If everyone has ever liked someone in their life, or once sincerely loved one. But know that like is not the same as love. As for whether it is appropriate or not, it is another matter to leave like and love behind. Sometimes the ultimate fit for being together is not the one we once liked or loved.
There is such a movie called "The Later Us" which deeply taught us this truth. In the movie, Lin Jianqing and Xiao Xiao were two fellow villagers who went to the field to work hard at the same time. At that time, everyone had their own hearts in their hearts. dream. The two of them met on the train after a long time getting along, slowly knowing each other and loving each other. From the beginning, Lin Jianqing liked Xiaoxiao from above, and for Fang Xiaoxiao at the time, her biggest wish in her life was Marry a Beijinger who is rich and has a house, who can treat her well and let her live a good life.
So she had a lot of love in the beginning, but after all, because she hadn't read any books, every time she fell in love, she was rejected by the husband's parents, and the two could not finally come together. For Lin Jianqing, although he had read, he fell in love with this strange girl. Lin Jianqing had his own dream since he was a child. He has loved games since he was a child, hoping to develop a game by himself. He thought, if one day she could make a lot of money and buy a big house, Fang Xiaoxiao would be happy with him at this time.
may be the love of life! So that the two people finally came together, who did not have a dream in his heart when he was young? These are not important, the important thing is that this dream cannot be held to the end. The two of them really liked each other, and they really enjoyed each other at first. But after all, due to the poor development of the game by Lin Jianqing in the early stage, the two can only live in poverty. I can only live in a rented house, even when I go home, I don’t even want to spend the money for a taxi, and go to crowd the bus. When it comes to the New Year, I can’t go home to accompany my parents.
The white lie may have started from this time, and I can’t go home during the Chinese New Year. In order not to worry my father, Lin Jianqing can only tell his father that they had a good time outside, and went to eat hot pot and barbecue. In order to let him not worry about being outside, his father could only say that many people came to the house during the New Year, and they couldn't make it. Then the family could be lively. But both of them knew in their hearts whether these were true.
We have all had dreams, but dreams are often killed by reality. As time passed, the lives of the two of them still couldn't get better. As a result, various problems have arisen. For example, if two people live in a small house with only one bed in the house, there is nothing other than that. Besides, with the pressure of life, Lin Jianqing can make progress in developing software. No, he could not realize his dream for a long time. This made him start to give up on himself. Besides, two people will inevitably have friction after being together for a long time, and there will always be quarrels because of some things. So in the end the relationship between the two people came to an end and they broke up.
After the two broke up, Lin Jianqing began to regret it. He immediately chased him out. When he found Fang Xiaoxiao, Fang Xiaoxiao was already standing on the train, and he was standing outside the train door and none of them went up. One didn't come down, and when the door closed and the train drove away, the two of them simply missed it.
Perhaps the breakup was a big blow to Lin Jianqing. From that time on, he began to cheer up and devote himself to developing his own games. Finally, the game was successfully developed, and it also used the words that Xiaoxiao said by his partner. If Ian did not find Kylie, then the whole world would no longer be colorful. Just as he didn't find Fang Xiaoxiao and the two of them were separated, to him, the whole world was no longer colored.
After Fang Xiaoxiao left Lin Jianqing, she started to go out and work hard. Lin Jianqing, because of his successful game development, is doing better and better, and he bought a big house when he had money. Once on a TV station, he accidentally mentioned that the most sorry person in his life was Fang Xiaoxiao. So she began to take the initiative to contact Fang Xiaoxiao, hoping that the two of them could go back to the past.
He is rich and has a house.Because Fang Xiaoxiao will be with him again, but after all, he thinks that two people are together, and sometimes it is not money and a house that are greedy, but inappropriate. Just like Lin Jianqing, although he has a big house in Beijing, he wants to take his father to live in Beijing, and for him, perhaps half of the hard work in his life is for his father, but his father Not willing, because in my own mind, whether my son is good is never a question of money or not. Maybe people like to stay in their hometown when they are old, but when Lin Jianqing has money, he will forget to consider things for others.
At that time, Lin Jianqing found Fang Xiaoxiao and told her that if the two of us didn't break up, would we be happy now? And Fang Xiaoxiao answered like this, even if we didn’t break up in the first place, we will still break up, even if we didn’t care about getting married in the first place, and we will still get divorced in the future. Then we will fight again. In a word,
means that you can't go back to a sentence, and you can never go back to the past. It is a problem that two people are inappropriate. But in fact, the two of them have had the opportunity. There have been opportunities, but neither of them grasped it. For Lin Jianqing, he caught up with the train station at the beginning. If Fang Xiaoxiao could get down, the two of them would be together and would be very happy now. As for Fang Xiaoxiao, if Lin Jianqing had rushed into the train regardless, she would have stayed with him forever.
This is the step that neither of these two people took, just like this. So, ten years can change a lot of things. After ten years, that is, later, we worked hard until later, we have money, we have a house, and we can live a good life. A very happy family. I also have the other half of my life, and even have children.
We didn’t get together because we didn’t fit in the first place. Even after we got married, even if she still has the lover in her heart, but the person who marries you in the end may not be your favorite person, but the most The one who suits you.
