And there is also a Lao Ding in the whole play. If Lao Jiang's feelings are enviable, then Lao Ding's feelings are embarrassing!
Old Ding who has read books for a few years, his dream when he was young was to find a literate wife who can talk with him about the world and the things in books. But he had to comply with the family's request and married his rural wife Wang Xiu'e, who was three years older than him.
But he didn't have the courage of Jiang Defu to get a divorce. In response to the orders of his parents and his sense of responsibility to the family, they lived in a muddle until Wang Xiu'e died in childbirth, and he regained his freedom! After
's grief dissipated, Lao Ding was even more certain that his future mate selection must be a literate person.
So his first target was Teacher Ge, the daughter of the fisherman on the island! Soon, the two reached the point of talking about marriage, but Mr. Ge's background was not good, and Lao Ding's superiors also hindered him, telling him that if he chose to marry Mr. Ge, his political future would be affected.
Lao Ding hesitated ~ Unlike Jiang Defu who dared to give up fame for love, he has too many other things on his back, including elderly parents and four sons who are waiting to be fed. He can't afford to gamble and can only give up love!
And the second woman who made Lao Ding's heart moved was Medical Assistant Wu from the hospital. I thought everything would be settled, but I don't know that Wu Yizhu concealed the fact that he was divorced, and fought against him when the truth was revealed, and this relationship could only end without a hitch!
After two failed relationships, Lao Ding compromised on life and love. He is not Edward, but he enjoys Dehua's care and is accustomed to her appearing in his life as a caregiver. For more than ten years, she has been fascinated by her sister-in-law An Jie. Occasionally, she can pick up a few words of his text and go back~ So he proposed to Dehua. Even so, he just said that we can get married, and we don’t bother others~ This indicates that they are just living together, not talking about love.
The most important thing is that Dehua has a strong family background, Jiang Defu~ This is also one of the reasons for Laoding to marry Dehua!
Lao Ding has always been unwilling and unhappy because of his personality. So he felt suffocated in his heart. When this suffocation was projected onto his body, he would not explode in suffocation, but perished in suffocation ~
His ending also conformed to his life's choice. I had the idea of fighting, but it still failed!
put it bluntly. Although Lao Ding has always longed for the moon above his head, he is always bound by the sixpence on the ground. This is probably the helplessness of middle-aged people!
can't help himself, can't help himself!
, but a compromise is an indisputable one!
Whether many things in life can be accomplished and whether they can be done well, the key is really not others, but whether you are willing to fight for it!
