Some time ago, a group photo of a party of Hong Kong's "Ladies' Regiment" was exposed.
includes many billionaires including Xu Ziqi , Li Jiaxin , but not Guo Jingjing , who is also a "rich daughter-in-law".
is rumored online: the Hong Kong ladies circle collectively reject Guo Jingjing.
However, the truth behind it is not so simple...
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was photographed by Hong Kong media that Guo Jingjing, who "wears a 50 cents headband and a piece of clothing for many years", is indeed frugal like a lady.
This is obviously a far cry from the lavish ladies.
But she has become the only one who is called "married" rather than "highly climbed".
Guo Jingjing was born in an ordinary family in Baoding, Hebei Province. Both parents were workers.
and husband Huo Qigang , is the eldest young master who was born with a golden spoon.
When the two of them first broke out in their relationship, many people shouted badly.
However, Guo Jingjing responded to all doubts with one sentence:
"He is a wealthy family, I am a champion, there are many wealthy families, but there are not many Olympic champions."
In those days, Guo Jingjing also made a contract with Huo Qigang for three chapters. marry.
Even after retiring, she did not enter the marriage hall immediately, but chose to study in the UK to enrich her knowledge.
Guo Jingjing, who married into the Huo family, has always lived a hard life and has never compromised because of the wealthy.
Father-in-law Huo Zhenting wanted to see his grandson, but Guo Jingjing stopped him outside the door, saying that the child must complete his homework to play with his grandfather.
Because she didn't want to participate in family disputes, she and her husband moved out of the mansion and lived their own lives with peace of mind.
Compared with the extravagant enjoyment of jewelry, Guo Jingjing is more immersed in the trivialities of firewood, rice, oil and salt, and the family of three brings their children to experience "farmhouse fun".
Huo Qigang, as the CEO of Ten Billion Group, is also willing to wash her hands and make soup for her.
In this marriage with the wealthy son, Guo Jingjing is full of "evenly matched" confidence.
is also because of her self-confidence, she can cross the class and touch the depths of Huo Qigang's soul, and the two keep the same pace in spirit.
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Guo Jingjing's legendary experience has given countless girls a perfect dream template.
In the eyes of many people, marrying into a wealthy family is almost equal to a lifetime of worry-free clothing and food and unlimited scenery.
So they would rather squeeze their heads out than fight for that "glory".
's ever-expanding material desires have spawned hidden "gray" industrial chains.
is eager to gather the young girls who realize their beauty in a "preparatory class for marrying a wealthy family".
has only one purpose: to catch a golden turtle son-in-law. The first lesson of getting started with
is to make a facelift and create an all-in-one celebrity face.
They often go in and out of the same place, wearing the same clothes and carrying the same brand-name bags, trying to create a white and rich image.
's well-connected tutors will take students to high-end private parties. Students will find a good target and combine the pick-up skills they have learned before. As long as the fish is hooked, the next step is fish pond management.
Many girls sighed: The distance between me and Mrs. Fu is only one training class away.
But if you marry into a wealthy family, will you be able to live a good life?
He Wenna who also holds the title of "Olympic Champion", and Guo Jingjing had a completely different experience.
Earlier, He Wenna and Liang Chao, a producer with a net worth of over 100 million, confirmed their romantic relationship, and they were on the hot search on Weibo because of differences in holding a wedding.
During pregnancy, He Wenna could not smell cigarettes, but Liang Chao still threw the cigarette butts into his own trash can.
He Wenna asked him to get toilet water to taste it.
How did Liang Chao do it?
He was very impatient, accused He Wenna of being too nagging, and directly told his wife to "shut up".
Because of the physiological reaction during pregnancy, He Wenna feels nauseated every time she eats meat.
But the mother-in-law forced her on the grounds of her child, and said, "If you don't like to eat, you have to eat it, and you have to force it."
He Wenna's humbleness, everything can be traced.
She once admitted that she is extremely lacking in self-confidence.
has had enough of 20 years of training. After retiring, he is not in a hurry to work, he just wants to enjoy life.
didn't expect that this marriage not only did not redeem himself, but instead lived in resignation everywhere.
Olympic champions are still treated like this, and the family status of those women who lack the protection of the halo is even more precarious.
Taiwan's first beauty Pace Wu , after giving birth to 4 children in a row to wealthy businessman Ji Xiaobo , "turning into a regular" is far away.
Ji Xiaobo once promised that the wedding would be held after Wu Peici gave birth, but now it seems to be nothing more than an empty check.
"Hundreds of billions of daughters-in-law" Xu Ziqi, don't look at her infinite beauty, in fact, even food and clothing are restricted.
What's even more terrifying is that the rich and powerful are very superstitious to pursue good times and auspicious days. Xu Ziqi's four deliveries were all by caesarean section.
Xi Mengyao can only live in the hotel even if she gave birth to the first-generation grandson of the gambling king family.
Once you enter a wealthy family, it is as deep as the sea, which is probably the case.
spent their whole lives in exchange for prosperity and wealth, and their experiences are all embarrassing. There is a hot question on
Zhihu: Will the second generation of the rich take a fancy to the poor girl?
have respondents who shared their real experiences.
After getting married and having children, husbands have less and less time to go home. There were rumors that he had someone outside.
Until one day, the answerer heard her husband's call through the door and knew that there was another woman in his life.
At first, the husband would apologize to the respondent, verbally saying that he had broken up with the other party, but later found out that it was all perfunctory. Before changing to
, the respondent would turn around and leave without hesitation when he heard such shameless words.
But in the past eight years, she has become a sheep in marriage.
was raised in captivity and only waited for her husband to feed him. Apart from raising children, he had lost the capital to argue.
immersed in the online world for a long time, often make us have an illusion.
believes that even if Cinderella achieves nothing, one day she will be favored by the prince.
can look at all the cases, and there are very few happy endings in which fairy tales come into reality.
lives by relying on the values of others, and more, but ends up with a cruel ending.
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There is a saying on the Internet that is very popular: Marriage is a shortcut to quickly cross the class and save twenty years of struggle.
said that, nothing wrong.
But in my opinion, real outstanding women never take marriage as a bet, they all choose to live their lives into wealthy families.
In 2009, after being dormant in the entertainment industry for many years, Gigi , known as "the most beautiful Zhao Min ", announced his retirement at the peak of his career.
Three months later, she married Ma Tingqiang , a wealthy Hong Kong businessman who was 16 years older and disabled.
There was a roar from the outside world.
is just that the difference in appearance between the two is too great.
At that time, public opinion was one-sided, and they all believed that she chose this marriage for money.
Gigi Lai did not respond to all kinds of rumors, and just disappeared from the entertainment field of vision.
originally thought she was going to be a rich wife, but she has been enriching herself.
Gigi Lai was not satisfied with her husband and children, she began to study business with her husband, took over the clinic opened by her younger brother, and did everything by herself without any ambiguity.
finally took the company public when he was 47 years old.
She went from a vase in the entertainment industry to a strong woman with a strong reputation.
Let's take a look at the real Shuangwen heroine Dong Mingzhu .
's life is enough to describe it as open.
is 36 years old. He resigned and went to work in the south to become a grassroots salesperson at Gree . He recovered 420,000 debts left by his predecessor in 40 days;
is 38 years old, and his personal sales exceeded 16 million yuan, accounting for 1/8 of the whole company. ;
58 years old, was appointed chairman of Gree Group; 66 years old, live broadcast with goods, the sales that night reached 700 million, setting the highest transaction record in the home appliance industry. A woman like
never hides her ambitions, and every step she takes is under control.
No matter how bad the script is, in Miss Dong's hands, it can turn around against the wind.
She used her tenacity and perseverance to walk a path that others cannot replicate.
As Liang Wendao said: Women must have something that others cannot take away, this is very important.
And this thing, I think is independent.
's independent personality can keep you awake and know how to fight for the life you want.
Only in this way, there is no need to use "excessive dedication" and "blind attachment" to let the other half help him earn happiness.
comes naturally and gets respect and mutual appreciation with your partner.
Whether you are looking at the wider world or dressing up as a more refined version of yourself, you will attract better and better people.
caught a king bomb, but it was only half the battle.
is a winner in life if he can play his cards well.
