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"Unborn" is a Korean TVN series broadcast on October 17, 2014. It is a special plan for the 8th anniversary of Taiwan celebration.
is adapted from the webcomic "Weisheng" of the same name created by Yin Taihao, which is known as the "working class textbook", and depicts the faces of people in the workplace from the perspective of newcomers in the workplace. Since the launch of
, the ratings have risen all the way, and it has set the second place in the ratings record of Korean cable TV local TV series, second only to the Fengshen drama "Please answer 1988", and set off the so-called "unborn wave" at that time. The score on Douban reaches 9.3 and is widely loved by Chinese audiences.
"Weisheng" tells the story of Zhang Gelai (played by Lin Shixian), who was completely devoted to Go when he was young, after losing the election, with a high school degree and social experience as zero, holding a pale and thin resume like white paper , Airborne the first five large-scale general trading company in South Korea as an intern, and started a lonely struggle to become a full-time employee. I thought I was living, but I was actually fighting for survival in the adult world. The story of
is very simple. There is no love element that must be found in domestic dramas. There is no blood torn. All are dressed in uniform professional attire. There are few tricks. In that small cubicle, there are giving up, blood, and tears. There is also joy. It simply tells the story of a social newcomer entering the workplace. The seemingly simple plot contains many problems that we almost all face when entering the workplace. It is so vivid and real. The color of
is mainly dark blue, the rhythm is very slow, it is not cruel and does not abuse the heart, the plain narrative, the delicate depiction of the plot similar to our daily life, from time to time, the viewer's heart is touched and moved to tears. The main line of
characters is also very clear. The 26-year-old social white Zhang Gelai, along with the female elite An Yingyi, the social savvy Han Xilu, and the high-achieving student Zhang Baiqi, entered the top five large-scale comprehensive trading companies in South Korea at the same time. Continue to face all kinds of new challenges in the workplace, constantly solving problems and constantly changing.
Here, although Zhang Gelai is a pure novice who can't even copy after graduation from high school, he can always meet noble people to contribute to the flames in various moments. An Yingyi and Han Seolyu can also respond to the "challenges" and make timely adjustments. Compared to them, Zhang Baiqi, who thinks he has great ability and has worked hard, but the result is unsatisfactory, is more like us.
Today's article, we mainly analyze from Zhang Baiqi, as an aspiring young man who has just entered the workplace, the three stages of growth and the practical significance.
02 The three stages of Zhang Baiqi’s growth journey
In the next days, the work is basically the same as Dirty Work: sorting out Excel sheets, sending emails, checking typos, etc.
Slowly, Zhang Baiqi couldn't help but find his superiors and said:
"I'm here to do business, not to reconcile accounts, draw forms, modify corporate directories!"
and the superior's answer is:
, "Ours" The team members, compared to those who are good at eloquence and packaging, need people who can silently develop their careers further, the kind of people with basic skills."
Zhang Baiqi, who considers himself innocent, feels uneasy and feels that his boss is unwilling to deliver. Any job was given to him because he was afraid that he would take the credit of his boss, but Zhang Klai, who was despised by him, was repeatedly entrusted with heavy responsibility. After thinking about it, he contacted the headhunting company and wanted to quit.
"The Great Me: Self-Development Psychology" says:
When we are separated from our original relationship, original identity, original goal, we also temporarily lose the soil that produces a sense of meaning. The old life has passed, and the new life has not yet arrived. You are left in a vacuum of a very special sense of meaning, not knowing where you are or where you will go.
Zhang Baiqi at this stage only wants a big business in his heart, but he has no foundation and details in his eyes. He is very ambitious. Before he turned to the right, he was struggling with the resources of the Ministry of Resources and the Ministry of Iron and Steel. He entered a period of confusion, because he could not see the status quo change for a while. He wanted to break the situation, quit, and regain his home court.
Think about it carefully, there are many people like this around us, and even we ourselves have such problems. We are eager to show ourselves, but didn't get the opportunity for a while. I think it is a problem of other people and the environment. I think that changing places will definitely be different. , As the saying goes, everything is difficult at the beginning. As a newcomer, you have to start from the basics. It is the most difficult time at the beginning.
Zhang Baiqi, who fought between heaven and man, made a nervous call for help to Agent Jiang. He felt complicated and conflicted. First, he realized his own shortcomings, but he had a low eye and ignored the most basic content. Second, he felt very complicated for Agent Jiang. , Felt that he didn't like himself, but eager to get his approval, mixed with emotions, Zhang Baiqi was speechless.
Zhang Baiqi is anyone who relies on others and needs timely positive feedback from the outside world. A person with such a personality is an extremely sensitive person, because he needs to find the reason for his existence from the outside world, and the continuous pursuit of excellence is also to prove There are pros and cons to one's own value. Such a person will be very good, but he will be disappointed, hated, and doubtful if he does not grasp the degree, and will eventually fall into a circle of self-denial and self-condemnation.
Psychologist and philosopher William James said: In human natureThe strongest is the desire to be recognized. Interpersonal Relations Carnegie also once said that being recognized by others and feeling important to oneself is the main characteristic that distinguishes humans from animals.
Before, he had thoughts about work and superiors. At the end of the call, he heard Agent Jiang "see you tomorrow". He looked at the agent’s seat for a while. He smiled for the first time and his whole state immediately changed, because Zhang Bai Qi read about expectations and recognition in Jiang's "See you tomorrow", which greatly satisfied the inner emotional needs and self-identity. By the end of
, Zhang Baiqi was already able to carry out the project by himself, and he was really affirmed by the implicit steel team leader. The whole person was radiant, self-confidence returned, and more practical.
Zhang Baiqi at this stage can only see the distance and not see the front, to humbly asking for advice, being cautious and careful, and constantly colliding and colliding with his distinctive self and the powerful real environment, finally finding the right posture and reaching a reconciliation.
From the perspective of these three stages, although Zhang Baiqi worked well in the resource department during the early internship period and seemed to have limitless opportunities, it was actually a sham. If he turned into the resource department at that time, he would mostly follow the leader all day. To fight for the opportunity of a big business with a clever face, it is inevitable that he will become another Section Chief Park, who lost himself in the complicated working life. Although he went to the steel department, he faced a business with no bright spots, and had a rigid principled superior. Real numbers are tormented, but Jiang Jiang, who has little body and words, is teaching him in his own way. In addition to personal abilities and professional skills, there have also been many changes in other aspects, laying a solid foundation for a better future.
03 The gap between ideals and reality requires everyone to cross over Zhang Baiqi who graduated from
, with self-confidence and even conceit. His whole body is full of career pursuits, neglected by leaders, and inferior qualifications and education. His own Zhang Glei is highly valued. This is something he didn't expect, and it is also something that his pride cannot accept.
At this time, we will inevitably have such a problem: From being like a fish in the water during the internship to being embarrassed after becoming a regular employee, which link has the problem? The root of
is the contradiction between "I feel good about myself, I think I can do it by myself" and "I can't be considered by others". Why is
?
Agent Jiang once said this: Our team members, than those who are good at gorgeous eloquence and packaging, need people who can silently develop their careers further, the kind of people with basic skills. The subtext of
is that you are good at gorgeous eloquence and packaging, you do not have basic skills, in short, you are not reliable. The reason for
is actually very simple. Zhang Baiqi, who didn’t know anything about the Iron and Steel Department at the time, submitted his business plan on the first day he entered the department. The first basic work was done according to his own understanding, and loopholes were added hastily. Hundreds of times, exposed his impetuosity and complacency.
my country’s famous novelist and playwright Lao She once said: “Pride and complacency are our terrible trap, and we dig this trap ourselves.”
Zhang Baiqi’s understanding of life and workplace is too simple and too much. Idealization, thinking that as long as you have the talent and work hard, you will be able to do a great cause outstandingly, but who is not working hard, there are not so many reversal and highlight moments, always step by step, especially As a young player just entering the adult world, don't worry.
If Zhang Baiqi's internship period is the "star period", then this period can be called the "mushroom period".
The name "mushroom" comes from the law of mushrooms, which means that just as mushrooms grow from the darkest corners, human growth must go through such a process. No matter how talented you are, you can only do the simplest things at the beginning. From a certain point of view, "mushroom experience" is a good thing, it is a kind of polishing, tempering people's will and endurance, so that young people who are fledgling can become "mushrooms" for a period of time, which can eliminate their unrealistic Fantasy, so that they can get closer to reality, think and deal with problems more realistically and rationally, and how to spend this period more efficiently and grow up quickly is a must for every young person.
If you can quickly find yourself like Zhang BaiqiIf you change your own problems and grow up in time, the sense of value and accomplishment you want will come faster. However, it is inevitable that some people have not withstood the test of life in the early stage, lost their fighting spirit, and fled. Everything will be as smooth and simple as we imagined. Life is always changing. What the future looks like depends entirely on how you challenge and leapfrog.
is just like what Ma Dong once said in "The Story of Wonderful Flowers": There is a gap between ideal and reality. Failure to cross it is called frustration, and striding over is called growth.
04 Overcoming the temptations of the outside world and inner conflicts is the first step to growth
Some people say that you can feel the temptations of the outside world because of the floating of your heart, because you have not yet found your place in your real life. Before, you will be shaken.
Zhang Baiqi has no sense of belonging because he did not find his place in the company, but because he worked hard in the company and was not reconciled, he was struggling with the sense of work value and dignity, and his inner balance was constantly tilting, so he had been hesitant to make appointments with headhunters. When an interview was agreed, he answered simply that he would be on time for the appointment, but when Agent Jiang was not in charge of handling emergency business, he could feel the cherishment of the current job, even though the decision to quit was an instant. However, the meaning behind it is not just leaving a company, but saying goodbye to one's self-confidence and self-esteem, which is to avoid facing reality.
Zhang Baiqi is a person with strong self-esteem and loves feathers. This can be reflected from the fact that he never actively participates in the gossip of the same period. Even if the conversation is thrown on him, he will smile less and respond, so he is confident and even a little arrogant. He didn’t allow himself to leave like this, but such a state was not what he wanted. The inner entanglement and the struggle whether to leave or not have been going on in his heart until Mr. Jiang’s "See you tomorrow."
"Study" pointed out: "The essence of change is not the external replacement of the old and the new, but the process of self-reconstruction."
What really turned Zhang Baiqi's self-consciousness was the moment when he patiently plucked up the courage to call Jiang's agent, Jiang The agent's unrelenting and candid guidance and help caused him to turn back and forth on the phone, and after talking with Agent Jiang, Zhang Baiqi had already understood his flaws. At the beginning, he was unconvinced and desolate. He may also understand the meaning of the company's arrangements. As an excellent person, he seems to be accustomed to praise, affirmation and praise. He lacks patience and practical enthusiasm.
Agent Jiang told Zhang Baiqi, who wants to do a big business without focusing on the basics and details, if he wants to be popular and want to show himself, he will be very anxious, and what the steel team does is basic, rigorous, even Not gorgeous, we may not be conspicuous to do what we should do, but we can't think that it doesn't exist. Finally dispelled Zhang Baiqi's idea of quitting.
Zhang Baiqi has also completed the process of self-worth fragmentation to reshaping. He has become more mature in thinking, and he has a more comprehensive and mature view of problems. He has broken away from only looking at the distance, invisible to the overall and invisible limitations.
As a newcomer, you need to have a pragmatic heart. Don’t be arrogant, have high eyes and low hands, and face the temporary “gloom”. The best way is not to complain and escape, but to do the current “basic work” and accumulate your strength. Even work that is not gorgeous has the meaning of persevering. Any kind of work has its own unique meaning and value. It depends only on your positioning and mentality.
written at the end
The name "Weisheng" is the term for Go, which means the last move in Go, but there is a chance to come back to life. The pieces that cannot survive at present, but they are not dead, but there are still room for survival. piece.
And society is like a game of Go, in which we are all pawns. As long as we continue, even if there is only one move, the opportunity is still in our hands. We choose to actively work or to abandon the game.
Sometimes we are eager to prove ourselves, as if we have done a lot of things, but we keep falling on the way forward, but don’t give up easily, and don’t doubt yourself easily. Failure and confusion are not terrible, people are In such a difficult transition, it becomes deep and precipitated, regaining the true self.
will chooseAll the moments add up to be life, that is life. What choice makes at at each moment is not the element that determines life?
Author: Lucky, a hope for life, health, middle-aged girls in the world have something to say. I am trying to be a person who is always alive and happy to meet you on the way to growth.
