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September is another new school season. The
mythical beast has returned to its cage, and many parents have posted pictures of their children going to school in the circle of friends.
After all, it is a parent's instinct to show off babies, even celebrities.
On September 6th, Li Xiang posted photos of her 13-year-old daughter Wang Shiling going to school in the UK, and instantly rushed to the hot search. Wang Shiling in the photo of
has lost baby fat, and her facial features are more delicate, slim and quiet.
and the rest of the photos about the campus environment made netizens sigh directly: These photos are more exciting than our life. The buildings of the
campus are very simple and elegant, just like a castle, with a heavy sense of history. Every brick and tile shows its nobility and style. Although
didn't specify which school it was, how come it is so rare for netizens who are so powerful.
It is reported that Wang Shiling attended the "Bornington Girls' School in the UK", which is the best boarding school for girls in the UK and an aristocratic school.
has a superior campus environment, with 240 acres of fields and forests, complete teaching facilities, and the decoration design of the dormitory is as exquisite as the wizarding academy in Harry Potter .
has a strong team of teachers with a ratio of 1:6.
And more importantly, the students who come to this school have only two goals for further education, Oxford and Cambridge.
It's not easy to get into this school.
First of all, it is necessary to have money. The tuition fee for one semester is 110,000, and it is 350,000 for three semesters a year.
The money is ready, and you have to go through the school's various assessments and screening before you can enroll.
Therefore, this school can be described as attracting many children of nobles and celebrity families at home and abroad to study, including Queen Elizabeth II 's daughter Princess Anne , Na Ying's youngest daughter, gambling king 's youngest daughter, Tianhai Youxi, etc...
And this time Wang Shiling stayed in the dormitory where Princess Anne stayed.
I have to say, all roads lead to Rome , and someone was born in Rome.
who stole our lives, it must be Wang Shiling.
As Li Xiang's daughter, Wang Shiling has attracted media attention since she was a child. She is luxurious and extremely rich.
Regarding Li Xiang's educational concept of "raising a daughter", public comments have always been polarized.
praised and criticized Wang Shiling even more, and the topic of public opinion never stopped.
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As a popular host on Hunan TV in the early days, Li Xiang has made great achievements in his career early on. Later, with his keen investment ability, his net worth has increased several times, realizing real wealth freedom.
However, her career success did not bring her emotional success.
At an event, she met her first husband, the diamond king Li Houlin . The relationship between the two developed very rapidly, and they chose to get married just after a month.
But it didn't take long for the two to be in 2Divorced in 006.
Later, Li Xiang and Wang Yuelun met. After three years of dating, they got married and gave birth to their daughter Wang Shiling.
As the first child, Wang Shiling has been loved by thousands since birth. Everything that
wears and uses is exquisite. It can be said that any dress or headgear is an ordinary person's salary for several months, or even more than half a year.
dressed up all over, not a dozen or two hundred thousand, that is not called Wang Shiling raised by Li Xiangfu.
According to Li Xiang's words, Wang Shiling's clothes are really expensive, but her mother has the ability. There seems to be nothing wrong with what
said.
is so extravagant, which has caused many people to criticize Li Xiang and even Wang Shiling.
Some people think that Li Xiang's concept of richness is too materialistic. He raised his children in a pile of money since he was a child, and he smelled like copper.
Some people think that Wang Shiling grew up under the immersion of money, and it is often easy to become arrogant and extravagant.
Even though the "concept of wealth and nourishment" was spurned by everyone, Li Xiang still did not change: "The daughter I exchanged my life for, why don't I give her the best of everything?" The concept is contrary, but as a mother, who does not want to give the best things and the highest quality resources to the children within the scope of their own abilities.
In addition to material enrichment, Li Xiang also put a lot of effort into his daughter's education.
Once, when Li Xiang participated in a variety show, he said that he would spend more than 650,000 a month.
In addition to the normal courses, the rest of the time is fully arranged by various interest courses, piano, yoga, calligraphy, oil painting... not a single one.
And this kind of education is rich, so that Wang Shiling can speak fluent English and play the piano well at the age of 12. She has won many prizes in calligraphy competitions and chess competitions, and a painting has been sold for 100,000 yuan. It can be said that
is proficient in everything about piano, chess, calligraphy and painting.
Wang Shiling, who is so rich and raised, doesn't seem to be able to see that she has a copper odor, but sees her self-discipline and persistence. The innate advantages of
require acquired efforts to stimulate.
has excellent conditions that are not ordinary people, but without her own efforts and persistence, Wang Shiling is just an ordinary second-generation star, and she is nothing like everyone else.
Some time ago, Wang Shiling's fitness photo appeared in front of the public, and everyone had to exclaim, is this really Wang Shiling, who lost so much weight.
Later, Wang Shiling said through the fan support club that she has been exercising and eating healthy, and lost about 20 pounds.
has a slender figure and a well-defined face, which makes people sigh, self-discipline looks really good.
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As for Wang Shiling herself, is she really as extravagant as outsiders say?
looks back on her upbringing, and that doesn't seem to be the case either.
"Where Are We Going, Dad" was launched, 4-year-old Wang Shiling has countless fans, she shyly said to the camera: "I am not a big star, I amlittle princess. "It left a deep impression on the audience.
chose the worst room, and she did not complain. Facing her father Wang Yuelun's inquiry, she smiled and said that she liked it very much.
In life, she can not only She gets along freely and happily with her friends, and she is even more generous and polite when facing adults. When
said goodbye to the grandfather who lives alone, she told the grandfather: "Grandpa, be good at home. "
Wang Yuelun's cooking skills are not good, but she still swallowed it, because she felt that it was her father's cooking, and she could not live up to it.
Even if she was dressed in tens of thousands of clothes and carried hundreds of thousands of small bags, But she still maintains a polite, humble and kind-hearted character.
And all of this is inseparable from Li Xiang's shaping of her daughter's personal character.
However, there are class differences, but many people always have a sense of "local tyrants" "Wang Shiling of the filter scoffed.
Wang Shiling won the award, and they said it was good to be rich.
Wang Shiling's photo was exposed, and they said that teenagers were fat. No matter what Wang Shiling does, they will always lead public opinion in the direction of online violence.
simply records life, but is labeled as "showing off wealth", "premature", "too high-profile", and "negative influence".
is young Wang Shiling, who is also a member of the Chinese Academy of Sciences, has also endured Internet violence for several years.
has money, which has become Wang Shiling's original sin. The so-called excellence is only because of the ability to "money".
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Li Xiang's concept of "richness" cannot be said to be completely It's good, but I can't say it's completely bad.
I wrote this article, not to encourage everyone to sell iron and make children become "the second Wang Shiling".
just want to tell everyone, rich or not, no It lies in the transfer of positive and negative energy.
The parent-child relationship in childhood will be internalized into the child's internal relationship model, thereby determining the child's character and destiny in life.
Simply put, parents are like programmers . In the process of coding (raising children), the input is lack and heaviness, then the child will also enter the society with a sense of lack, feel heavy everywhere, feel that he is not worthy of everything, but if the input is confidence and optimism, then This child can always respond with a positive and optimistic attitude when facing things.
was attacked by some netizens When I was a child, Li Xiang always told Wang Shiling that you were the most beautiful girl.
Every time he achieves certain small achievements, Li Xiang always encourages him.
Children don't deceive themselves with their heads, but they are very sensitive to the energy transmitted by their parents.
If parents can be the givers of their children's energy, the children's minds will be nourished continuously;
If parents keep consuming their children's energy, their essence, qi, and spirit will quickly dissipate and wither.
Whether you are rich or not depends on the flow of abundance in your heart.
Wilde said: "Make the kidsThe best way to behave well is to make them happy. And most adults in this society are surprisingly stingy when it comes to keeping kids happy. Just as they rudely or graciously rob us of things that make us happy, they never forget to add the phrase--do it for your own good, and it's a persuasive argument that will eventually make We also agree to destroy ourselves. "
The desire to be rejected in childhood, the lack of which forms a black hole in the heart, such a child often grows up with an insatiable desire. After being satisfied, it will naturally advance to a higher level.
Therefore, it is a good thing for children to have desires. We should not criticize children's desires, let alone try to persuade children to give up desires in a reasonable way.
may not be satisfied, but Without criticism or veto, the child will naturally build a bridge for realization.
We can't be as "rich" as Li Xiang, but we can all accept the child's desire from the heart, and convey to the child: Your desire is very beautiful, You deserve all the best things.
Then even if the child does not get it now, he will have a flow of inner abundance, and in the future, naturally, he will not be obsessed with extravagance and can freely explore higher-level needs.
