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Recently, Luo Zhixiang and Zhou Yangqing broke up with a lot of trouble. Luo Zhixiang's personal design collapsed overnight. First, I will sort out the main events:
July 31, 2019, Luo Zhixiang hugged Zhou Yang Qing celebrated his 40th birthday, and the two had a sweet open relationship; on December 16, 2010, Luo Zhixiang wrote a post saying that he "disgusts his girlfriend wearing sexy clothes." On December 26, 2019, Luo Zhixiang and Zhou Yangqing showed their affection. Netizens marveled at the long relationship between them.
On March 10, 2020, it was revealed on the Internet that Show Luo and Zhou Yangqing had broken up; on April 23, Zhou Yangqing posted an article acknowledging that Luo Zhixiang had broken up for a while, and revealed that Luo Zhixiang’s behavior was improper; then, Luo Zhixiang’s makeup artist issued an article; April 24 , Luo Zhixiang responded to Zhou Yangqing and apologized.
On April 25, Zhou Yangqing issued an article again, stating that “I stepped up to prevent other girls from being harmed”; on April 26, Luo Zhixiang’s mother expressed her dissatisfaction with Zhou Yangqing’s behavior: This is to ruin my son. As soon as the
incident came out, netizens expressed their support for Zhou Yangqing. Luo Zhixiang's "Time Management" and other disciplines were "born", and the wind reviews dropped to the lowest point. The so-called "there are pictures with the truth, no pictures without the truth", Zhou Yangqing's revelation did not post any pictures. Why do everyone think that Zhou Yangqing's words are a stone hammer? The main reason for is Zhou Yangqing's model-style post. If there is no help from an expert, then Zhou Yangqing is really a public relations genius. Let's analyze this article by Zhou Yangqing in depth.
Luo Zhixiang and Zhou Yangqing
01 Formally
1. Posting time
Zhou Yangqing’s post was at 9 o’clock in the morning, and happened to be a normal time for everyone to work. Considerable; the most important thing is that most people are just about to go to work at this time and are swiping their phones, which can be said to kill three birds with one stone.
Look at the time of Luo Zhixiang’s response at . He responded once at 12:12 on April 23. This response attracted a lot of scolding. Later Luo Zhixiang realized that it was wrong and responded again at 5:16 on 24. This time, the attitude of confession was obviously more sincere, and it seemed that he had been guided. In a post in the early morning, Luo Zhixiang revealed two messages to the audience: one was that he was very anxious because of being hammered so hard that he could not sleep at night; the other was that "time management" was true, and he really didn't sleep in the middle of the night.
2. Text typesetting
Most celebrity posts are not typeset, because generally speaking, celebrities’ microblogs are not too long, and fans will wear filters on their own, even if a large piece of text is piled up. , Fans will slowly finish watching.
In fact, according to the reader's reading range and reading experience, if a paragraph of text exceeds 6 lines, it will make people feel depressed and the reading experience will drop rapidly. Therefore, self-media articles will basically line 5-6 as a paragraph, with a blank line between paragraphs. When we read this Weibo by Zhou Yangqing, we have grasped this rule, and the blank line should be blank. It is very comfortable to read.
Looking back at Luo Zhixiang’s response, from the beginning to the end, not to mention empty lines, even a punctuation mark is rare, plus the traditional characters, everyone seems more laborious, and it feels uncomfortable at first glance. In order to make Luo Zhixiang understand, Zhou Yangqing used traditional characters in the past. This time he used simplified characters, which was clearly written for the audience.
3. Picture setting
No picture is exactly what Zhou Yangqing's "intention" is about. Words bring people the richest imagination. Based on Zhou Yangqing's words, everyone will fill up many pictures and plots by themselves. Everyone will fill up their brains according to their own expectations. If you put a picture, it will limit everyone’s imagination, and every bit in the picture may be magnified. Is it a mistake?It is not necessary that both sides are wrong.
Zhou Yangqing's move is quite Zhuangzi's style. Zhuangzi said when describing the size of Kunpeng: "The back of Peng is thousands of miles away." Zhuangzi didn't really explain how big Kunpeng was, but let everyone imagine. If he directly said that Kunpeng was as big as Mount Tai, everyone would have a conclusion: it turned out to be that big. At this time, if you don't describe it, it is the best description, and Zhou Yangqing is the best picture if you don't put the picture.
These are just forms of cleverness, and they belong to the category of pediatrics. When we analyze Zhou Yangqing's text from the content, we have to praise her for her good intentions. The full text can be said that there is no nonsense, all the things that should be written are written, and the words that should not be written are not mentioned. It can be regarded as a model of "break-up essay".
02 On the content,
“I have been breaking up with Luo Zhixiang for a while (I haven’t said that it’s because of the sudden epidemic some time ago and I don’t want to take up public resources because of this).” It's clear, neat and eye-catching. At the same time, explained why he did not post as soon as he broke up, raising his personal image to the level of serving the country and the people. The audience not only won't blame her for posting at this time, but also feel that she is reasonable and puts national interests first.
In linguistics, American linguist Paul Grice puts forward 4 principles of conversation: quantity criterion, quality criterion, association criterion, and method criterion. The approximate meaning of is: don't talk nonsense, the language must be refined; don't tell lies, the language must be true; the words must be precise and not obscure. The beginning of Zhou Yangqing is in full compliance with these four criteria.
"This time has been so long that I can now explain the whole thing to you in a completely calm and even slightly ridiculous tone. Of course, it has been so long that I wrote this article because of the impulse or not being calm when I just broke up. The mentality of revenge.” The sentence
explains the cause and effect, and shows that I wrote this article after thinking about time, not on impulse, then this article is without personal emotions, but an objective and true article. article. is high, it is really high. Zhou Yangqing did not cry to make everyone trust her, nor did he emphasize how true he is, but he has let the readers put down their psychological defenses and think about the problem from her perspective.
Luo Zhixiang:
When we were still together, there was a joke, I asked you: "You said if one day we broke up, what would I do?"
You said: "You will write a super Long rap to scold me."
You even compiled the lyrics for me.
but you guessed wrong! I didn't write a song.
I still choose to write a paragraph for you. I used to edit the Weibo copy for you. This time is the last long text I wrote to you. The text of
recalls a fragment of her life with Luo Zhixiang, using language description to enhance the credibility, and the sense of the picture is very strong, it immediately brings the reader into her world. "I used to help you edit the copywriting on Weibo", just a few words proves his ability to edit the copywriting, but also denies Luo Zhixiang's ability to express in words.
"The reason for the breakup is that I looked at your phone. Although you told me more than once, the most important thing for two people together is the trust between each other. Looking at each other's phones will break this trust, you don't like it! It can be regarded as obediently listening to your words for nine years, and I haven’t seen your cell phone for so long.) But this time, for some reason, I just read it.” The first sentence of
explained the reason why I found Luo Zhixiang’s true face: cell phone . Without a trace, I emphasized that I did not look at Show Luo’s cell phone because of Luo Zhixiang’s unreasonable request : "I", because of love, soTo be obedient; and "you", use love to deceive me to be obedient. The audience immediately understood whether it was right or wrong, right or wrong.
"If you don’t look at it, I don’t know that you have another phone specifically for chatting with girls.
It turns out that almost every day when I am away, you will ask girls to come home. The key is still different.
you In every city, there are girls who can make appointments to hotels.
You and the female artists under your banner who you introduced to me, and even your makeup artist, have a long-term improper relationship between men and women."
It’s a heavy hammer. First, it highlights that Luo Zhixiang has a mobile phone specially used for chatting with girls- Scheming Depth ; secondly, he asks girls every day, and it is different- is sinful ; finally, with the people around you Female artists and makeup artists have an improper relationship- is extremely hateful. The three are progressive and logical.
"And you and your brothers are so disrespectful to those girls you call out to play
, what's more, you will often hold "multiplayer sports" that normal people can't imagine...
All the things that have subverted my three views have happened to you who I love most and have been in love for nine years..."
If the hammer in front is only at the level of misbehavior, then the back side rises to Discriminating against women, advocating evil tastes, and subverting the three views. Whether it is tolerable or unbearable, this shows that Luo Zhixiang is not just a simple "scumbag", but a "public enemy" of women. This passage of directly extends Luo Zhixiang from his own opposition to the opposition of women, and even the opposition of all mankind, because he destroys everyone's three views.
"Now think about myself really stupid, why didn't I let it go when I caught you for the first time? Every time I was moved by your promises and regrets, I forgave your betrayal again and again, but still hold I have expectations and feel that I am the only one who understands you, can accompany you, and change you."
put yourself in the perspective of the weak, "I am stupid", I made mistakes that many girls would make, and "you" , Cheating more than once, deceived me to forgive after being caught by me. This passage greatly aroused the sympathy and anger of women, and raised the mood of the audience to a certain height. There is no vocabulary to slander or insult Luo Zhixiang, but every sentence is negative. left the insulting words to the audience and said that this is Zhou Yangqing's most brilliant place .
How can a person who loves me so much
make these... The key to
is: where do you come from?
I tell you good night at three or four in the middle of the night every day.
Don't you sleep for a date? !
This text is the origin of "time management". On the surface, it is an inquiry, but it is actually a heavy hammer. Luo Zhixiang does not even need to sleep for "exercise". At this time, everyone will make up for Luo Zhixiang’s dark circles and connect his haggard appearance to this incident. Even if it does not constitute a causal relationship, it will become an inevitable cause and effect. .
If we break up because of a different personality or you fall in love with someone else, I will definitely be an excellent "ex-girlfriend" in everyone's mouth.
didn't say anything after breaking up, and said freely: We are still good friends.
But sorry, this time the situation is too special!
Because I know that now, and in the future, there will be many, many girls who are deceived by you at the same time. They may naively think that they are the only ones (other than me).
girls, don't be so confident that you are the one who can change him.
Because some people are born with scum.
(Your real wife and wife X100 is scum!!!)
First make an assumption: If we break up because of disagreements, I can also become the best ex-girlfriend, indicating my tasteThe grid is okay, so I exposed you because you are too scumbag, and you deserve it.
then transformed myself from a "victim" to a "righteous", means that I exposed you not because I was hurt and wanted to ruin you, but to save those who have not been hurt by you but may be by you in the future The hurt girl. So "I" is a kind-hearted messenger of justice. Today, you are open to your evil deeds from a female perspective. The text behind
directly changed the title, from speaking to Luo Zhixiang at the beginning, he became "girls", so the role of the audience became a listener from Zhou Yangqing's perspective, and Zhou Yangqing complained The person becomes a reminder. The change of is really high, and the change of identity is completed silently and unconsciously.
If you read this text carefully, you will find that none of the things mentioned in the text are true . They are all hypotheses: first suppose the situation of a peaceful breakup, and then suppose that many women were deceived by Luo Zhixiang. What happened, Zhou Yangqing wrote in this way, but let the audience make up for the reality.
But thank you.
......
If you ask me, do you regret it? I do not regret.
Because it is indeed you, it makes me better.
Because I love you, I grow up, mature, and become more independent. At the end of
not only did not accuse Luo Zhixiang, but thanked Luo Zhixiang for teaching her own growth. A dignified, magnificent and mature female image appeared on the paper, which not only appeared to be sensible and not as knowledgeable as Luo Zhixiang, but also undermined Luo Zhixiang invisibly.
Reading the whole article, I had to admire Zhou Yangqing's writing style, not pretentious, not hysterical, and seemed to be talking about it. In fact, the sentence was hidden, and Luo Zhixiang could not fight back. Let’s take a look at Luo Zhixiang’s response again.
"First of all, I'm sorry that my personal affairs occupy public resources, thank you for your concern." The first sentence of
is not focused, it seems very official and insincere, this feeling is like a promotion in the middle of the night Call you, wake you up and tell you "I'm sorry, I disturbed you to sleep." "Thank you for your concern" at the back of is made out of nothing, forcibly saying that everyone cares about him, in fact, everyone just wants to eat melons.
"Perhaps a lot of people are waiting for how I will respond, but I just want to say that the happy things that two people have experienced together, regardless of the ups and downs, have divided and combined many times in the past nine years. I did not do the right thing. Will review, many things can not only be explained clearly in a few words, and will not be explained again." The text of
is full of loopholes and unreasonable sentences. first said that many people were waiting for him to respond. Isn't this nonsense, and then said no to respond, then what are you doing now? Regardless of the happy things experienced in the middle, regardless of the ups and downs, this sentence turned into "division and recombination many times in nine years", This is called "incomplete composition" in linguistics, which is a sick sentence . Remember the 4 conversation guidelines mentioned earlier? Zhou Yangqing's writing completely meets those 4 accuracy, while Luo Zhixiang's writing perfectly avoids those 4 criteria. After saying it, I didn't say it, making the audience feel that their eyes were disturbed.
"Thank you for this life we met and fell in love with, I do not regret it either". At the end of
is even more in the cloud. People say "no regrets" consciousness is: Although I am a victim, I am generous, so I do not regret or blame; and as a "spiritual abuser", you "do not" Regret" what? What can you regret? What happened to you.
Generally speaking, Zhou Yangqing's "Breakup Essay" can be called a model.
At the height of the article, Zhou Yangqing not only clarified the truth, but also left room for readers to imagine; he not only clarified the fact that he was a victim, but also raised the issue.The height of the document transforms itself into a "just person", which is called "pointing out the center and deepening the theme" in literature.
In terms of emotional expression, Zhou Yangqing’s words are not emotional, they appear very objective, not extreme, nor irritating to rivals, nor slander their predecessors, but slander every word, leaving all swear words to the reader, This is called "emotional transfer" in psychology.
In terms of writing technique, Zhou Yangqing’s writing is simple, not pretentious, and does not appear deliberate. Readers will not think that she intends to guide readers’ thoughts, but in fact, she has led readers to think from her standpoint time and time again. . This is called "line drawing technique" in linguistics.
Introduction to the author: @星空婉儿, a Chinese-language person who loves reading and travel, graduated from Central China Normal University, and his motto: Love can last long years. I hope that I can meet friends with literature, and welcome everyone to talk together.
