Parents, as the first teachers on their children’s growth path, their words and deeds have a huge impact on their children, especially the impact of native families on their children far exceeds the imagination of many parents, although in children’s education Social education is included in the process, but every parent cannot ignore the guidance produced by family education.
Some time ago, the Wu Yifan incident that has attracted everyone's attention has also recently been promoted. The father who has disappeared for many years is suspected to be exposed.
Even when Wu Yifan was popular, every time he asked about the topic of his biological father in an interview, he would say that he had no impression that he was taken to Canada by his mother after his parents were divorced since childhood, and since then he changed his surname to Wu like his mother.
is precisely because he hopes that his son will become a dragon. His mother asked him to recite English from a young age, hoping that he would go to a prestigious school to become a doctor. However, he did not have such a talent but displayed a strong athletic talent in basketball. He still did not have such a talent when he returned to China. Get rid of the powerful control of his mother, and become a true "Mambo male", which has also been vividly demonstrated in many interviews.
So, many netizens also speculated: Where did his father go? As the situation became more serious, his mother also contacted his biological father. In any case, a strong mother and a missing father had a bad influence on his childhood, and it must be inseparable from his ending today.
[How will the lack of father’s companionship in childhood affect the child]
1. Too much dependence on mothers
, especially boys, once the father’s role is missing in the process of their growth, they will be too dependent on their mothers, not only too weak in character , They will even become the " 玛宝 male" that everyone can't accept. In this way, they lack their own opinions and not only can't control their own life, but they may also lose many opportunities in their future lives because of their weak personality.
2. There are cognitive deviations in emotions
In the process of children's growth, once they are not accompanied by their fathers, their performance is relatively fragile in terms of emotional cognition and acceptance, and it is impossible to be sure whether the other person treats them well or not. Purposeful?
, in particular, this kind of emotional cognitive bias can even affect their shaping of emotions and the three views, and will make them embark on the wrong path in the future.
is like Wu Yifan. When facing feelings, he not only failed to bear, but even played with feelings, thinking that there is nothing wrong with this. This is the powerful influence of the lack of father in his youth.
3. Children who are not responsible and responsible enough to grow up next to their mothers. Once the role of the father is missing, it is likely that the mother’s excessive spoiling will make them lose the responsibilities and responsibilities that boys should have. When they grow up in the future, this kind of inferiority It will also perform to the fullest.
It is precisely because of the powerful influence that the lack of fatherhood has on children during their growth that they will lose their competitiveness in their future life struggles. Therefore, during the growth of children, parents should do their best for their children. Only in this way can they face the future life with a more sound attitude.
[A more favorable growth environment for children]
1, a warm and harmonious family atmosphere
It is very important and critical to create a warm and harmonious family atmosphere for children during their growth. This is also the most important point that cannot be ignored.
Most children who have grown up in such a warm environment have not only good personalities, but also very harmonious interpersonal relationships. There are no unconfident behaviors. They can pay for their behavior and life.
2, courage and belief in shared commitment
As parents, as their children grow up, they must let their children know that they have the courage to take on and assume the importance of their lives. Only in this way can they have enough courage to grow up. Learn variousAll kinds of knowledge, faced with all kinds of difficulties, so they all have enough courage and courage.
[The editor has something to say]
Einstein said: Promote your career, don't let your career promote you.
Whether it is a father or a mother, the role played by the child in the growth process is different. The father brings the child a strong and powerful heart, while the mother uses care and patience to support the child’s warmth of growth. space.
The lack of any party will cause turbulence in the world for children, which is unimaginable for adults. Therefore, creating a favorable growth environment for children in the process of children’s growth is also the responsibility of every parent. Only in this way can their personality be They will be more healthy, and they will be able to avoid detours in their future lives and enable them to have greater achievements and a more stable life.
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