is mostly about negative. How and how
makes people physically and mentally exhausted and bruised, and how and how it becomes a lifelong haze, lingering.
I read too many horror titles, and I am a little bit arrogant, always thinking about the bad things, very hostile.
But in fact, "primitive family" is originally a neutral term, objectively stated, and there is no praise or criticism. If
is bad, naturally there will be good.
And today, the "family" that Uncle Yu wants to talk about is full of warmth-
"This Boy Must Be Released"
Der Junge muss an die frische Luft
This translation is too bad.
I thought it was a heavy war movie or a suppressed thriller.
But in fact, this is a warm piece of gentle sunshine that hits the heart. The story of
is adapted from the best-selling autobiography of the famous German comedian Harper Kirklin "Young People Who Need Breathing" .
is directed by the well-known German female director Caroline Link.
's masterpiece "Where is My Home", won the Oscar for Best Foreign Language Film in 2003.
is always good at exploring family. Although
is an autobiography, is completely different from most thrilling biographical stories.
is neither in "Bohemian Rhapsody", Freddy's ups and downs;
is not in "Rocketman", Elton's childhood unbearable and sad.
The protagonist Peter in this story has neither misfortune nor unwillingness.
His childhood was very happy. Like every ordinary person, is even happier than most ordinary people.
The parents are in harmony, and the elders get along well. The
family laughed and made a lot of noise, harmonious and beautiful.
occasionally encounters a small gangster on the street, Peter will not be helpless, as long as he shouts his brother's name, his brother will come to support him immediately. When
was transferred to another school, his classmates saw him as fat, which meant to isolate him.
Peter did not show weakness, using his high EQ and good personality to quickly resolve the problem. With these three elements, a harmonious family, backed by someone, and a pure personality, a child’s childhood happiness is basically guaranteed.
is such a pistachio, living in a world like a fairy tale.
But fairy tales are always short.
People are born, old, sick, and die, and changes follow.
First, Peter's grandmother got a serious illness and died.
Immediately afterwards, Peter's mother lost his sense of smell and taste because of a failed operation, and fell into depression.
committed suicide soon after.
The atmosphere of the whole family fell into a trough.
and the whole movie is about Peter trying to turn the tide by being funny.
Speaking of these, it's a bit plain.
is like , but it makes people want to cry.
's mother was sick and in a bad mood. She beat Peter inexplicably under her irritability, and felt guilty after the fight, so she started to cry.
Peter not only didn't blame his mother, but also played ugly and made her laugh. After the death of
's mother, a good relative introduced his father to his new wife.
Peter looked from a distance, and the camera was also a child's point of view. Looking at the ambiguity of adults, the light and dark, made people feel very uncomfortable.
The woman is gone, and Grandma Peter scolds the introducer with a solemn atmosphere.
What about Peter who witnessed all this?
saw him twisting his waist from the room and swaying, with a cigarette in his hand, wearing a leopard print tiger skin, and a mess of lipstick on his mouth.
reads words, all the words that the woman said just now.
was talking, and he slid his coat smoothly, revealing half of his chest.
All the adults laughed. The
thing just passed.
The more you see behind, the more Uncle Yu sighs, Peter pointsMing is an angel!
is optimistic, good at tolerance, pays attention to observation, and always brings laughter to the crowd. How can
have such a child?
Or, how can there be such a person?
But thinking about it carefully, the answer to the question is actually buried in the movie.
When Peter had just transferred over, his classmates did not take him to play, so he went home alone. As soon as
looked up, grandma waited for him at the door with her arms folded. Seeing that he was upset, she said loudly:
"Do you like horses? Grandma buys you a horse!"
attracted all the children at once, and they all went with Peter. Watch him ride on the horse farm.
Peter also likes to hear everyone laugh, so he deliberately makes a fool of himself while riding a horse. In the new environment of
, the problem of unfamiliar distress, grandma raised her head, and the rest was solved by .
At the family party, Peter dressed himself up as a princess for amusement.
As a result, some adults didn't have any boundaries or brains. They came over with a smile and said that he was a girl, saying that he would grow up to be a beauty or something. Of course the little boy was not happy when he heard this
.
Peter also lost his temper, took off the wig and threw it on the ground, shouting:
"This is not real hair, I am pretending to be!"
everyone was stunned, and the scene suddenly fell into embarrassment.
At this time, the mother who played the role of a mushroom also took off her headgear, pretending to be angry and said:
, "I am a fake too! I am not a mushroom!"
is a delicate treatment, Peter's anger turned into a joke.
relieved the embarrassment of the adult who said the wrong thing and the child who lost his temper.
Later, Peter's grandma passed away, his mother fell ill, and the family atmosphere was once tense.
But even so, Peter is still happy. Grandpa
offered to take Peter out to play for two weeks in order to keep Peter away from his depressed mother.
wanted to protect him. After
came home, his mother was still crying, and grandpa became angry and shouted:
"Peter hasn't been home for two weeks. At least smile at him!"
said here, "How come there is Peter The answer to the question of "such a child like an angel" must have been found by everyone.
That's because everyone loves him.
Some time ago, Uncle Yu introduced a Japanese mourning youth film "We are all little zombies" .
is also known as "My parents are dead, but I don't want to cry". The children in
became "zombies" because they grew up in a numb and indifferent environment. Some of
are emotionally discordant with their parents, some are absent year-round by their parents, some are domestic violence and bullying, and some are excessively suppressed and devalued.
each has its own misfortune.
Children who bear the negative influence of human nature, is like a flower growing in poisonous gas, it is also life, and it is also beautiful.
But their beauty is often gloomy, numb, and inviolable.
and Peter in this story is different.
He is an angel because he grew up in heaven from beginning to end.
Although there are partings and regrets in this paradise, there are even occasional moments of being beaten.
But there is no doubt that no one in the world of does not love him, and no one does not love him everywhere without doing his best.
A child who is watered by a strong love is hard not to smell.
Life has a harmonious background, and everything afterwards is better.
The package of love can make people become an angel overlooking the world, because the chest stores enough light and warmth, and naturally they are willing to spread joy outward.
The helpless childhood makes people become humble beggars seeking attention. Their chests are empty and cold, and they want to grab all the love to fill this gap.
kept searching up and down again and again, but never got what he wanted.
The way every child treats the world when he grows up is exactly the way the world treated him/her when he was a child.formula.
has happened on this planet and is experiencing countless periods of life.
Regardless of how many twists and turns he has, and how many twists and turns he told a story, , but in the final analysis, it is all about love.
is always love.
The life that has been loved and the life that hasn't been loved is the difference.
And the world seen by people who have seen love and people who have never seen true love must be different colors.
This is the law.
Because love is the background color of the world.
