Korea shocked countless people. It turns out that this world can be so ugly and dirty! When the people of
criticized this ugly behavior in South Korea, they never dreamed that this kind of crime also exists in China, and there is more than one.
In just a few days, many illegal websites have been picked up by netizens one by one on Bud Miao Forum, Luo Li.com, Yo~Legend, Dimension Mansion, Loli Heaven.
opens the homepages of these websites, full of pictures of minors' naked bodies. Below each picture, there are words such as "four-year-old girl", "big eyes and beautiful loli", and "junior high school student".
You might think that only a few perverts will pay attention, but in fact, these websites are membership-based, and their member users are as many as millions. Among them, the number of registered users of the budding forum is even more amazing. Up to 8.6 million people!
and this number is still rising, every minute, many users pay to become new members.
The children in these videos are only a few years old to their teens. They should have lived a golden childhood life of carefree and happy learning and playing in kindergarten and elementary school, but for various reasons, they were cheated or forced. , Or willingly filming these content and being watched by millions of strangers on the Internet is really sad. Through the concerted efforts of relevant departments and netizens, these websites have been blocked, but it is frustrating that their servers are located outside of the country, which makes it difficult to conduct thorough investigations. Even if the crackdown continues, similar websites will still resurface.
Therefore, in order to fundamentally eliminate the harm, parents need to increase their crisis awareness, supplement their children with relevant knowledge of sex education, and strengthen their children's self-protection ability and awareness.
01 The concealed method of assault on children in the new era-the child sexual assault website under the cover of online games
Many parents think that they are aware of the incidents of child sexual assault and are very alert. Isn't it just acquaintances committing crimes? I usually pay attention to it. Preventive, so I feel that similar vicious cases are far away from my own children.
Actually, the number of child sexual assaults is far beyond our imagination. Wang Dawei, a well-known criminal psychology expert and professor at the People’s Public Security University of China, said: “Child sexual assault cases have a hidden ratio of 1:8.”
In other words, the exposure of a child sexual assault news means that 8 cases have already been reported. occur.
Moreover, with the rapid development of the Internet, , in addition to traditional acquaintances committing crimes, more often start online gangs, cast a large number of nets to capture potential victims, and they extend their criminal hands to children all the time.
, a girl’s online game "Little Flower Fairy" once popular all over the country, hides a huge sexual assault group behind it.
They specifically target the little girls who like the colorful clothes and props in the game but have no money to recharge.
uses the game platform to continuously send out messages, tempting little girls to exchange money or currency through selfies and naked chats, and even further threaten children to meet offline through nude photos that have been taken, and commit deeper indecent harm.
Someone had faked a little girl and added QQ to investigate.
The other party directly requested a stripping video, and the content of the conversation was very explicit. They even show the actual price, expose different parts, and give them 10-30 yuan in return.
The other party also repeatedly emphasized, “Don’t take off your clothes, don’t talk about everything.”
Today’s children have been exposed to the Internet since they were very young. It can be said that they are the generation that has the most information on the Internet. They are familiar with online information and applications, even far away. Super parents, but their parents did not give them synchronized self-protection education, and the relevant knowledge is even equivalent to blank.
02 lack of knowledge about sex education, resulting in children lacking self-protection awareness and skills.
On some child sexual assault apps, you can always see some elementary school students boldly undressing and getting pregnant during live broadcasts.tripe.
It seems that as long as someone is willing to give a reward and fans are willing to pursue it, everything can be sold out.
Many parents may call them shameless after seeing this scene. However, in their consciousness, perhaps there is no shame at all, because they have never been told that their bodies are not to be touched or peeped by strangers. Certain parts must not be violated.
They are still young, without the warning of adults, they can only see the benefits in front of them, and do not know the cost behind them.
The lack of knowledge about sex education has caused our children to have no sense of self-protection and lack the skills to protect themselves.
Chinese people have always been ashamed of talking about sex, thinking that talking about sex is shameful and unclean. The most typical
is when the child asks where he came from, either he picked it up from the trash can, or jumped out of the stone, or it was given away for phone calls.
Parents can devote their minds to composing all kinds of answers, that is, they are not willing to give their children a positive answer. In fact, this is the best time to popularize basic knowledge for their children. A positive answer can not only give children a sense of belonging, You can also initially understand that sexual behavior will have consequences, and you can't casually happen to strangers.
Many parents not only evade sex education to their children, but also when they popularize relevant knowledge in school, they also resist because they think the textbooks are too large!
You think the scale is big and you are ashamed to talk about sex. Those pedophiles are not too bad. They will ask your children to make excessive demands that make you more difficult to accept.
Children do not even understand the basic functions of their own bodies, so how do they know how to prevent and protect themselves from harm?
03 How to protect our children from sexual assault
- First of all, we must raise our children's awareness of self-protection and conduct sexual knowledge education on them.
In fact, when a child is 3 to 6 years old, he has already developed curiosity about the body. They will notice that some parts of themselves are different from those of the opposite sex. According to the theory of developmental psychology, the child has already entered the "sexual bud stage" at this time, just like paying attention to the difference in taste buds, starting to pay attention to the difference between men and women. At this time, parents can do this:
① Parents should naturally talk about sex with their children.
He uses an easy-to-understand and entertaining way to explain to his son what are taboo topics such as masturbation, pregnancy, aunts, and condoms. It is very natural for
to talk about sex with a child and let him know his body.
Don’t have too much mystery, don’t use too serious tone, answer questions directly in a language that he can understand, don’t change the topic or be vague.
The more uncomfortable and evasive parents are, the more curious the child will be. If the child cannot get answers from the parent, he will obtain the answer from other sources, and this is likely to bring danger and harm to the child.
② teaches children to be clear about the boundaries
After the child knows the body correctly and calmly, let the child know the importance of privacy and self-protection.
should tell children from an early age that their own bodies have the right to privacy, and they should not be touched by others, nor should they be touched casually.
also specially reminds that the breasts, reproductive organs, etc. should not be exposed to others except the doctor.
output correct sexual concepts to children, let them be cognitive, learn, respect others and protect themselves in a positive attitude.
- Secondly, parents themselves must pay attention to protecting the privacy of their children.
Some parents like to show their babies in their circle of friends and share the joy of parenting. Some
also like to wear open crotch pants for their children. They feel that they are comfortable and breathable, and it is convenient to go to the toilet. They also took close-ups of their children and uploaded them to the Internet.
As everyone knows, all this provides opportunities for criminalsThe opportunity.
Because you can't be sure that there are no demons in those who look at your child's photos and look at your child's ass.
This openly exposes the private parts of the child in public view, and it is possible that these pictures will be placed on child pornography websites.
is more serious, and people with ulterior motives will follow the vine, find your child, sexually assault or even traffic it.
Concluding remarks
is a parent, and it has far-reaching plans for the children. In addition to paying attention to the children’s academic and physical growth, moms and dads must also pay attention to the popularization of sexual knowledge. When enlightening children with words, they must also start the enlightenment of sexual knowledge, so that they can wear self-protection armor. , Stay away from the devil.
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