Divorce is a great invention, especially for women.
We are accustomed to the story of love dying before marriage.
also got tired of watching the third party intervening and making trouble in the family ethics drama.
But how did the loving couple get to this point? In
dramas, novels and even people's discussions, it seems that it has always been just a footnote to the breakdown of the marriage relationship.
This time, the highly personal director Noah Baumbach joined hands with widows Scarlett Johansson and Adam Driver.
brings the secret, tingling, helpless, and unspeakable stories of marriage on the big screen.
There has never been a clear transition period from "You are my world" to "My world is only you".
"Who am I in marriage?" is a soul question to every person in the besieged city.
"Marriage Story", which started from the divorce, will end because of the divorce?
Teacher Tai Yishu once said in "The Golden Years": "Little girls are poisoned by fairy tales. They always feel that marriage is the end of a happy life. Only when I grow up I know that marriage is just the beginning of another life."
Nicole (Scarlett Johansson) was born in Los Angeles, a mecca for film and television. Because of her talent and good looks, she devoted herself to making a movie when she was in college. However,
moved to the metropolis of New York because he met Charlie (Adam Driver), and began to engage in drama.
How did the story begin?
In a blink of an eye, two young people bathed in love became husband and wife and parents.
doesn't know when it will start, the communication with each other is getting less and less, and the position in the other's mind is back and forth.
Young people who are full of vigor and longing for the future have turned their lives into stagnant water.
Charlie can still shine in his career, but Nicole has to make sacrifices for Charlie for the family.
Like most families, the husband ignores the sacrifices made by the wife for the family because he is used to it.
Charlie never thought that his relationship with his wife would suddenly collapse out of control.
but it was just a sudden to him.
is accustomed to dominating, accustomed to the cooperation of his wife, accustomed to self-centeredness.
He didn't even know his selfishness.
said that it is good to get together and good to go, but marriage is a mess. The decent
takes place in drama. In real life, countless offenses and defenses have already been accumulated.
because of Charlie's disapproval.
Nicole found a lawyer after careful consideration, a professional female lawyer who was a "comer". Because
is a person here, she understands Nicole.
Because of her profession, she understands the law and understands the secular double standards for men and women.
People can accept that the man in the marriage is a bastard.
But a woman in a marriage must be a perfect wife and a perfect mother. What is the relationship between husband and wife
?
When it is good, it is like glue, when it is bad, it is incompatible with water and fire. When one party of
dies, the spouse is the first heir to the estate and the first suspect.
Nicole and Charlie, who once loved each other, finally stood on opposite sides.
In all fairness, Charlie is not a "bad" man.
He is talented, hardworking, and capable of turning his work place into another home.
was really wronged by the small family he established with Nicole, and even made a compromise for himself.
He is just like most married men, so-so and can't count on it.
Nicole and Charlie, once loving couples, took their lawyers to the negotiating table with each other.
The secrets, trivial matters, faults, and details between husband and wife were all used by the opposing lawyer as targets of attack.
and they finally broke out the war that they must return.
The more people who know you, the more they know how to sting you.
regret, heartache is inevitable.
used to have happy times and all happened.
Once the cracks appear, it is difficult to break the mirror again.
just, things will always end.
In the end, all the stories are just a period of life passed by each other.
is like Charlie's lawyer, the old man who has been married four times and divorced three times said it.
If we fall into things like "what did you do", "what did I do", "who paid $2".
things will be endless, costing too much money and energy.
None of us want that.
Moreover, no matter how bad it is, it will pass.
