Emotional writing expert
Speaking of Chiang Kai-shek, people will think of a "dictator". Although he has served his life as a soldier, he has poor character. Zhou Enlai used 12 words to evaluate him:
, "bad tactician, qualified strategist".
Chiang Kai-shek is a perfidious person, and he treats his feelings even more so. After having a wife and concubine, there are still many scandals outside, and he is a lively scumbag.
Chiang Kai-shek had 4 wives in his life, and he was ignorant of the first three wives. After married Song Meiling, the romantic Chiang Kai-shek did not dare to steal the fishy. Let’s see how Song Meiling made men feel stubborn about him?
01
Liu Fumei, a "live widow," the marriage is in vain
"Mao Fukumei", why is she married to the younger Jiang Jie, the living widow of Shi Jiang Jie?
In marriage, if a man is cold and violent against you for a long time, it means that you really don’t have the charm of a woman.
Mao Fumei obeyed the arrangement of " parents’ order and matchmaker ". She looks ordinary, she only serves tea, pours water, washes and cooks every day, and thinks that it’s not like Chiang Kai-shek’s old school. Cold violence, it is better to say "no more speculation".
Two people whose spirits are out of sync, marriage is destined to not go far.
Chiang Kai-shek is ideologically progressive. After returning from studying in Japan, he is far from Mao Fumei. He has enjoyed the beauty of Chiang Kai-shek, and compared with the wife of the scumbag and illiterate, it is inevitable that Chiang Kai-shek will live up to Mao Fumei. Accepted the concubine room-"Yao Yecheng".
Mao Fumei is simple and kind, well versed in etiquette and filial piety, but a failed marriage told her:
a woman must be self-motivated, and her husband's thinking must be synchronized, a woman with independent thinking and interest in life can attract a man's heart.
02
Chen Jieru, clinging to an empty love sentence, sad and pitiful,
, this person, accounted for a large part of the emotions of Chiang Kai-shek's life, so why was he finally abandoned by him?
When Chiang Kai-shek was 84 years old, he received a letter from Hong Kong, the font is beautiful, the content of the letter is full of grievances:
For more than 30 years, my grievances are known to you, but for the reputation of the monarch and other countries, I have always endured The greatest self-sacrifice, unwilling to use it until death. This person
is Chiang Kai-shek's third wife-"Chen Jieru", just like her name, "innocent and non-polluting". He habitually believes in Chiang Kai-shek's lies, so he loses every time.
Chen Jieru did not like Chiang Kai-shek at first, but in order to achieve his goal, he resorted to hooligans. She once expressed hatred of Chiang Kai-shek, but after several sweet words from Chiang Kai-shek, she did not expect that she would willingly board Chiang Kai-shek’s "thief ship".
all say "a man's mouth, a deceitful ghost", but Chen Jieru is willing to believe Jiang Jieshi's "nonsense".
On the night of the wedding bridal chamber, Chiang Kai-shek’s "promise", Chen Jie believed it to be true:
You are now my dearest wife, my favorite person in this world, dear, with you, I will never Will fall in love with other women in the world, this is my solemn promise to you.
At that time, Chiang Kai-shek had long been mad at Song Meiling, so he lied to Chen Jieru, saying that it was for the victory of the Northern Expedition to let Chen Jieru quit his marriage for 5 years and go to the United States to study and fulfill him.Political marriage with Song Meiling, and remarried her immediately after returning to China.
did not expect that she would believe it again. After five years, Chiang Kai-shek sent her to the United States to study, and she didn't even have the chance to mess around.
Chen Jieru has been deceived again and again, and she is willing to believe in all kinds of "promises". The saddest thing about a woman is to stick to an empty love sentence.
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A man is not used to control, but makes him inseparable from you.
Chiang Kai-shek has always been a perfidious person, ruthlessly abandoning the first three wives. What made him despair of Song Meiling?
Anyone who knows Song Meiling knows that she is graceful, capable of diplomacy, and is so powerful in the political arena that the Song family behind her needs to be able to take the helm of half of China urgently. Is it easy for
to pursue Song Meiling?
Besides, Jiang Jieshi has several wives. In what capacity did Miss Song marry him?
Song Meiling has always insisted on her attitude, and her goal is very clear. She will never be Chiang Kai-shek's concubine, she can only be the only "lady of the commander-in-chief".
That's why Chiang Kai-shek "divorced his wife" later. He was forced to divorce his previous wives and agreed to Soong Meiling's marriage conditions.
After Chiang Kai-shek's unrelenting hard work and stalking, Song Meiling accepted Chiang Kai-shek. What Song Meiling needs is political power, the only wife, and the unconditional loyalty of her husband to her.
Soong Meiling, who cannot be underestimated, has become Chiang Kai-shek's right-hand man. After getting married, Song Meiling read domestic and foreign newspapers every morning, cut out useful information, translated it for Chiang Kai-shek, and kept confidential documents personally. Soong Meiling handled diplomacy by herself, and she would do everything by herself.
At the beginning of the Second Northern Expedition, Song Meiling took off her gorgeous cheongsam and high heels, and accompanied her husband to the front. Soong Meiling, who lives and eats and sheds blood every day, has been pampered since childhood, has no complaints. In diplomacy, Song Meiling is a "fighting third mother", using her diplomatic skills to win contacts for her husband.
Chiang Kai-shek, who has always been arbitrarily and domineering, admires the "good help", and he will listen to Song Meiling's opinions on everything in the future, and everything about Chiang Kai-shek is under Soong Meiling's control.
The value of a woman is not to control a man in everything, but to make a man inseparable from herself in everything, so Song Meiling naturally belongs to the latter.
Since Song Meiling chooses to marry Chiang Kai-shek, who has a complicated marriage relationship, she must be more courageous, more reasonable, less caring, and kind to his family than other women. She must not let her husband do whatever she wants like before.
Soong Meiling’s bottom line for Chiang Kai-shek’s predecessors is:
has difficulties and can help, or communicate for the sake of her children, but she must not rekindle the old feelings.
Chen Jieru came back from the United States and her life fell into disarray. Chiang Kai-shek quietly helped her and rekindled her old relationship. Soong Meiling couldn't sit still because of rumors outside.
She sympathizes with Chen Jieru, and now Chiang Kai-shek belongs to Song Meiling alone. He must be loyal to her and will never allow a second woman to share this man with her.
Soong Meiling has given her husband enough face, not to mention it, but to stop, let Chiang Kai-shek completely converge, and let the situation be controlled in the bud.
Looking at the four women in Chiang Kai-shek's life, the tragedies of the first three wives, they all have the same sense of destiny, lost themselves in marriage, and completely became vassals of their husbands.
And Soong Meiling, has a super ability to mediate in marriage, has the bottom line of marriage, and is independent. She likes diplomacy and politics, and will never retreat to be her "Mrs. Jiang" behind the scenes.
In marriage, if a woman wants to get a happy marriage, her love alone is not enough. A woman must also have her own value, so that a man cannot do without you.
