Ms. Gu / 36 years old / single mother
I am 36 years old, and my husband has passed away for 4 years. When I met my husband, his parents were gone by accident. Out of sympathy and out of love, I married without hesitation. Give it to him, so he turned his face with the family. At that time, he was very poor, but he was very motivated. In the past 10 years of marriage, he has been running around, working hard to make money, even working two jobs a day, to contribute to our family, and I took the children alone to solve his worries. Our life was getting better and better, but unexpectedly, an accident took his life.
After I finished taking care of his aftermath, I felt disappointed and desperate, but I was just a mother. Looking at the child's small face and comforting me, I was heartbroken, and I decided to live well for her. But there are still many inconveniences for a single woman with children. When I returned to my natal family, I always felt that my brother was married. After all, my younger brother was married, and their young couple lived with their parents. My younger brother and sister were even more dissatisfied when I went back. I had no choice but to entrust my daughter to my mother first, and pay monthly support on time. I opened a small shop at the gate of the community to make ends meet. I usually live in the shop. Actually, if I have a home, I can’t. The days I went back were really wronged.
One day my former high school classmate came to my store to buy things and chatted with me for an afternoon. When we finally left, we left the contact information. A few days later, she contacted me and said to participate in the class reunion. My life is like this now , I’m really embarrassed to go, but I want to see how everyone is doing now, and I’m afraid of being compared. After several struggles, I still packed up carefully and went to participate. Unexpectedly, there, I actually saw my first love, and suddenly the familiar feelings came to my heart.
I was afraid that he would see me embarrassed now, so I turned around and left, but unexpectedly, he saw me sharply. He took my arm, and the first sentence he said to me was: "Listen to Xiao Qi, you are not doing well now..." I thought he came to see me making a joke, but he did not expect that he next sentence The words completely made me tears: "I'll take care of you!" I admit that I really felt like an idol drama at the time, maybe because of the suffering for so long, plus I didn't want to live in the fence, the old feelings were restored that day. Burning, I promised to fall in love with him.
because he used to be my lover and I have a special trust in him, so we moved in together that day and did not take any protective measures. Unexpectedly, the change happened quickly. About a month after I came back, I went to the hospital to check my body, but accidentally found AIDS. When I got the results, I was dumbfounded. I have been cleansing myself all these years. I ran to ask him, and he hesitated to tell me that he was infected with AIDS by his ex-wife, and he only learned about it after the divorce. He felt sorry for me. Because he had been taking medicine before, he thought he wouldn't be infected. Looking at him in regret, I felt mixed.
As a result, he proposed to me on the spot. It was a mixed blessing, not together, I feel reluctant to bear this relationship, and I don’t want to go back and look at people’s faces. Let’s be together. On another thought, he was really good to me, and we are already together, I still have feelings for him. In the end, I decided to forgive him. After all, this is not entirely his fault. We are now working towards the future together, and it is precisely because we are all sick that the relationship between us is more precious. I think Let my story tell you that we must remember one thing at all times. Before we have a relationship, we must also check to ensure the safety of ourselves and the other party. Even if we get there in the end, we must Remember to take protective measures, this is responsible for everyone.
@小思医生 Popular Science:
Pre-marital check-ups can avoid the risk of AIDS, which has nothing to do with trust. You cannot ignore the importance of health because of blindness to love.
Xiaosi said:
as long as your loverStill, then love really exists. Take care of your love, don't give up lightly, it's that simple.
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