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Text: Shili
Illustration: From the Internet
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In recent days, the relationship between the wife of the Tmall president and the Internet celebrity mistress has been unabated. An apology, and then all kinds of arrogant behavior of Xiaosan.
Regarding this incident, different people have different opinions. Some people think that Xiaosan is too arrogant and destroys other people's families. He even dared to make blatant metaphors and even provoke in the circle of friends.
Some people also think that Mrs. President did not think much about this matter. She could have discussed it with her husband quietly, which made it difficult for everyone to end, and it would obviously affect her husband's career.
This idea is indeed a bit difficult to understand. It is obviously that her husband betrayed the family, and the mistake was first. How did everyone point the finger at her?
As the saying goes, moral incompatibility will suffer. It is that he does not care about his future and betrayed his wife and children. When he does this, he should think of the consequences. Mrs. President just did what a normal wife should do.
Jiang Fan and his wife have been married for 13 years, so far less than 7 years, this marriage is not long ago, but there have been cracks.
For his wife and children, his behavior is unforgivable, but some men still think that he just made the mistakes most men make. As a woman, you should choose to forgive. This idea is really annoying. .
is no longer a feudal society. After the husband has flowers, not only can she not be angry, but she also has to pretend to be virtuous and virtuous to fulfill them.
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is now equal between men and women in the 21st century. Monogamy is the most normal marriage relationship. Since the husband betrays the family and children, he should accept the corresponding punishment. The president has done nothing wrong, since the husband does not miss the old feelings. , Unwilling to shoulder the responsibilities, then there is no point in this marriage going on. The behavior of Mrs. President
has heralded the end. She is not afraid of divorce at all. She is just defending her rights and venting her dissatisfaction.
In a marriage, only a woman like her is less likely to suffer. She knows what she really wants, and she will never compromise on certain things.
She will not let her behave wrong because her husband is the president of Tmall, and then carry all the grievances alone. This is not her personality.
It is said that after this incident, the wife of the president increased 200,000 followers overnight. This is a particularly shocking thing, but through this incident, everyone can also see the attitude of the netizens, most of the netizens stand by her. Here, after all, most people's three views are still very positive.
Many people thought that they would end in divorce, but Jiang Fan said in public that he would not divorce his wife. Whether it was an expedient measure or the truth, the junior did not get any benefits in this matter. It was a wise move for Mrs.
to stoke this matter out. She pushed Xiaosan to the forefront and indirectly warned her husband, even if their divorce wronged party was on Jiang Fan's side.
There is a kind of woman in this world that everyone can't afford. She dares to love and hate, does not compromise, and is full of wisdom. This kind of woman is the least likely to suffer in marriage.
As for those women who are weak and weak, they only know how to blame others, their fate seems to beIt was already doomed from the beginning.
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People often say that women cannot be too strong, because men who are too strong will not like women. In fact, this is just a suppression of women by men. They don’t want women to be too strong to affect their interests. .
But for a normal woman, she must be strong when she is strong, and she must not give in. The weak and weak can only put themselves in a passive position. The pony in the
community is generally recognized as a Phoenix male. Although he graduated from 985 key colleges and universities, he does not have a solid family background. The reason why he can live in a high-end community depends on his wife.
His wife is a well-recognized strong woman. She runs two shops alone and earns no less than 500,000.
Women yearned for love when they were young, and they believed in love especially, so there was indeed love between Xiao Ma and his wife, but he did not know how to get it.
Two years ago, he was with a female college student who had just graduated. The reason female college students liked him was that he drove a good car every day and went to various high-end places. Girls thought he was a rich second-generation, so Only then gradually approached him, in fact, he was just a soft man.
Although he graduated from a prestigious school, he didn’t have much abilities. He used to work, but after several years of hard work, his income was not particularly impressive. After he got married with his wife, he accompanied his wife to take care of the store. .
His wife is naturally familiar when starting a business, and he can only lay hands next to him, so the main money-maker in their family is his wife.
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He always thought he was a very smart person, with a good wife in the family, not only is a gentle personality, but also very good at making money, he can be with his young and beautiful girlfriend outside. Fluttering.
is just that he underestimated his wife too much. He was cleansed out a few days ago, and all this comes from his wife's plan.
's wife has discovered his behavior a long time ago, but it has not been exposed. When he is happily together with his girlfriend, his wife is already thinking of how to deal with them. The wife of
collected all the evidence and transferred all the marital property. He did not get any benefits, and also lost the custody of the child.
Today, he even regrets his intestines, but all of this is caused by himself. He originally had a happy family, he can live a life of worry-free food and clothing for the rest of his life, and he can work hard with an excellent wife. Fan belongs to his own business, but it is a pity that he has no ambitions and does not have this blessing.
Now that he has nothing, his girlfriend will naturally not continue to be with him. He has lost his family and lover, and he has no previous material foundation. He has become one overnight. Pauper with nothing.
When everyone mentioned their affairs, they all said that his wife was a cruel character, but everyone had to express from the bottom of their hearts that women should live like this, so that they could defend their rights and not let others ride. On his own head.
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People often say that character determines fate does have a certain truth, different people will lead different lives, and have different lives, and marriage is the same.
Some women have always bowed their knees during marriage, and are always pleasing men. They think that they can get a happy family through this method and achieve the purpose of marriage stability. In fact, the more they are like this, the more they will let themselves Be passive.
In this world, no one will accommodate the weak, the weak eating the strong is the law of nature, and deceiveBeing soft and afraid of hardship also happens to be human nature. Weak women are destined to be bullied, while strong women have the ability to protect themselves.
is strong enough and wise enough to achieve a good life without compromise.
This point is particularly important, but in real life, many women can’t do it. After they get married, they are forced to become bitter wives by life. While they complain about their husbands’ disregard of them, they can’t help but go. Please each other.
They are very afraid of losing their marriage, because they feel that once they lose their marriage, they can no longer continue their current life of worry-free food and clothing. If a woman lives like this, she can only be regarded as a soft persimmon by others.
Everyone only saw the power of the president's wife, but ignored her confidence. Not all women in this world have such confidence.
If you can do this, you can also live a happy life. Even in the face of the breakdown of your marriage, you can still have a good life, because for you, marriage is just a small part of your life. Interlude, your life direction is always in your own hands.
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