flattened the ground with a thunder, and the idol collapsed and exploded.
This is a recent PC incident of Li Moumou in real life, and it is also a story in the novel "Idol Disqualification" that won the 164th Akutagawa Award. After the negative events of
, idols can say: quit the arena and become a common man.
are fans who have given their true feelings, where should they go?
The picture comes from the network
Today, Xiao Zhuozi will take everyone to read the book "Idol Disqualification" and talk about it:
1, what is the difference between today's star chasing and previous star chasing?
2, why are idols who collapsed, but fans who cannot survive?
3, how should sad fans get out of the collapsed house?
01. I'm not chasing stars, but "sense of order"
When he was 4 years old, Akari first saw the teenage idol Mako Ueno, when he played Peter Pan who fell from the sky like a elf.
When he was 14 years old, Akari began to pursue everything about idols. Film and television works, music albums, TV programs, advertising endorsements, and peripheral products, her life is wrapped in layers of blue symbolizing support idols.
Mingli has become an incredible group of followers in everyone's mouth: instead of developing an equal relationship in the real world, he would rather unilaterally output "I love you" to the air.
is this weirdo, but he is the one with the best emotion management in the entire book.
In a world where planning can't keep up with changes, everyone's anxiety will eventually explode because of a trivial matter.
Mingli's mother would mumble more because the handle of the newly purchased rice cooker was broken;
was due to the deterioration of the condition of the elderly mother who was ahead of this trivial matter, the sudden pregnancy of her immediate subordinate, the sudden change of the return date of her husband who was far away, etc. The big event has disintegrated all the resistance of my mother;
Mingli's sister will break out into a quarrel because of one unpleasant remark;
has been trying not only to do a good job in his own studies, but also take into account the unsatisfactory Mingli's academic performance is premature Devoured all of my sister's patience.
In the whole family, only Mingli pulled away quickly in the face of anxiety.
Although she has poor academic performance and mild attention deficit, she was compared by her mother to her sister, and she was not recognized by her family.
because Mingli has a small world to fight against the disordered world: the display shelves are full of idols Ueno Mako's DVDs, CDs, magazines and brochures in chronological order; posters and photos are in azure blue, pure blue, light blue, blue-green, etc. The tones are arranged in an orderly manner throughout the wall.
In this small world, Akari feels a taste different from reality: no matter what she says or does, the idol is always there.
If the former star chasers were keen on film and television works and songs, today's star chasers value stable personalities.
's stable personality represents a sense of order , and everyone needs an orderly time or space to unload the disordered chaos in the outside world. As Mingli said, this is the backbone of her life and supports her to continue to be brave.
02. The core of the "sense of order" is that you have control.
I heard that idols beat fans. The negative news of
brought a crisis to the "sense of order" that Mingli had always been familiar with.
This kind of crisis is not only that idols will one day quit the group, quit the circle, or even be arrested;
is also a worry about "Can you put your sense of order on others?"
Although Akari was more active in supporting, but in the end, it did not stop the idol's decision to return to ordinary people. The
idol has finished his last performance, and Akari has to desperately find a new "sense of order" in his life.
was wearing sneakers, and almost tripped over the bump on the blind road;
was groping for the traffic card in the bag, and an inexplicable sharpSomething scratched his fingernails slightly, but it turned out to be an unfastened pin;
wanted to visit the idol's house, but found a woman with short hair came out with a pile of clothes;
got on the wrong bus and almost lost his transportation card .
The disorder of life is still as usual, and it will not be part of the order because the idol collapses, allowing Mingli to reset the sense of order she wants.
is still the same messy room, the cups that I have forgotten to collect, the rice bowl with the soup left over, and the remote control, I can't find a little sense of order.
Mingli grasped the cotton swab box in his hand, trying to smash the disordered life in front of him. The
are just cotton swabs scattered all over the place, the disorder attracts disorder, and chaos will only make more chaos.
In such a room, Akari was lying on the ground with his head down. Why do
idols beat people? Why do
idols destroy the most precious sense of order?
Akari never got an answer, it was beyond her control.
put the sense of order in the outside world, like stepping on a conveyor belt with a predetermined failed ending.
and to get rid of this conveyor belt, has to turn back and run desperately, leaving the ability to maintain order to himself .
03. Three little things to create a personal sense of order
At the end of "Idol Disqualification", Mingli did not usher in a new life, and she did not come out of the house collapse incident, which made people sigh.
However, life is not only to be lived, but also to continue to live well. How can
live better than Mingli and find a sense of order again? It's not easy.
But we can start from the little things around us, and first make our personal life orderly:
First, create small luck in the morning to make our mood orderly.
I get to work 5 minutes early every morning. In these 5 minutes,
sat in the car and simply listened to a song that I liked.
used to park the car and go straight to the office.
My legs were filled with lead, and anxiety came to my head at the thought of the horse being forced to take on a lot of extra work and no progress in the planned work.
But I have these 5 minutes. Although I have to be assigned a lot of work today, I am troubled by a lot of phone calls, and the ignorant karma of the leader, etc., but at least I still have 5 minutes of my own time.
Nothing is completely out of order.
Immediately I feel less anxious and my steps are much lighter.
is fortunate enough to neutralize small worries. When
arranges daily activities, give yourself a little luck first, and you can eliminate the subsequent disorder.
Second, live an organized life and make the environment orderly.
To maintain a sense of order, life needs to be organized.
where did the organization come from? My method used to be to do a big clean every once in a while, then sit back and admire the masterpiece, and wait for it to slowly turn into chaos again.
This means that the next time I do a big cleaning, I'll have to brew courage.
Will it continue to endure or go for it?
entanglement is a state of disorder, which undoubtedly increases the burden of fighting against disorder.
Order is like housework and needs to be maintained day in and day out. On the one hand,
is more and more skilled, which increases the sense of accomplishment; on the other hand, it has been completed without much thought, which not only reduces the sense of tangled disorder, but also maintains order.
Third, learn to say goodbye and make the relationship orderly.
I used to think that a better state with the outside world was: peaceful coexistence.
But then I found out that in order to achieve "peaceful coexistence", there areThe premise is, "How much ability do you have to maintain a balance of what range."
manages a relationship that is beyond the circle of competence, which is not only a mess for himself, but also a kind of damage to the relationship itself.
So I slowly learned to do subtraction with .
operates a personal relationship network based on my ability circle. Here, no matter whether it is wind or rain, everyone feels that there is no harm to each other.
Final note:
Let the outside world change, but his heart can always be elegant.
This is the life attitude of "free spring fragrance, the king and grandson can stay", and it is also the life philosophy of "wine and meat go through the intestines, the Buddha's heart stays".
may you start such a life in this "Idol Disqualification".
