The most prestigious Hong Kong singers in the 1980s are Alan Tam , Leslie Cheung, Anita Mui, and Chen Baiqiang. They are the performers of strength and idols. Their strength almost monopolized the entire 80s music awards ceremony.
And Alan Tam, as one of the representative figures of the Hong Kong pop music scene, was also a man of the day. Although he has achieved a lot of achievements, his marriage life has been criticized by many people.
Alan Tam and his wife Yang Jiewei met in a nightclub in 1974. At that time, Yang Jiewei was a beauty consultant for a cosmetics company. She was very good at stage costumes and had a unique vision and insights into fashion. Then she became a full performer. Art planner.
Yang Jiewei was talented, young and beautiful. At that time, Alan Tam. Yang Jiewei had just debuted and had nothing. Under Alan Tam’s fierce pursuit, Yang Jiewei fell. The two married in 1981, but the marriage remained underground. It was not until 1993 that the relationship between husband and wife was announced. However, the wedding of the two was relatively deserted. Invite some relatives and friends and have a simple meal to celebrate.
After marriage, Yang Jiewei quit her job in order to take better care of Alan Tam, while Alan Tam continued to work hard on her career. With the development of her career, Alan Tam gradually emerged and became more famous.
After marriage, Yang Jiewei always wanted a child belonging to both of them, but every time Alan Tan used career trouble as an excuse to dispel his wife’s desire to have children, and declared to the media that they were a DINK family and would not have children. Due to Yang Jiewei's many miscarriages, Yang Jiewei's uterus was injured and she would never have the opportunity to be a mother.
all said that the predecessors of planted trees, and the descendants took the shade. A few years later, 41-year-old Alan Tam met 19-year-old Zhu Yongting at a fan meeting. With the interaction between the two, Zhu Yongting became Alan Tan’s underground The lover, it was not until the media exposed that Zhu Yongting gave birth to a son for Alan Tam in 1996, and the relationship was revealed. In order to appease Yang Jiewei, Alan Tam gave all of his wealth to Yang Jiewei.
Although Yang Jiewei who knew the truth was unwilling, she could only suffer from a dumb loss, acquiescing to the existence of Zhu Yongting. It wasn't until 2006 that Alan Tam's father died of illness. In order to fulfill his father's last wish, he officially disclosed Zhu Yongting's identity and offered to leave his father with offspring, but Yang Jiewei could not give him what he needed.
In the 2007 winter solstice, Alan Tam took Zhu Yongting’s mother and her son to dinner together with his mother. The three generations were in the same room, and Yang Jiewei was left behind. For Yang Jiewei, after more than 20 years of marriage, she gave this man all her body and mind. Betrayal, helplessness is done, and now except to accept the facts, there is no way to recover.
and guarding this nameless marriage may be a pain for Yang Jiewei, but it is already bearish in life. She chose the ancient Buddha of the green lantern but lived for the rest of her life. In 2008, the Hong Kong media reported that Yang Jiewei was cutting her hair for practice.
Now a mother is expensive with her son, Zhu Yongting succeeded in taking the position, and Alan Tam has transferred 500 million assets to his son's name in the future for her son.
The world only knows that new people laugh, but old people cry. may be the best ending in the eyes of the Tan family. They all say that being a mother is strong, but Yang Jiewei lacks this identity. What mood can she use to fight for her future?
@陌陌人生: A woman in marriage should have the heart of the Bodhisattva and the vajra method. As the saying goes, a woman has to be ruthless to have a stable status. If a man is unwilling to marry you or have a baby with you, then you should get out in time, otherwise it will be a waste of time to go around. I hope all women can be treated tenderly by time. emotion marriage
