How much love does a woman have to experience to find her home?
, even if the love once lived, heartache, tears, and hugs for each other;
, even if it was in the dark night, illuminates each other's lamp;
may not be able to accompany each other to the end.
Mok Wenwei married his first love boyfriend at the age of 41 at the age of 17. Now he has been married for ten years and is sweet and happy.
and she used to be in love with Feng Delun and lived together for 9 years, and finally broke up, choked up at the concert and said:
"When making this album, I experienced very sad feelings of breaking up at the beginning of the year. It’s great for two people to be a couple, but it’s better to be friends for a lifetime."
When we are together, Karen Mok said: "He is really handsome." Woman."
"She is a woman worth one hundred and five points."
The two were photographed dressed as lovers cooking in the kitchen and couldn't help kissing.
Karen Mok’s every concert, Feng Delun will be there to cheer as a fan.
finally broke up. It was rumored that Feng Delun had derailed. Karen Mok also came forward to clarify and defend him.
Later, it was Shu Qi who married Feng Delun. Now he has been married for five years.
Feng Delun celebrated his 47th birthday on August 9, and Shu Qi showed her affection in a low-key manner: "Teacher, old friend, husband, happy birthday." The blurred photos could not hide the happiness of the screen.
is well known, before marrying Feng Delun, Shu Qi and dawn had a famous relationship.
At the beginning of the love, Liming was a superstar, and Shu Qi had a disgraceful "porn star" in the past. This relationship was cursed by fans from all walks of life, and most fans thought that Hsu Chi was unworthy to be the king's wife.
5 years of underground love, Hsu Qi, with her own efforts, took off her clothes one by one, put them back on, won the Golden Horse Award for Best Actress, but did not usher in the end of love.
Liming’s parents have always minded Shu Qi’s experience and opposed them being together. Liming loves Shu Qi and has always maintained her.
This has caused Liming to fight with his parents for many years, and the relationship is not good. There are even rumors that Liming has committed suicide and threatened his parents to agree to the marriage in order to marry Shu Qi.
But in the end, love still lost to reality. After living together in secret love for 5 years, the two were forced to break up.
has been married for 3 years, and her 1-year-old daughter Tang Yan, every time she and her husband appear together, the eyes of the two people look at each other shining.
Tang Yan once accepted an interview, saying that Luo Jin impressed her because "he is always the most important to you." His face was sweet and spoiled.
Tang Yan can be like this, but she was once in love as low as dust.
and Qiu Ze have been in love for three years. During the cohabitation period, they did laundry and cook for each other, and even cleaned the toilet, but in exchange for each other's cheating and breaking up. After breaking up with
, Tang Yan was in a very bad state. When asked by the media, Qiu Ze couldn't help but choke. It was even rumored that because of the breakup, he self-harmed in the middle of the night and went to the doctor in the middle of the night.
In the end, they all found their happiness, and they were all hurt in love. But the wounded love once loved passionately and sincerely.
is like thousands of ordinary girls:
falls in love with someone and jumps in desperately; I can’t wait to get closer and want to stay together all the time; living together, thinking it’s forever; after waking up from a dream, leaving a scar .
Some people even say that a breakup is inevitable if you live together for many years without getting married.
is that true?
living together before marriage, really unreliable? From the perspective of trial marriage, cohabitation is actually a very effective testing strategy.
After all, when you are in love, everyone lives in a dream, instinctively showing your best side, and hiding all your shortcomings;
and marriage is nothing but daily trivial matters, two people are naked, facing each other, and there is nowhere to hide. The low success rate of
flash marriage is because there is no transition, and it falls directly from the cloud to the bottom. How wonderful the love at first sight before marriage is, and how ironic the place after marriage is.
Although the breakup is heartbroken, it is only the pain of two people. The divorce involves both family members and even property matters, which is even more painful to deal with.
so cohabitation becomes the best touchstone. Imitating the real marriage environment, testing the harmony between two people, it is possible to avoid risks and clear mines for marriage.
But cohabitation is also the point where the relationship between men and women is prone to thunder.
Some men live together under the guise of marriage and trial marriage, enjoying the intimate care of women, but take the opportunity to break up after exhausting women's youth.
or two men and women who originally planned to get married, in the trivial cohabitation and quarrel, gradually exhausted their feelings, and no longer have the motivation to enter the marriage.
Women want to know whether a man living together is reliable, whether they can enter a marriage, you can pay attentionThese three points:
1. Does he have a long-term plan? Does he have you in his future?
The man who really wants to marry you has you in all his plans for the future. He will set goals for marriage, when to buy a house, when to have children, and even how to cooperate with each other's career plans, and how to divide the work and education of the two. Children...
2, are you willing to disclose your relationship and integrate into each other's lives?
Cohabitation means that each other starts to try to live together as a quasi-marital. How to integrate into each other’s circle of friends, social circle, relatives and friends, and participate in each other’s lives is actually preparing for the future marriage.
If a man is living with you while creating a single person, then advise you to leave as soon as possible, unless you are also playing.
3, can you respect you? Share housework and trivial life.
A man who enters into marriage with you must be responsible. Willing to take on all the trivialities of life with you, rather than treating you as a free nanny.
If he feels that housework is a woman's righteousness and treats you as a free babysitter and doesn't know how to be grateful, he should think twice about such feelings.
Most of the men and women who live together are actually rushing to live together for a long time, but whether they can pass this test and challenge, and smoothly enter the marriage requires running-in and wisdom.
Men and women who live together want to transition from couples to couples smoothly. One is to avoid emotional exhaustion from daily life; the other is to maintain high value.
After all, marriage is to live a life, get along well, otherwise who would dare to enter the siege.
At the same time, marriage is the product of socialization. We must pay attention to the principles of reality and also depend on the interests.
have been living together for many years, and marriages that can be smoothly converted are often done right:
1. Let each other feel that the home of two people is a warm harbor and gas station
z3 when they are in love with each other. A match made in heaven, a friend is hard to find.
After living together, I found out that I love cleanliness, he is very sloppy; I love outdoor sports, but he is a super otaku; I long for ritual and romance, and he gave a pressure cooker on Valentine's Day.
So he started to think: He loves me, why can't he follow me? Don't care if you catch it!
So after some women moved in together, they turned their homes into repair shops, hoping to transform their husbands into what they expected. In the end, the man got scared and ran away.
Women’s core needs are security and belonging, and they are always eager to feel pampered from the accommodation of men, while the core needs of men are the sense of value and sense of accomplishment.
Emotionally, a woman who is easy to be happy and happy will satisfy and inseparate men; and men are tired at work, and like to go home to rest and cheer., Replenish energy.
Want to make men feel comfortable with you, can not do without you, women remember not to use complaints, accusations to change men.
usually praise those points that you can agree with, and satisfy the desire of men to be worshipped.
When disagreeing, do not blame the other party, but directly express the need, such as:
with "husband, I feel very tight today, I want to go out and get some fresh air, can you drive me to climb the mountain?" Instead of "you know how to play games every day, and you don't accompany me!"
2. Maintain high value, let a man marry you and make money, for fear of losing you
Compared with women, men are actually more realistic, and love may follow your feelings. , Marriage will definitely consider practical issues.
and men's needs change with different stages.
When many men live with a woman, they may have just worked and have limited financial resources. They just find someone who can take care of their lives and share the cost.
If a woman enters the role of a traditional wife too quickly and provides "nanny-style contributions", it is likely that she will not go to the end because the irreplaceability of housework is too low and the value is not enough for men. He has money and his needs will increase.
For most men, a wife who can marry home requires both face and leeway.
Face depends on beauty, figure, work and education; while lining is emotional value.
So, women living together must not revolve around men. More skin care, fitness, and investment of time and money in learning and growth can create a sense of crisis and a desire to conquer men.
As for the core of emotional value, just one sentence makes a man feel "I'm great!"
This is something no man can resist. He feels good, great, and valuable in front of you. I won't open you anymore.
You can say when he works hard: "Husband, I admire your unyielding power";
every time he does things for you and gives you gifts, you can give feedback on your happiness and happiness;
said when he encountered difficulties: "husband, I believe in you"!
write to your girlfriends:
Many girlfriends always say that when they are in love, the relationship between two people is very sweet, but they get married.
In fact, the business model of love and marriage is completely different.
Give a small example:
When you are in love, you say: "You don't love me anymore", and men will try to coax you.
After you get married, you can say: "You don't love me anymore", and the man has a reason: "I have married you back. Isn't it enough to love?"
Hearing this, you can't refute it at all. When
hasn't gotten it yet, men will of course have a different attitude than if they got it completely.
Therefore, you need to rebuild the intimate relationship between you and manage the marriage in another way.
