The "Golden, Three, and Four," job-hopping seasons did not come as scheduled in 2020. The new crown epidemic seems to have pressed the pause button for the whole world. After the Spring Festival, the dream of Chic and the year-end prize is completely shattered. It is fortunate not to be laid off. !
But the world will eventually return to order and work again. Midsummer is approaching, and as the economic recovery of the heat wave is getting closer and closer, the thoughts of leaving the job that were temporarily frozen have resurfaced.
The high-ranking seniors still tell you every day, endless overtime work makes 996 a daily life, and what is more unbearable is that after the epidemic, salary and bonuses are all discounted, the office is getting more and more deserted, and the KPIs that fall on you can't be done. …Originally, work was for a better life, but I didn’t expect that work became the only life. It felt like I couldn’t live this life.
really want to resign every day! After the launch of
in 2019, the Japanese drama "Nai's New Life", which once reached 9.5 points on Douban, has cured how many lost social animals.
The protagonist Xiao Nai (zhǐ) is a 28-year-old working woman. She has a good personality and leads a stable but somewhat boring life in a Tokyo company. An accident made her start to reflect on her life, resolutely quit her job, dumped her boyfriend, quit the rent, and even cancelled all her social accounts. Determined to sever all contact with the past, she ran to the countryside far from the center of the city and started a new life with a blanket on her back.
Although the conditions in the countryside are not as good as the cities, the scenery here is very good, with long river banks, green grasslands and blue sky. Although the rented house was rudimentary, there was no longer a working alarm clock to wake her up. Without air conditioning, she used the old fan she picked up, sprayed it with her favorite yellow, and placed it in the room, looking at it like a sunflower in full bloom. Every morning, she woke up from the empty room with blushing cheeks and sweating profusely, watching the curtains gently lifted by the wind, and the air smelled of freedom.
People who are accustomed to the oppressive life of the city are instantly healed by this drama. The heroine’s life away from everything is simply wonderful! Many people see their true self and the ideal life in her, and the impulse to quit their job is even stronger.
But if you think that Xiao Nai lives a peaceful life that you like, then you are wrong! Resigning and moving to the country did not save her life. On the contrary, the previous questions reappeared. Each of these hurdles is a must-answer question in life that Xiao Nai cannot escape.
Life is often cruel, and resignation never means that you can live the life you want.
and learning how to say goodbye may be an important lesson to let resignation start a new beginning in our lives.
01 "Break up" should be decent
couples broke up, there are decent ones, and a lot of open tears, and finally fell in the eyes of others is just a bloody farce. If this day must be a mess, and you will remember the sweetness of the beginning one day in the future, it may be the regret of your life that the unhappiness when you say goodbye is gone.
is the same with resignation. When you first got the offer, you must be full of longing and enthusiasm. If this job fails to become the love you are willing to fight for in your life, when you leave, you choose to leave unhappy, maybe in the future One day you will find that the momentary mood at the beginning will only make you miss the opportunity.
sings like that breakup golden song, "Separation should be decent." all say that when you break up, you will see the character, the resignation depends on the pattern, and it is better to get together when you leave. Why is
? You may be a little unconvinced: I have found a better new job, and I have been silently angry for so long. Can't I just exhale when I resign?
7 years of CEO headhunting experience told me that for confidentiality reasons, headhunting andWhen the employer prepares to list you as a candidate, it will not call your current leader, but will call your former leader. So, , you may not need the current leader to get a good job, but when you encounter a better opportunity next time, do you want him to push you or hold you back? There are also some negative examples of
that may help you calm down and stop preparing to tear up the leadership.
When the comedy talk show actor Chi Zi left his old club Xiaoguo culture, he said to the company to break up with the company in a way of "fishing dead and breaking the net".
Maybe the laughter is true, as Chizi said, "The company is messy and the leadership is very good." But no matter what the truth of this war is, Xiaoguo Culture is still the top domestic comedy company. "Tucao Conference" is still very popular. More and more comedy newcomers are being praised. But so talented and loved by many people, the pool that should have been promising, has been gone for a long time.
A person is always weak in front of an organization.
Whether you choose to quit or start a business, you don’t know if you will ever deal with your former leaders and colleagues in the future. Maybe one day, you will find that you really need help, and it is the former leader or former colleague who lends a helping hand to you.
This is why we encourage everyone to "peacefully break up" with the previous company. A good reputation in the workplace is really important. A "decent" resignation is actually a kind of self-marketing, which can bring you a lot in the future. Improve opportunities. Getting together and getting together today may be a crucial step in your career tomorrow.
02 Do a good job of time management before resignation
Usually when you get a very satisfactory new job, you instinctively hope to complete the resignation as soon as possible and start a new job.
But please control your desires, don't rush to pat your butt and leave. Have you successfully handed over your work?
Generally speaking, you have to set aside at least two weeks for the handover. In addition, the higher your position in a team, the longer it will take to handle all the work. In this case, the handover time may be extended to one month.
You need to be psychologically prepared. When you tell everyone that you are leaving, you have to accept it. You are already an outsider. When your colleagues gather together, you may be left alone in the office, and it seems a little strange to get along with everyone, so you don’t have to talk about everything.
This is normal, but in order to avoid embarrassment for everyone, don't delay the resignation time too long. Two to four weeks is the most suitable transition time.
Being a NICE (Tear-resistant) person during the resignation period, and doing a good handover is only good for you, no harm.
03 "Break up" please speak out in person
Don't let your leader hear the news of your resignation from others, he should be the first person to know that you are leaving.
The way to mention the resignation is very important. Just like you don’t want to receive a WeChat or phone call and you are forced to tell you to break up, you should also sit down and talk about resignation in person. Before talking, remember to make a handover plan in advance. No one knows the projects you are responsible for and the roles you undertake better than you. Take your plan to the leadership's office and tell him that you can successfully complete the handover before you leave.
You also need to communicate with the leader how to inform your colleagues that you are leaving. Every company has its own way of handling resigned employees. Until you leave, you are an employee of this company, so you must respect the company’s system and your leadership, ask him to make a decision, maybe he will let HR publish your Resignation notice, maybe he will allow you to tell everyone the news personally, no matter what decision he makes, just cooperate.
Maybe you are not good at resigning, after all, parting is not so pleasantQuick topic. However, there is no need to lay the groundwork for too long because of embarrassment, simple and direct is better.
Of course, proper social etiquette is necessary, remember to thank your leader for the cultivation and support that has been given to you. If he asks you why you want to resign, try not to complain about the team, take the opportunity to vent your dissatisfaction, and don't show off that you have gotten an offer from a big factory and have become so prosperous. You only need to give him a reasonable explanation, such as a new job that is more in line with your interests and Career direction will do.
Of course, your colleagues will also be curious about the reason for your resignation. You can have some reservations, but don't ask someone to say that there are no secrets in the workplace, and you can easily become the top gossip of the office topic.
is the same as communicating with the leader. Since you decide to get together well, don’t belittle your current work and colleagues. If you don’t want to reveal your new job whereabouts to them, just tell them, “It’s still unclear. When there is certain news, please tell everyone.”
Try not to dissss your previous leaders and colleagues on social media, also It’s best not to post a circle of friends celebrating your departure. This will not only make your current colleagues feel uncomfortable, but it may not be a good thing to be seen by future leaders and colleagues.
04 "Good end" is sometimes more important than "good beginning"
Once some people decide to quit their job, they start chatting and catching fish, and perfunctory work. But a truly professional person, even on the last day before leaving the company, will properly handle all tasks as usual, so that there is a start and a finish.
Make good use of your remaining time, record in detail each of your tasks to be completed and completed, sort out all the operation procedures and historical data of the project you are responsible for, sort out the list of all the counterparts in the work, and replace yourself The working people explain various tasks and related precautions to ensure that they can get started as easily as possible.
Don’t forget to report your work progress to the leader regularly to ensure the smooth completion of the handover.
When everything is handled by you in an orderly manner, your departure will become their loss, and someday they may find a way to work with you again. Before officially leaving your job, remember to confirm with the personnel department the salary and benefits you deserve, such as social security, provident funds, and unfinished annual leave, etc., learn to protect your reasonable and legal rights and interests.
On the day you leave, don’t leave quietly. Remember to say goodbye to everyone and make this day more ritual.
You can edit a sincere text message and send it to colleagues and customers who have fought and cooperated with, telling them that they are leaving. For those leaders and colleagues who have provided you with help, don’t forget to sue them individually and say thank you from the bottom of your heart. At this time, don’t be stingy with the "rainbow fart" and tell them that because of their help, your work will be changed. Relaxed and happy, and hope to keep in touch often in the future.
After you finish all the handovers and get the resignation certificate, don't forget to do the last thing, that is, take the initiative to log out of all work groups, and don't wait for the administrator to kick you out.
05 has a great future, goodbye
When you walk out of the company's door, you will bid farewell to the past and embark on a new journey. But we all understand that even if we say goodbye, it does not mean we will never see you again.
is like Xiao Nai, the heroine of "Nai's New Life". In the end, she finally understands that it is more important than resigning and returning to the countryside to settle down and gain happiness.
is the same for us, resigns not to escape the bad situation, but we choose to bid farewell to the previous workplace experience, and then set off again.
The adult world is like this. We have been familiar with the small time, but the road is getting wider and wider. The moment of separation will inevitably come. We don't have to look back at , but we don't have to really forget each other.
All the people you meet will weave a big network for your future success. Why not spend a little time and interact with them from time to time. Send WeChat when you have time, even if it's just a simple greeting and holiday blessings, maintains these weak relationships, and maybe one day they will bring you unexpected opportunities.
, after all, has a great future, and will see you again.
(the picture in this article comes from the Internet)
With love,
Your Joy
