When pursuing fame and fortune, don't forget that companionship is also the wealth of life. Once something is missed, it will not come back. Please grow up with your child more, or you will regret it in the future. —— Bi Shumin
When I was young, I always thought about the pursuit of fame, fortune, and a better life. After having a child, I ignored the child's growth. When the child grew up, I suddenly realized that I had missed the child's life all these years. Growing up, can only secretly regret .
Ordinary people are like this, celebrities are like this, Wang Jiawei is like this, when he was a smash hit, he wanted to shine, but after divorce and remarriage, he ignored the growth of his children.
fell in love with his ex-wife at first sight
Wang Jiawei is not a movie star in the traditional sense, he is an individual star. At that time, Wang Jiawei's volleyball career was going very smoothly. He was tall and handsome, and he once became the dream lover of many young girls Huai Chun.
By chance, Wang Jiawei went to a party with a friend and met Deng Xing like this. Deng Xing was born in a star family, his mother and aunt are well-known actors. When Deng Xing grew up, he also naturally embarked on the path of being an actor.
Wang Jiawei fell in love with Deng Xing at first sight at the party, wanted to invite Deng Xing to dance, but the height difference between the two was a bit inconvenient, so the dance was not completed, but Wang Jiawei sent Deng Xing home as he wished.
just went back and forth like this, and the two fell in love. But at that time, Wang Jiawei's career was hit hard, and he couldn't continue to join Chinese men's volleyball team .
Wang Jiawei In this case, chose to go to Japan to study , study sports university , love and career, he chose career and bid farewell to his girlfriend.
Deng Xing was reluctant to part with his lover, and soon followed Wang Jiawei to Japan.
"The world's No. 1 flying man in volleyball" Wang Jiawei
After getting married, Deng Xing soon became pregnant. Wang Jiawei couldn't balance his studies, working to support his family and taking care of his pregnant wife. After the two discussed, Deng Xing returned to China to raise a baby. After 's son was born, Wang Jiawei came back from Japan to see his wife and son. He didn't stay long this time, and hurried back to Japan.
Until his son Wang Qi was half a year old, Deng Xing brought his son back to Japan, and the family of three could finally be reunited. Although family reunion is a happy thing, , but real life is firewood, rice, oil and salt.
The burden of life rests on Wang Jiawei alone. His wife, Deng Xing, thinks this is not the way to go. So after Wang Qi was able to go to school, she found a job in a local newspaper, and Wang Jiawei also got admitted at this time. After a graduate student, the family's life slowly got better.
After several years of happy family life in Tokyo, Wang Jiawei broke the situation. At that time, my country's men's volleyball team publicly recruited coaches, and Wang Jiawei's enthusiasm was ignited again. chose to return to China as a coach without discussing it with his family.
did not tell Deng Xing about this until the letter of appointment arrived. Deng Xing understood his ambition and why he did it. However, his son Wang Qi was young and needed his father to accompany him. After thinking over and over again, Wang Jiawei decided to return to China.
This family of three is facing separation again. The son cried and hoped that his father would come back to see him often in the future. Wang Jiawei comforted his son. After saying goodbye to his wife, he embarked on the road to return to China to realize his dream.
At that time, the domestic volleyball business lacked everything, lacked money and talents, and lacked morale. The situation facing Wang Jiawei is not good, but he loves it, so he donated money and clothes to the national team through various methods and channels to encourage everyone to cheer up.
When son Wang Qi called his father, he is perfunctory because there is really no time for the family. Listening to his son's cry, Wang Jiawei's heart was broken, but what could he do? What is gratifying for
is that Wang Jiawei failed his son and wife, but brought a new start to my country's volleyball career. After , the men's volleyball team won the championship at the Games.
Later, Wang Jiawei took the men's volleyball team to Japan to compete. As a result, he didn't have time to watch his son. The appearance of his son crying and calling for his father completely made Deng Xing desperate. Deng Xing then filed for divorce.
is full of debts and regrets to his son
Son and Deng Xing stayed in Japan, and Wang Jiawei developed in China. After leaving the position of the men's volleyball coach, Wang Jiawei started a business. had ups and downs in the mall for four or five years before his career was on the right track.
After his career was on the right track, Wang Jiawei also had the idea of remarrying. Every time his son is on summer vacation, he will take his son Wang Qi by his side.
once watched his son grow a mustache at the corner of his mouth, and suddenly realized that his son had grown so big, but he never seemed to accompany him seriously, and never participated in his growth.
Wang Jiawei was very regretful, and felt that he owed too much to his son. He even asked his son, Dad is not a good dad, Dad is sorry for you, will you hate me?
Wang Qi is already an adult. He doesn't hate Wang Jiawei. When he grows up, he can take care of himself and his mother. After Wang Qi grew up, became a film director, and made a lot of literary films. When Wang Jiawei saw his son's excellence, he praised everyone.
is just behind every compliment, Wang Jiawei can't help but regret, why did not spend time with his son, why did he act so perfunctory when he received his son's call.
After Wang Jiawei met Liu Chaoying, he wanted to marry her but worried that his son would object. However, Wang Qi expressed his support for his father's remarriage. In this way, with the consent of his son, Wang Jiawei and Liu Chaoying remarried. have very suitable personalities and lived happily.
watched Wang Jiawei's life, divorced and remarried, without emotion. When he was young, he pursued a passion for his career and neglected his wife and son. When his wife and son both left, he regretted it. Life is not like this, you can't have two very important things at the same time.
Conclusion
I hope that everyone can cherish the people around them, whether it is a wife or a child, when pursuing a career, occasionally stop to look at the people around you, They all need your company. It sounds like a small thing for to miss a child's growth, but for a child, it is indeed a lifetime event.
A childhood without a father is an incomplete childhood. I don't want these children to have a childhood without a father like Wang Qi. What do you think of Wang Jiawei's approach? You are welcome to post your thoughts in the comments section.
