[More details exposed] Fujian 28-year-old mother committed suicide with two young children, conflicted with in-laws, husband was not able

2020-09-11 01:50:44 movie 226℃

On April 28, Shi Chunmei, a 28-year-old woman in Jiaomei Town, Zhangzhou City, Fujian Province, left her home with her three and six-year-old children after leaving her "absolute letter."

In her absolute letter, she stated that she was on a dead end because of a conflict with her in-laws. The Xiamen Shuguang rescue team dispatched more than 100 people to search and found the remains of Shi Chunmei and two young children on May 1.

On May 8, a policeman from Jiaomei Police Station in Zhangzhou City told reporters that Shi Chunmei was currently judged to have committed suicide.

Shi Chunmei's circle of friends Photo courtesy of the respondent:

Rescue Captain:

On the day of the incident, she wore a red jacket

. On April 28, the drizzle started and the 28-year-old Shi Chunmei from Jiaomei Town, Zhangzhou left home with two children.

At about 18:00 that day, Shi Chunmei and the two children appeared in the surveillance. She was wearing a red shirt, holding her little son, holding the older one, and walking along the river path towards the sandbank. In the surveillance screenshot, Shi Chunmei's eldest son raised a hand, as if gesticulating with his mother excitedly. Shi Chunmei ignored it, walked to the river bank and looked down for a while, holding the elder son’s hand, and disappeared...

Surveillance information map at 6 pm on April 28 According to the Xiamen Shuguang rescue team

"When I looked at surveillance, I thought she was The action of lowering your head is to find a place to jump into the river, but it is not.” According to the search track, the leader of Xiamen Shuguang rescue team Wang Gang introduced that at about 17:00 that day, Shi Chunmei rode two children away from home on an electric car to a main road in the town. Later, I drove a Didi towards Shazhou Village and arrived at Beixi Sluice on Jiulong River in Fujian at about 18:10.

At 19:17, the surveillance of Xinshizhou Village captured Shi Chunmei's last video data. Based on the visits of volunteers from the Shuguang rescue team, Shi Chunmei came here, bought two bottles of mineral water at the commissary, and walked south along the river bank. go back.

Since then, no one has seen Shi Chunmei again.

investigates this step, Wang Gang already has a bad speculation. While encouraging Shi Chunmei's family, he calculated river water and weather-related data, inferred the time of the body's ascent after the body went down the water, and finally delineated the search target in the two downstream areas. Sister

brother-in-law is filial and filial, and does not look like a husband

After Shi Chunmei disappeared, her husband Huang Tianfa did not close his eyes for a few days. In addition to entrusting the Dawn Rescue Team to find out, he himself was also inquiring about various clues, and every time he heard a little clue, he immediately set off.

In Shi Chunmei's suicide note, she always emphasized her strong love for her husband. On the day of the incident, she sent the prepared "absolute letter" to the circle of friends and the two sisters, and then lost contact. Sister Shi Chunmei told reporters that she thought the letter was "written by her elder sister."

Shi Chunmei posted a suicide note in the circle of friends. According to the interviewee,

has three sisters in the Shi family, and Shi Chunmei is the second child. When she was 16, she met Huang Tianfa, who was two years older than herself. "At that time, they were attending a gathering of friends, and friends coaxed them to know each other, and it turned out to be a mandarin duck book." The family said that Shi Chunmei and Huang Tianfa got married after four years of falling in love.

Shi Chunmei's sister and younger sister told reporters that Huang Tianfa is very good to Shi Chunmei. But what makes Shi's family a little dissatisfied is that in the year of their marriage, the Huang family’s family background was too ordinary: in Jiaomei Town, where the small two-story building was generally built, only the Huang family lived in a one-story bungalow, and there was no decent electrical appliances in the house. . The bride price of 40,000 yuan was borrowed by Huang Tianfa from his uncle. After

found the body, the sister’s emotional breakdown. According to the internet

, “the money will be returned to Huang Tianfa’s uncle on the second day of marriage.” The two sisters felt that Shi Chunmei and Huang Tianfa were married. I am afraid that material conditions will be indispensable in the future. "suffer".

“After getting married, the second sister worked for a while, selling clothes with her eldest sister, so she didn’t earn much, so she could subsidize the family. Later she gave birth to her first child and became a full-time housewife and stopped working.” Shi Chunmei’s younger sister Shi Chunmei said that Shi Chunmei did not want to work. She even discussed the issue of finding a job with her shortly before her suicide. It was just that after getting married, Huang Tianfa worked hard for a long time. No one at home helped her with the children, so she could only focus all her energy on Take the kids.

In the view of the Shi family, Huang Tianfa worked hard to change his family situation. Recently, he has not only built a new house, but even bought a car with a loan. However, “he is dealing with Chunmei and his in-laws.There is no such thing as a husband in the conflict! "

" What does it mean to be without a husband? "The reporter asked. Shi Chunmei's younger sister said that when faced with a quarrel, Huang Tianfa would only adopt a laissez-faire "appeasement policy" to his parents, and then comforted Shi Chunmei: "You are not living with my parents for a lifetime, you are living with me. For the rest of their lives, they would say whatever they like, and forbearance passed. When

talked about the excitement, Shi Chunmei's sister said loudly: "His behavior is just filial piety!" "

Husband:

parents don’t make sense, they can only make his wife tolerate more.

Huang Tianfa told reporters that he often comforts his wife and asks for her tolerance, but he also makes sense to his parents. Parents are old and their stubborn personality cannot easily be changed.

Every time he finishes explaining the truth to his parents, their behavior will not change significantly. “Parents can’t make sense, I can only let my wife tolerate.”

Shi Chunmei’s circle of friends graph according to interviews

"Quarreling may be related to living together for a long time. Huang Tianfa said that after getting married, his parents and his wife lived together. Over the years, conflicts will inevitably arise. He believes that conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are normal, but parents have a bad habit and like to talk to outsiders about house matters. People say, one pass ten, ten pass a hundred, and finally it passed back to my wife’s ears.”

Huang Tianfa said that when the gossip reached Shi Chunmei’s ears, those family affairs had already been added to the ears of the reporters. In the end, the version Shi Chunmei heard was that her father-in-law and mother-in-law always declared to the outside world that she was a bad daughter-in-law, bullying the elderly every day, not only driving the elderly out, but also cursing the elderly to die earlier. "My parents may have said similar anger. Words, but the initial statement is definitely not so serious, even just a light complaint".

confrontation and outbreak

"she" is a short-term

"my wife is a short-term. Huang Tianfa said that Shi Chunmei likes to yell out in a quarrel in case of trouble. Her mother will not give in. Instead, she will fight tit for tat and make the quarrel even worse. His father will protect his mother and join him in "against" Shi Chunmei. I am often not at home. This last situation may give Shi Chunmei an illusion: no one in Shi Chunmei stood up to speak for herself. In Shi Chunmei's suicide note, the description of "being beaten" aroused strong feelings from netizens. Concerned. Shi Chunmei’s sister and younger sisters told reporters emotionally that if they hadn’t read the suicide note, they would not have known that Shi Chunmei had been beaten in this way. Shi Chunmei had revealed to her mother about the “beings” of

. Shimu comforted her that since things are over, she should be more tolerant and stop worrying about the elderly. After this conversation, Shi Chunmei seldom talks to her mother about her life in Huang's family.

is here in Huangtianfa Shi Chunmei’s "being beaten" is another version. Huang Tianfa said that after the quarrel, as the old accounts continued to be turned over, the emotions ushered in a big outbreak. The two sides had begun to have physical contact. In order to protect his mother, his father gave Shi Chunmei a hand. As a result, Shi Chunmei was pushed down on the edge of a sharper table and scratched his arm. "After this incident, my father blamed himself very much and never actively intervened (a quarrel between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law). "Huang Tianfa said that he and his parents are also under a lot of pressure now. The parents admit that they did something wrong, but also want to clarify that they are not as mean as netizens who use false information.

Huang Tianfa now recalls how Shi Chunmei will be. The mood of the years was suppressed until the full-scale outbreak on April 28.

Hope and despair

She took the child away

On May 1, the continuous search of the Xiamen Shuguang rescue team came to fruition. At 8:35, the rescue team The body of Shi Chunmei’s 6-year-old son was found in the waters of Shazhou; Shi Chunmei’s body was found near the Tongcheng Bridge at 11:3; the body of his 3-year-old son was found in the waters near Zini Town at 12:05.

Shi Chunmei’s body was found before his death. Path map According to Xiamen Shuguang rescue team

early this morning, Huang Tianfa got a clue to find someone. He drove there with hope, but found that he had forgotten his mobile phone. Just when he asked a friend to give it away, The body of the son was lifted off the water by Wang Gang, the leader of the rescue team, "I may be the last person in Fujian who knew about this." Source: DongChina Southern Net, Red Star News

Duty Editor Liu Rongyin