The best thing a woman understands is that it is not a woman who strives to become a man, but that you should become the one you like more than you are liked by men. Seven points for a lover is enough, and three points for loving yourself. -"He doesn't actually love you so much"
After "Thirty Only", another urban women's drama has been broadcast. The four major female protagonists gather together, which can be called an upgraded version of "Little Times". The plot tells about four women over 30 years old. How does the city seek its own growth, seek love, friendship, desire, independence and soul.
They encountered different men and experienced different emotions; they still struggled in love, and found their true self in the search for true love. Then I discovered that 30-year-old maturity is not to overestimate a man's love for you.
Karen, played by Lu Jingshan, is a gym partner and a fitness trainer. Fitness, training with members, accompanying children, and gatherings with girlfriends are all her life. She has an ex-husband of a rock singer. Although she is divorced, she still maintains a relationship with friends. Her ex-husband always introduces generously in front of everyone: "This is my favorite woman in this world."
sounds ironic. Ten years ago, they fought for love and vowed to be together. Ten years later, they were single mothers in a failed marriage.
Ren Ran, played by Li Chun, is the vice president of DMA, and a strong and decisive career woman. She has the status of achievement today, but she was led step by step by a boss named Lu Hao. A girl from the countryside, a female student who just graduated, met a successful president and told her that a girl is to be rich and she deserves the best. After she fell step by step into the romantic range he created, he abandoned Ren Ran and went to a foreign country for 8 years for his ex-wife.
Now, he is back again, and Ren Ran is not the young and immature Ren Ran back then. Will Ren Ran accept him again?
The producer Sun Yehe, played by Song Qian, is obviously a strong woman at work, but she is extremely humble in her feelings. In order to let her boyfriend Sam love herself more, she often put down her body and wronged herself. I even felt: "Love was originally willing to do what I didn't want to do for him." Love needs to understand and tolerate each other instead of blindly accommodating. This self-deception love is doomed to not last.
People have seven emotions and six desires, and the moon has cloudy and sunny. In the face of love, no one can be relaxed and happy; in the face of time, no one can be consistent; in the face of time, nothing is unchangeable, no matter how deep the love and the best affection...
Sun Yehe said in the ending monologue: "When we face this world, a very important question is, what can we expect from this world. When you were young, you expected to be thirty years old. What kind of life do you live, what kind of people you fall in love with, and what kind of people you live with; and now at thirty years old, what kind of life have you lived, what kind of people have you fallen in love with, and this person is It’s not that I love you like you love him."
has a long flow of years, more drums. After the tenderness of the fleeting years, we will become more and more rational and more sober: He doesn't actually love you that much. There is nothing wrong with seeking true love, but the premise must be not to lose ourselves for the so-called love.
