"Tian Dao": When people are middle-aged, they are still addicted to these two things. It is difficult to make money in this life.

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​​and recently brushed a few episodes of " Tiandao ". Such a magical drama, it is often refreshed and refreshed.

​​Speaking of which, the show was so controversial back then that it was banned for ten years. After repeated deletions and revisions, it was re-presented in 2018.

​​and this comeback made this drama suddenly popular. Countless people have learned the true meaning of life from it. Speaking of

, the comeback of this drama in 2018 seems to coincide with some kind of heaven.

​​This drama is very deeply filmed. In just 24 episodes, Douban's high score of 9.2 condenses the struggles, struggles, and ups and downs of people from all walks of life in the context of the big era.

​​People with superior cognition can see the pulse of the times early, and they can dig out gold from it and live a life according to the lifestyle they want;

​​People with relatively high cognition can also deal with people and things , have their own happiness;

, people with low cognitive level and unable to jump out of inferiority, are finally photographed on the beach in the big waves of the times and the ups and downs of the business sea.

​​But ten years ago, people didn't pay as much attention to "cognition" as they are now, so it's not a good soil for this drama to take root.

​​After more than ten years, today when everyone is talking about cognitive upgrading and everyone wants to gain extraordinary insight, this drama just has a better fermentation and dissemination soil.

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​​I rewatched a few episodes this time, and I am middle-aged. So I have some middle-aged insights.

​​I found that in the undercurrent competition of these people, there are some inferiorities. If people can't overcome them in middle age, it will be difficult to make money in this life.

One. Addicted to take advantage

​​Ye Xiaoming, Feng Shijie, Liu Bing, the minority shareholders of metrical poetry, essentially want to take advantage of Ding Yuanying.

​​They know that Ding Yuanying's energy and judgment are far superior to them. Why did they show extreme distrust of the big guy they invited in the process of the company's development?

​​because the help of the big guys is different from what they think. In their imagination,

​​asks the boss to bring Wangmiao Village to become rich, it should be the boss who has contributed money and efforts, they just express their gratitude, and at most they can contribute a little effort.

​​and Ding Yuanying's core idea, as we know, is that there is no savior in this world of , you can only save yourself.

​​So, he's not going to put food in their mouths. He knew that such poverty alleviation would not have good results in the long run.

​​He wants them to participate in this game. If their cognition and mind are good enough, they will naturally be able to land;

​​Therefore, there is an irreconcilable cognitive contradiction between Ding Yuanying and these young people.

​​Therefore, when encountering a little bit of possible risk and a little bit of responsibility that may need to be borne by themselves, these young people who have the mentality of taking advantage and want to dig a spoon and leave, naturally quit. Quickly pat your butt to withdraw.

​​We look at Ouyang Xue, who made money in this incident, how did she do things?

​​She had nothing to do with this, nor was she interested at all. It can be said that Ding Yuanying needs her help and her identity to be the largest shareholder.

​​Therefore, Ding Yuanying gave her a plan that could only make money but not lose. If you lose, it will be Ding Yuanying's.

​​However, Ouyang Xue disagreed.

​​In her cognition, although she has nothing to do with this matter, but since she agreed, it means that she trusts her big brother. It is her honor that a character like Big Brother is willing to play with her. How can there be a reason to just pick the fruit without taking the risk?

​​is willing to believe, there are possible benefits, and you will take the potential risks yourself. This is Ouyang Xue's principle.

​​So, this woman who had nothing to do with the metric audio business turned out to be one of the winners.

​​We should be able to know why Rui Xiaodan was willing to mortgage her house to open a restaurant, and why she succeeded in opening a restaurant from her attitude and actions every time she faced huge interests in the whole thing.

​​Xiao Yawen, who also won the fruit of victory, also acted in the same way.

​​At the most difficult moment of Grid poetry, she wants to take a stake. The kind Ouyang Xue also persuaded her to wait until things became clear before entering. Xiao Yawen said it was too late. It is precisely because of the uncertainty that she has the opportunity to enter at the current price. If the risk is lifted, there will be no chance for her.

​​She didn't want to take any advantage of Ouyang Xue, she chose to take on the responsibilities and risks she should take, and ultimately earn her own interests. In the

​​mall, there is blood in the knife. If you want to take a little advantage and run away, you are actually treating others as fools, which goes against the essence of the exchange of interests.

​​No one else has to rectify you. Your wrong decision under the wrong perception will make yourself narrower and narrower.

​​There are many such things in reality.

​​I just want to build a relationship and let others help me. I want to make a steady profit in it, or take any risks and responsibilities, and only be responsible for the harvest. How can there be such a good thing?

​​old readers may remember that I wrote an example of a big man with an 8-figure annual income.

, a former colleague of his, saw him doing business by himself and wanted him to play with him. Originally, the two of them didn't have much friendship in the company, but the big guy was also kind-hearted, and he thought he would pull him if he could. So I wanted to bring him into the circle of people who are all engaged in this business. It is normal for circles like

​​to pay an annual fee. Regular gatherings, business exchanges, etc. are equivalent to crowdfunding.

, a former colleague, immediately thought that this boss might want to withdraw the deduction from it, so he brought him into the club. Not only did he refuse, but he also went to discredit him in the group of former colleagues.

​​This is a godsend.

​​People who earn 8 figures in the year, can they go to great lengths to get kickbacks from 4 figures?

​​Actually, the fundamental problem is that when he asked the boss for help, he didn't even think that he would have to pay the cost or take some responsibility.

​​He just wanted to take advantage of others. Seeing that others have successfully paid the tuition fees and took the risk, can you feed your customs clearance secrets into my mouth to ensure that I can make a steady profit?

​​If a person reaches middle age and still can't overcome such a mode of doing things, it is very scary.

​​Looking back, you will find that you have missed countless opportunities along the way. It's not that others didn't give you a chance, it's that you chose the wrong one every time because you just wanted to take advantage of it and didn't want to have any commitment.

​​is like Liu Bing in "Tian Dao", Ding Yuanying still gave him a chance until the end. He himself chose the one that was greedy and wanted to grab the fruits of other people's victory. In the end, he shot himself in the foot.

II. Addicted to tactical diligence

​​Many people may refutea little above. Said that he did not want to take advantage, he had the strength and was willing to execute. You tell me how to do it, I will do as you say, and you can guarantee that I can make money back.

​​makes a lot of money, earning more money than daily work, and earning risk premium . So, no one can guarantee that.

​​Jiangsu and Zhejiang people have a business mindset and are well-known in the country.

​​They can make money, to a large extent, thanks to their correct perception of risk. Not afraid of risks, willing to control and manage risks by raising awareness.

​​wrote in the previous article that after 20 years of reform and opening up, many Zhejiang people have seized the great opportunity to make money by renting a counter to become rich.

​​Is there no cost and no risk in renting a counter? of course not. You also have to buy the goods yourself and pay the rent yourself to maintain the customers. Whoever takes you out will not guarantee that you will earn money. The hardships and difficulties in this one have to be overcome by oneself.

​​But we look at the villagers of Wangmiao Village in "The Way of Heaven".

​​Whether the government built a sand foundry for them, a wood factory to help them get out of poverty, or Ding Yuanying later organized them to manufacture speakers to get out of poverty, they never lacked the strength to work. When they are working, they can indeed endure what ordinary people can't bear, and suffer what ordinary people can't.

​​but what are they missing? They lack the courage, perseverance and strategic thinking to overcome difficulties.

They are just too capable of enduring hardships, but they are only willing to suffer tactical hardships, not strategic hardships at all.

​​Whenever there is a little pressure, whenever they need to move their brains, and when there is a little uncertainty, they back off right away.

​​We often talk about the 35-year-old crisis in the workplace. Why are companies reluctant to hire people over 35?

​​Because at the age of 35, there are old and young, and the body is not as big as more than 20, so the efficiency of work is low. The company naturally wanted to change to more efficient screws.

​​However, a 35-year-old shouldn't have to fight with a 25-year-old! Victory should be in the brain and in strategic thinking. This thing is something that will continue to grow with age, and the output it brings is also incomparable to physical strength.

​​It's just a pity that most people, although they are 35 years old, don't have this thing.

​​is a very difficult road because of the breakthrough of cognition and the improvement of strategic ability.

​​Everyone should know the accumulation of compound interest, right? Our Planetary Thinking Model section also detailed the 3 key points of compound interest accumulation and how to apply . The early stage of

​​is long-lasting, and almost no output can be seen. Until one day, when the breaking point is accumulated, the dazzling light will bloom.

​​However, how many people can endure the long road ahead?

​​I planet Coffee Xiaomo reader group 100 thinking model section , commercial dismantling section, etc., are thankless sections. More than 100,000 words have been written. What is the significance of

? In fact, I hope that I can accumulate a long and slow road in the early stage, accompany everyone on a journey, help everyone go faster, and truly wait until the end of time.

​​And those who have really passed this breaking point will find that the 35-year-old crisis is not so scary. On the contrary, after the age of 35, all the accumulations of previous life gathered and exploded here.

​​The east is not bright, the west is bright, all roads lead to Rome.

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