Author: Ivan, Esa Mei Niang
01.
April 20, Lu Lu open their vibrato first live show, watch the number as high as 94 million. Although his results are impressive, he received a gift worth 450,000 in less than an hour. However, no matter how hard she worked during the entire live streaming process, she has been ridiculed by many netizens.
"Who buys who is green", "disgusting", "bus", "ugly" and other insulting words filled the whole barrage. Some even swiped the screen with the name of PGone to remind her that the "hair making" incident was not Forgotten by the public, some people even asked spoof sentences like "Why did you betray Wang Baoqiang?"
On the contrary, her ex-husband Jia Nailiang broadcasted the goods live on the same day, but the situation was very different from her. The gain is continuous praise.
In the past two years, Li Xiaolu has gradually disappeared from the public's sight after the exposure of the scandal. She debuted as a child star, although the topic is constant, but her comeback has been hopeless. It even broke out from the rejection of the film pay. For the sake of life,
has no hope of coming back, she has to switch to the short video field, and open the route of online celebrity live broadcasting.
Who knows that most netizens do not buy it, and the voices of boycotting one after another cover the entire screen. Is
something wrong and destined to never be forgiven?
02.
First take a look at Li Xiaolu's resume, you can know how sad the netizens can be. A good hand of
was broken. This sentence cannot be used to describe Li Xiaolu more realistically. She was born as a child star, and she is already a queen of three subjects. This is rare among people of the same age.
Her heat flow at that time was not inferior to any Xiaohua now.
started filming at the age of three, and later won the 35th Taiwan Film Golden Horse Award for Best Actress and Best Actress in the first French Watertown Asian Film Festival for his film "Heavenly Bath".
That year, she was only 17 years old. It's no exaggeration for
to call it "the proud girl of heaven". That year she was red and purple, and then she gained widespread attention with her youth drama "All Angels Trouble".
After that, her life was like a dead end. Act and sing. In 2008, she released her first solo music EP "Oriental Beauty". She has also played a leading role in many urban-themed film and television dramas.
In addition to her outstanding achievements in TV series, she also showed amazing talent in movies. "Nightclub", , "People on the Road" , "Private Order" section is wonderful. Box office and word of mouth are flying together.
However, in this, Li Xiaolu is already going downhill. Because it was too tiring to make a movie, I simply refused, and went to make a modern drama that was easy and didn't have to suffer.
For her, it doesn't matter whether red is red or not. She just wants to stay in the comfort zone, and at every fork in her life, Li Xiaolu chooses the easiest path at every step due to fear of hardship and fatigue.
Of course, this is a personal choice, if someone wants to live easily, it is understandable.
is also at this time, in the process of filming, she became attached to Jia Nailiang because of the drama, and finally formed her own small family. That year, she was 31 years old. The
wedding was held in Beijing. The venue is mainly white and pink, romantic and dreamy. The customized nine-layer gradient flower wedding cake is enough for hundreds of guests to enjoy. There were more than 300 relatives and friends present at
that day, and they witnessed the love between the prince and the princess. The name
is so young, and the middle-aged encounters romantic and sincere love. Li Xiaolu's life is good, which is really jealous.
And if she can settle down in this kind of quiet and good years, she can be regarded as a fulfilled life, and we will be angered by her in acting career. However, she has had an incident of "making hair".
made this romantic love story come to an end after only seven years. You can forgive you for losing your acting skills. Losing your character is simply...
03.
Actually, Li Xiaolu is three years older than Jia Nailiang. There is a saying in
: Female junior, hold gold bricks.
In the eyes of outsiders, they are talented and beautiful. It is also very good.
After getting married, men are handsome and women are beautiful. It is also a pair of ins and outs, often sprinkling sugar.
many netizens areSaid: "Looking at them, I believe in love again."
In various variety shows, both of them show their love in images. I really envy others.
However, on the last day of 2017, the whole people were immersed in the joy of the arrival of the new year. An explosive news shocked the entire entertainment industry. The protagonists of
this explosive news are Li Xiaolu and PGone. Who is
PGone? The mainland male hip-hop rap singer, Jia Nailiang’s acquaintance brother, the relationship between him and Li Xiaolu, the people who eat melons are not too big, they immediately dig the ground three feet, vowing not to stop at the ancestral grave.
What's even more sad is that Jia Nailiang, as her husband, has been turned green by his younger brother, who he loves and cares for, and he still doesn't know it. Responded to netizens in the live broadcast, saying that Li Xiaolu "has gone to do her hair." The development of the subsequent events of
made everyone unexpected. Li Xiaolu was revealed by the paparazzi that she was not doing her hair at all, but staying overnight at PGone's house. After the
incident, Li Xiaolu's image plummeted and became a target of public criticism. Although Jia Nailiang stepped forward at this time and succeeded in defending the rights of Li Xiaolu's insults and defamatory remarks on the Internet.
, but everyone knows that her acting career has come to an end.
Although PGone later said that he and Li Xiaolu had no relationship before. What everyone sees is the warmth of two poor people who have been victims of online violence. Try to distract attention and make everyone think that this is not a moral incident.
But later, the video of the two dancing the same dance, hugging and kissing has become ironclad evidence of Li Xiaolu's derailment. Let more and more people nail the two on the shame of derailment.
04.
was unexpectedly, after the incident, Jia Nailiang came out to apologize.
He did not verbally verbally criticize the two for being immoral, but blamed himself and apologized. The tone of the whole article reveals his helplessness and powerlessness.
He took all the responsibilities to himself. In this marriage, the two people did not match their needs, their self-esteem was too strong, and they were not easy to compromise, which led Li Xiaolu to seek comfort.
Forgive and forgive, but the thorn pierced deeply between the two, taking root. Although
did not get divorced, the chance of the two being in the same frame is getting less and less. The real appearance is perfect.
This situation lasted until November 18, when Jia Nailiang's studio issued a divorce statement.
Before that, Li Xiaolu contacted some media, trying to clean things up, but with little success. However, the negative news raged up and her image plummeted.
did not have any film and television series to find her again, no one dared to risk the world's ill-will and use tainted artists.
Li Xiaolu completely disappeared from the entertainment circle. Li Xiaolu may never have expected that she, who has always been going smoothly, in middle age, making a mistake like this one time, she would miss her life.
05.
Some people say that we have forgiven the whole world, why are we only unwilling to forgive Li Xiaolu? Before
, there was Fan Bingbing and for tax evasion, followed by Gao Yunxiang Sexual assault. The protagonists in these events were forgiven one by one. Some even shouted: The entertainment circle without Fan Bingbing is lonely.
So why can we forgive them but refuse to forgive a Li Xiaolu?
In Mei Niang's opinion, it was because: Li Xiaolu did not sincerely apologize after the incident, but sent a long post to diss the media.
Not only did she fail to recognize her own problems, her various discriminations were also seen as forcibly washing herself. Not only did it not have any effect, but it defeated the passersby.
Looking at Li Xiaolu's star journey, it is really smooth. I don't know the taste of bumps and falls. I always thought that it was no big deal. As everyone knows, the current star chasers are no longer brainless people, and water can carry boats and overturn them. How deep a cliff can be given you with much love.
was originally a public figure, every word and deed fell in the eyes of everyone, your words and deeds represent a kind of influence. As a public figure, you have to make good use of your influence, rather than turning it into a privilege.
Supergirl Zeng Yike relies on being a star and makes a big fuss at the airport. And use one's own influence to bring the rhythm, the influence caused is extremely bad. Although I came out to apologize later, my popularity and work have been affected. Never againLess than the original heyday.
Taiwanese actor Ke Zhendong, originally the star journey is very open. But because gathering crowds of take drugs has a very bad influence among young people. Although he wanted to come back many times, the public no longer accepted him. There is a high praise question and answer on
06.
Zhihu: As a public figure, should you be forgiven for making mistakes?
someone replied like this: public figures make mistakes, the impact is huge, it will affect the audience, and his own huge fan base. The impact of such a mistake is unforgivable.
people, especially public figures, have to pay for their actions and faults. It is useless to have luck. Don't think that you have made a mistake, and apologize for nothing. When the matter is over, you can calm down and continue to collect gold and cut leeks casually.
No, if an apology is useful, what do you want the police to do?
Everything has a price. Step wrong, wrong step. The important thing is to be able to reflect on yourself when you are wrong, to sincerely apologize, to rein in the precipice and to look back in time, instead of drifting away on the wrong road and never returning.
Li Xiaolu's live broadcast debut, but she was bitterly scolded: There are some stains, it is difficult to clean up in life, so artists must have artistic virtue, because character is your best business card. The picture of
comes from the Internet, if the infringement contact is deleted.
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