the rules.
Everyone felt that she had changed, only she knew that her heart was scarred.
When I love you, I can die for you resolutely, but if you give up on me, you will never forgive me, she does what she says. Everything
Cheng Shaoshang does is to follow his own heart.
Ailing is undoubtedly what she thinks is right, she loves the letter, she clearly said that she is willing to be with him, but he still abandons her, even if he still loves, he has to leave, you can say she doesn't wide awake?
has principles, strategies, and bottom lines. It is rare for Cheng Shaoshang to be sober if he can get out in time and live out himself.
2. Don't cause trouble and don't be afraid of trouble
Xu is ill-fated, Cheng Shaoshang was abandoned by his parents since he was a child, and there is only one personal maid by his side.
After waiting for her parents to come home, her mother did not give her love and warmth. On the contrary, she was more required to perform her duties. The role of her mother seemed to be a teacher who taught her principles, etiquette and general knowledge.
's mother has many identities, but she is not a mother.
Even though her mother regretted and cooked for her in the end, her belated affection did not heal her scarred heart.
After Cheng Shaoshang was wronged, she never waited. She would use her own way to seek revenge to solve the problem, instead of relying on others to support her.
needs to be hard to strike the iron. What is admirable for her is that she hasLaw also has a strategy.
She will never let her take revenge on others. She designed Princess Yuchang to fall into the water, she humiliated the nine princesses, and made all those who bullied her end miserable.
is enough to see that her ambition is worthy of her ability.
She is a person who will retaliate, love and hate, dare to love and hate, and know how to be grateful.
will not show weakness in the face of others' ridicule.
The nine princesses will deliberately make things difficult, she will give an eye for a tooth, an eye for an eye, at any cost. In the face of Yuan Shilang's ridicule,
went back with ease, calling out that her brain was sick.
Every time I see a scene like Cheng Shaoshang, I sincerely admire her.
A lot of times, I also want to be like her. I don't need to care about other people's eyes.
3. Infatuated with love is also lucid in the world
In the eyes of others, Ling Budo doted on Cheng Shaoshang and helped her out of trouble many times, telling Shaoshang that she was not alone, he could be her backing.
, but Cheng Shaoshang is very sober, Ling Budo's love is true, but not necessarily for his own revenge.
Shaoshang has always been very transparent in dealing with feelings, and will not lose his judgment because of sweet words drowned in love.
She has her own principles, and she can go to save the person she is tempted to without turning back. Although the result of
was not satisfactory, she could afford it and put it down.
She can leave a person decisively, even though that person is the person she loves the most.
For her, there are some principles, once touched, there is no possibility of turning around.
She had been in the palace for five years and thought she had let go of all her obsessions.
But she doesn't know that love is that as long as that person appears, your heart will still tremble and your heart will still be tempted.
In the end, she still used her reason to overcome her sensibility.
In the end, she forgave him, because people who are destined will still be together after going around.
Tianruoyou will never let a lover separate, and those who truly love each other are already tied together by fate and constantly pulled and cut.
can be crazy about love, can be tempted and love deeply, but don't be deceived by love, love is beautiful, and you are also very important.
If you meet someone who is very kind to you, you have to believe that it is because you are worthy. If not, please believe that the person who loves you is going to the mountains and seas to come for you.
4. Queen
who knows how to be grateful and cherish is a beam of light for Cheng Shaoshang, giving her warmth, care, concern, and even maternal love. She makes Cheng Shaoshang feel the affection that is different from the love between men and women for the first time.
At home, her mother is towards her younger sister, but in the Queen, she is a unique preference. The Queen will answer her puzzles, her confusions, and her questions.
Young merchants who do not leave the palace gate will step into Lady Luo's carriage, just because Lady Luo told her that she has medicine to save the queen's body, so she risked her life.
Because the queen is her light, she will do her best to wish her well.
When Ling Budo went to the northwest, after the queen asked to be dismissed, Shao Shang did not hesitate to take care of it. When
said goodbye to Cheng's mother, she said: "Since ancient times, loyalty and justice have been dilemma."
By the time Mother Cheng understood this, it was already too late, Shaoshang had already entered the palace, and there was no return date for this entry.
Some things can be salvaged after regret, and some things cannot.
Cheng's mother lost her daughter, because in the time she missed, she never got the warmth she wanted but never had.
It's true that blood is thicker than water, and it's true that you don't know how to express love.
Mother Cheng, who was a first-time mother, only knew fairness, but she forgot that whatever anyone wanted was preference.
many times not because she can't express love, but because she loves in the wrong way from the beginning.
When Shaoshang was helpless, when she was withdrawn from her relatives, when she was humiliated by Lou Li, and when she was threatened by the third prince, Mother Cheng always protected Shaoshang behind her.
she may not be the bestmother, but in a way she is qualified.
After that, she cooked food for her daughter before dawn. Although her demeanor made people feel a little strange, she said, "Let me pretend it will make me feel better. If I can't pretend one day, don't Laugh at my mother."
In the end, Shaoshang still forgave Mother Cheng, because Mother Cheng understood her fault and was willing to correct her, and her mother will always be the strongest backing behind her.
She also understands that she is no longer a simple girl, and she hopes that the people she loves can be safe and smooth.
She has already let go of those past events, and she is still her - Cheng Shaoshang.
Cheng Shaoshang met everyone who was kind to her, cared about her and loved her, and she remembered it in her heart. She worked hard to repay the queen, she worked hard to love Ling without doubt, and she forgave her mother.
She knows how to be grateful, she is also tolerant, and cherishes everything she has. Otherwise, she will not usher in the fulfillment of her life.
Compared with love, Cheng Shaoshang's sobriety in the world is worth seeing. She has become a better self and her own winner.
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