Gu Long said: "Is there anything more warm than friendship in the world? Good wine is rare, and friends are even rarer."
Meng Jia and Faye Wong are particularly prominent in the environment of plastic sisters everywhere in the entertainment industry.
When Meng Jia heard the news that she was in the third place, her expression was unbelievable with regret. She was stunned, and Faifei Wong pushed her: "Go." Both knew in their hearts that Faifei Wong had no chance.
Without Wan Qian's support, Meng Jia couldn't stand crying on stage, her eyes kept looking at Fafei Wong.
What they hope is for the two to form a group together, fight together again, and be the support of each other. If not, I hope that the person who forms the group is you!
On the two of them, I saw the warmth and friendship that adults rarely have, and this kind of feeling is precious.
1 The friendship of adults begins with the sharing of hardships
Yu Qiuyu's prose "About Friendship" writes: Friendship in childhood is just a joyful play, and what adults add to it based on memories is unreal. The true meaning of friendship comes from adulthood, and it is impossible to reach its best state before it has gained meaning.
In fact, many people suddenly discovered that they grew up in a sudden change in friendship. As if it was noon or evening on a certain day, the difficulties encountered by a good classmate made you feel an inescapable responsibility. You slowed down and began to think and start to understand the weight of life.
The beginning of friendship may happen at a moment when a friend encounters difficulties and you selflessly help.
When Meng Jia and Faye Wong met, Meng Jia was 18 years old and Faye Wong was 20 years old. The two went to South Korea to train together as trainees.
Faifei Wong described her life at that time: "Except for eating and sleeping, she was practicing, because you don't know to what extent the boss will be satisfied." Just think about it, that kind of life is boring and painful.
may be a certain time of exhaustion, a certain time of pain, so that the two of them became dependent in a foreign country.
In 2010, the two made their debut as members of MISS A, and they also won many awards. Until the member Pei Xiuzhi became popular, the team's development can also be described as smooth wind.
When Pei Xiuzhi became popular and became the first love of the nation, the company arranged more and more activities and could not often train with the players. Fans violently attacked the other members of MISS A and caused the team to disband. The fans called the other members as "Suzy's dancers." In the first issue of
"Sister Riding the Wind and Waves", Du Hua commented: "Ding Dang sings so well, so I don't want to be a group." She was crying by the Internet storm. Looking at it now, maybe the experience made her know some business better than the audience. reason.
In the most difficult days, they have been with each other .
is accompanied by each other every birthday. Now, they have both debuted for 10 years. Whether it was Meng Jia who first returned to China to sign Banana Entertainment in 2016, or Wang Feifei only returned to China to sign Huayi in 2019, their relationship has never changed.
2 The friendship between adults is achieved by evenly matched
The most embarrassing scene of "Ace vs. Ace" is the reunion of Supergirls. The guest invited in the first program is Shang Wenjie . After the reunion of "Huanzhugege" and "Legend of the New White Lady", in order to surprise her, the program team specially called all their teammates who participated in the Super Girl competition in 2006.
Unfortunately, this surprise is not a surprise, but an embarrassment. There are many people who come out of
Supergirls. Unfortunately, some careers are flourishing, such as Li Yuchun and Zhang Liangying, and some have passed away soon, such as Xu Fei.
Xu Fei, who made his debut on the "Super Girl" audition show, passed away not long after becoming famous.
Although she had a lot of fans at the time of the game, the entertainment industry was updated very quickly. To be able to stand for a long time, there must be enough exposure and works, so Xu Fei disappeared for a long time.
Xu Fei bluntly said that she and other super girls get together every year, and she and Shang Wenjie, there is no phone call between them, no WeChat, Weibo message about Shang Wenjie, and never received a reply. The torn picture on the front shocked netizens.
After the show was broadcast, Xu Fei also specially postedI went to the scene entirely for money, and Shang Wenjie had no sisterhood. The huge gap in the fame of
made the friendship that was established in the middle of the game long gone.
all say that love pays attention to the right family, and so does friendship. The beginning of friendship began with some difficult assistance, and the stability of friendship relied on the equal strength of the two.
Things are gathered in kind, and people are divided into groups. Only if the smells are similar, you can always think it is good. Making friends also pay attention to the right person. Although it does not have to be as strict as Jiupin Zhongzheng, there is naturally a boundary.
True friendship can not only tolerate the advice given by friends, but also make self-understanding advice. People who are not evenly matched, how can they understand the true meaning of each other's words?
3 Adult friendship finally has something
British poet Herbard said: "A friend who is not what we want is a true friend."
The end of adult friendship is "begging."
poet Zhou Tao described a balance of profoundness: “Two trees that chatted for a long time in summer, saw each other’s yellow leaves falling in the autumn breeze, they were quiet for a moment, and said goodbye to each other: see you next summer!”
Maybe This is the highest state of friendship. I stay with you, you stay with me, we watch each other this life, nothing more. The true friendship of
should have the nature of "no need". Once there is something, "begging" becomes the goal, and friendship is just a disguise.
When you are in a high position, you will suddenly find that you are all around you friends; once you lose power, there are very few left.
This is the sad part of adult friendship. It is difficult for you to tell which friendships are true and which are fake. Maybe some people don't care about the true or false of friendship. For them, friendship is just a tool.
really successful politicians are the ones who are best at making use of friendship. The image of brotherhood, brotherhood, and spurring brothers has given them a large number of followers. But are they really so rich in friendship? Far from it. This kind of friendship will disappear once it loses power.
Meng Jia and Faifei Wong, let us see the friendship that adults want nothing. I don’t ask for anything from you, and you don’t ask for anything from me. What we have is my care when you are on business. Your birthday is my greeting. When you are alone, my company is mine. You are sad. comfort. If you succeed, I'm happier than you, if you fail, I feel sorry for you. That's it. Both
can see the advantages of each other, and hope each other will succeed more than anyone else. Friendship like
is too pure and rare, so it seems precious!
