Ariel Lin reveals the reason for separation
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It is well known that Ariel Lin has been married to her husband for many years, but so far they have not given birth to a boy or a half girl. I want to know more or less about the reasons for this. Ariel Lin and The husband has been separated all year round and has no time to be together. This is the main reason why they have no children so far.
Lin Yichen recently appeared on a show and publicly revealed the reasons for her separation from her husband.
She said that due to work, she and her husband often separated from each other. They originally planned to have children this year, but they happened to catch up with the epidemic. The couple had not seen it for two months.
Netizens will inevitably feel sore after listening to it. Artists are also not easy. They also have their own difficulties. Although their income is very high, they are often involuntary. Gathering less and more has become a true portrayal of many star couples.
Lin Yichen is now 37 years old and has long reached the age when she should have a child, but due to various reasons, she has not been a mother so far.
Fortunately, the relationship between Ariel Lin and her husband has been very good. They have been in love for many years after they have been married. Although they sometimes live in two places, the love between them has not diminished at all.
Actually, in real life, there are many couples living in two places. Everyone is forced to live, and there is no way to make such a decision. If conditions permit, who wants to be separated from their family?
Some couples have to live in two places because of work, while some couples are to make a living. For example, most rural men choose to go out to work in order to make money to support their families, and rural women have become the most common left-behind women. .
couples in different places are so common, it is inevitable that people are a little worried. Many people say that it is prone to problems when couples live apart all the year round. Two people often don’t see each other and don’t know what each other is doing. , Or there are some conflicts between them, it is very likely that they will get divorced.
Now the divorce rate is indeed very high, and the reasons are naturally different. Couples in different places are very dangerous for everyone. Then, how should they maintain their relationship?
You only need to do the following.
Give each other enough trust
Many couples in different places will face quarrels and other problems. In fact, the main reason for this series of problems is that both parties do not trust.
They live in different environments, and they face different people every day. Because they can’t meet each other, they often feel insecure. Many couples doubt each other’s loyalty, and in this suspicious state Below, quarreling is the most inevitable thing for them.
Trust is really important for maintaining the relationship between husband and wife. If the husband and wife do not even have the most basic trust, how can they talk about love?
In fact, people have their own difficulties in living in this world. If conditions permit, everyone would not choose a different place. After all, they are husbands and wives, who do not want to stay with their loved ones every day.
But for various reasons, everyone can only accept this reality. You have bitterness in his heart, and he also has bitterness in his heart. In that case, why can't everyone understand each other and give each other enough trust?
Give the other party enough care
Most people know about long-distance relationships. According to the survey, 90% of long-distance relationships have finally broken up and ended. As for the reason for this, Presumably everyone can imagine it.
What people say about long-distance relationships is probably that they can do nothing except phone calls and video chats on mobile phones. This will make them feel particularly uncomfortable. They will eventually choose to separate. Long-distance relationships are still so different, and couples should How?
couples in different places are also prone to this situation. They all hope that when they need each other, the other side can be by their side, but because they live in different cities, even if they are sick, they can’t get care of each other. It's something that many people can't stand.
But don’t worry, when you encounter this situation, you can think of some reasonable ways to solve it, such as giving more care to the other party. The so-called care is not just words, but also actions.
is now an online society. You can buy things or even order food for each other through the Internet. These are all signs of concern.
Always keep in touch
No matter how busy you are, you must keep in touch at all times, at least greet each other every day, so as not to be alienated.
Some people think that husband and wife are the closest people in the world. They have become a family. It doesn't matter if they don't contact each other occasionally, but this is not the case.
All the feelings in this world need to be maintained through contact, and long periods of non-contact will only lead to strange feelings between each other.
We all live in different cities and have different circles. If we don’t contact us at ordinary times, I’m afraid we will be completely unfamiliar. At that time, you will not even have a common language. What a terrible thing is this?
prepare surprises from time to time
If conditions permit, everyone can often create some unexpected surprises for each other. Some couples have lost their original freshness because of marriage for many years, and they feel that life is not passionate.
will slowly cool down the relationship, which is very detrimental to their marriage development, so everyone must avoid such things, and the best way is to create surprises and romance.
As for how to do it, it depends on different circumstances. For example, your spouse is about to celebrate his birthday, and you can’t stay with him, but it doesn’t matter you can prepare a very unexpected surprise for him now. It's the online world. As long as you have the heart, nothing is impossible.
once heard a long distance couple say that the most romantic thing they think is that they spend Valentine's Day together, eat birthday cakes, and even watch TV together. Although they are in different cities, they can do many things together.
Never forget the responsibilities on their shoulders
The main reason why many people betray their families is that they forget their responsibilities. Some people say that couples in different places are really difficult. If at this time there is another A person, they are easily shaken.
These are no excuses. You are not the only one who is suffering in this world. Everyone is for life. Since life is forced, why can’t you understand each other a little bit? You have to know that once you do something, there is no room for maneuver. .
A sense of responsibility is a necessary condition for maintaining the relationship between husband and wife. As long as everyone does not forget the responsibility on their shoulders, they will not do anything more improperly.
People's hearts also need to be suppressed. If everyone does what they want, there will be problems in the relationship between husband and wife, and the marriage will be reduced to the point where it cannot end.
It is best to have a child
If the couple is in a different place, it is better to have a child earlier. On this point, different people may have different ideas. Some people think that children are not.It is a necessity in marriage, but don’t forget that marriage without children is really prone to problems.
Children are not only the crystallization of love, but also a bond that can never be cut off between husband and wife. As long as there are children, the marriage will become stronger.
No matter how beautiful the love is, it will slowly fade after years of getting along, and then it will turn into family affection.
Some couples divorce casually because they have no children, so they often divorce because of simple things.
But if you have a child, the result is completely different. After having a child, even if the couple quarrels, they will take into account the feelings of the child, which is also very good for their relationship.
Everyone attaches great importance to children. After the child is born, everyone has more concern for the family and at the same time more love. Therefore, if conditions permit, it is better to have a child earlier. appropriate.
Couples in different places are really hard, but this is a very common phenomenon in real life. Everything is forced by life. I hope that all couples can grow old together and have a happy and content family.
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