Recently, a group of wedding photos of coat brother Zhu Zhiwen's new daughter-in-law Chen Meng and son Zhu Danwei caused heated discussions among netizens.
It is reported that Zhu Danwei has been engaged to Chen Meng, and is now taking wedding photos in his hometown studio. The studio also released a tidbit of the two of them during their wedding photos. Zhu Danwei and his fiancée look quite sweet.
I never imagined that after more than half a year, Chen Yanan is still "running" on the Internet celebrity road, and Zhu Danwei is about to remarry. Some netizens sighed: Unexpectedly, Brother Coat's son is almost 22 years old and is about to get married for the second time!
Regarding his son's marriage, some media interviewed Zhu Zhiwen. He revealed that Chen Meng is a teacher, and his parents are both rural people. When I first got engaged, I was very happy when I heard Chen Meng call her "Dad".
can see that the honest and simple Zhu Zhiwen is quite satisfied with this prospective daughter-in-law.
Recalling that some time ago, Zhu Danwei's ex-wife Chen Yanan made a lot of family troubles on the Internet. Looking at Chen Meng now, this new happy event in the Zhu family can't help but feel emotional.
There is no doubt that Zhu Danwei is an honest man. I believe that many people will bless him when he sees the news that he meets his beloved again.
But compared to the news of his engagement or remarriage, I'm more looking forward to seeing him become independent and have his own business. Because looked back on his last failed marriage, the problem wasn't just Chen Yanan.
put it a bit harsher. The failure of Zhu Danwei and Chen Yanan's marriage was not accidental.
As we all know, Coat has increased his income too much since he became famous in " Avenue of Stars ". No one knows how much assets he has, but in the years since he became famous, his popularity has almost always been very high, and his commercial performances have continued. A video from
a few years ago showed that when he was doing business in a bank, the staff inadvertently revealed that Coat brother "earns 16 million a year" , Coat brother laughed without saying a word. We don't know whether the number
is true or not, but one thing is certain, he has enough assets to make his two children live well without going to work.
In fact, his sons and daughters hardly ever worked.
Zhu Zhiwen's attitude towards children may be more "traditional": As long as children are not worried about food and drink, they can arrange lifelong events for them when they are old.
Regarding this point, Zhu Zhiwen also mentioned in an interview many years ago that when Zhu Danwei was 14 years old, he was obsessed with playing games and did not want to go to school.
Later, his grades plummeted, and he finally dropped out of school at home. At that time, the family of the coat brother was already very wealthy.
If it is an ordinary family, if the child does not go to school, he will basically let him learn a technique, or let him go out to work and practice, but Zhu Zhiwen did not, he said at the time:
"Let him grow at home. You can find a reasonable daughter-in-law, and you’ll be fine with this life.”
At first glance, such an idea is nothing but a relatively simple concept of a simple father. Maybe he just hopes that his hard work and hard work can make his son's life worry-free in the future, not so hard. As a parent,
will be happy when he sees that his child can live well.
But looking at his sentence from another angle, it is actually an excuse for his failure in education after he had no time to take care of his children's education, and then euphemistically called it "planning and arranging life for my son" .
So what happened to his son?
After dropping out of school at the age of 14, he stayed at home and played games all day; after getting married, he broadcasted live with Chen Yanan, and was complained that he was "stupid and unmotivated"; after the divorce, Zhu Danwei, who was already an adult, was accompanied by his father when he went shopping for clothes and haircuts. He himself stood behind his father like a child, naturally waiting for his father to settle the bill...
In short, Zhu Zhiwen, as a father, spoiled his son into a "giant child" with no opinion, no self-motivation, and still not independent at the age of 22.
We have no right to criticize his way of educating children, but seeing Zhu Danwei can't help but worry that if he still has no opinion, self-motivation, and independence, he is likely to follow the old path again.
Chen Yanan used to be a nurse. She and Zhu Danwei got married on a blind date without much emotional foundation.
Chen Yanan said frankly in the divorce turmoil that she just took a fancy to Zhu Danwei's family background. In other words, she chose to marry Zhu Danwei because of the traffic and wealth of the coat brother Zhu Zhiwen.
This statement is very realistic, but it is not moral enough. It is understandable that Chen Yanan was scolded for this.
But then again, Zhu Danwei doesn't have a job, and Chen Yanan is willing to do live broadcasts, but Zhu Danwei can't help. During the live broadcast, he "couldn't speak", was absent-minded, yawned, and was called a "tool man".
netizens accused Chen Yanan of being too strong, but also complained about Zhu Danwei's lack of ability and lack of self-motivation.
When the two of them divorced again, Zhu Danwei hardly responded to his marriage with a single word, and all depended on his father to preside over the overall situation for him. Netizens said that he "didn't take responsibility".
so much so that there was a time when the Internet was full of cynicism about him, when he went to buy steamed buns, some people ridiculed "Xiaowei is so good, he will buy steamed buns", he got a driver's license, and some people praised him "Xiaowei is very promising, You can get a driver's license."
In short, to put it badly, his "honesty" is regarded as "incompetent, and can't do anything".
The failure of the marriage between him and Chen Yanan was mainly due to Chen Yanan. She was too strong and purposeful, and she married Zhu Danwei because of his family background.
has something to say. For a person who does not seek love but only profit, Zhu Danwei's "advantage" that can attract her is not only his family background, right?
As long as Zhu Danwei is independent and has his own opinions, Chen Yanan will not let Chen Yanan "look down" on him or "bully him". This is a fact, after all, she admits it herself: Zhu Danwei is not what she likes at all.
This is Zhu Danwei's sadness, and also Zhu Zhiwen's sadness for his children's education.
watched Zhu Danwei, who was about to get married at the age of 22, and found that the failure of his marriage with Chen Yanan was not accidental. At the same time, he also understands his "sadness". A netizen on
said bluntly: Zhu Zhiwen didn't realize that what Zhu Xiaowei lacked most now was not a daughter-in-law, but training!
agrees.
He thought that as long as he provided the child with favorable conditions and let him live comfortably, it was his love for the child. But he also forgot that children will be separated from their parents sooner or later, and they must live independently in this society after all.
If the child has no knowledge, no sense of responsibility, no self-motivation, and no ability to create a life, even if he has a rich father, he will have a hard life.
