asked what is the most beautiful in this world, love is definitely a miracle!
As a kind of advanced primates, people are most different from ordinary animals, and one of the most puzzling phenomena is love. There is no accurate and reasonable explanation for what is love. But it just happened naturally.
So the question is, how to make sure that a person likes himself rather than his own wishful thinking?
If a boy bullies you, it means he likes you.
recently revisited an American love movie "He actually doesn't like you so much" (aka: Actually you don't understand his heart/ wrong love style/ Actually he doesn't like you so much), there is no ups and downs in the plot setting , There is no love vow that touches the world, some are just the strong impact of ideal and reality.
Whether it is GiGi, a single girl full of fantasies and yearning for love, Beth who has lived with her boyfriend for 7 years and has never been married, or Janine who has a handsome husband and a perfect marriage but betrayed in the eyes of outsiders, they are all facing the test of love And choice. In addition to the highly representative emotional lines of the characters in these films, the most ingenious part of the film's settings that can more arouse people's thinking is the several problems interspersed in the film.
"He is just not that into you!"
Friends who have watched this film may think GiGi is stupid, a bit whimsical, and even self-righteous. Innocently believe in the man’s "I am glad to meet you" and "I will call you." But I can't read the implicit "I am not interested in you". At this time, the most worrying thing is that you still find all kinds of excuses for him. In fact, if a man doesn't seem to care about you that much, then he doesn't care about you, nothing else.
Many girls like to check posts and kill them in a series of calls for an hour, half a day, and a day until they are turned off. They prefer to deceive themselves and never admit the fact that he doesn't care about you.
is like the girl’s self-report in the film: "Why send a caller ID? You must know who is calling. This mentality is really annoying. For example, you pick up the phone and see who is calling. , I understand in my heart. And if a man didn’t call me, I might call him every 15 minutes until he answered the phone. But if he looked down and saw my number, he would think I'm crazy, but obviously I am not." Because
cares, I want to contact, and because I want to contact, I will care more!
He just didn't meet the person who wanted to marry
Beth has lived with her boyfriend for 7 years, but he couldn't wait for his proposal. This raises the second question, the unwillingness to get married or the issue of breaking up. The two fat girls expressed the thoughts of the man and woman after the breakup in a few words. When a girl is deeply in love, her thoughts and behaviors are involuntarily controlled by men, and she gives everything inadvertently. Even the breakup proposed in angrily became a weight for men to pass the test. A wise man will say: "I don't want to delay you; you are good, I am not worthy of you; I hope you are happy; I am really jealous of the person who can marry you" Yunyun. At that moment, most women chose to believe their nonsense and even regretted their decision.
People who truly love you will not want to push you away!
She doesn't like you
Whether a man or a woman, there will always be some self-deception. For example, if a girl has a relationship with a boy he likes, he will mistakenly think that the boy also likes her; and if a boy chases a girl and can't catch him, he will think that she is just shy and just welcomes her if she wants to refuse. In fact, you can never guess the other person's thoughts, always consuming your own feelings in the misunderstanding, and the ending you want may never happen.
Don't waste time on things that seem to be fruitless, and the same goes for feelings!
is chic and let go, leaving no room for
, a married man who looks to outsiders to be happy, Ben meets the sexy and beautiful yoga teacher Anna. At first, due to family constraints, the two were limited to the ambiguous stage. But with the time and again,After all, he couldn't resist the temptation. When Janine heard about the fact that her husband was cheating, the first thing she thought of was to save her marriage and chose to compromise. It is conceivable that such a marriage is meaningless. What
refreshes my three views most is the words of a lady who has had three husbands after this question. Every husband has a lover, and even the last one who hides the most, he found his lover after his death. But this lady is a real master, has countless lovers, but has never been caught.
When you want to betray your lover, maybe the betrayed person is you!
can't hold back affection since ancient times, only routines can win people's hearts, this should not become the modern concept of love. We should always believe that sooner or later, love will come. When we meet him/her, don't be humble, don't be blind, don't be self-righteous, get along as equals, simply believe, and be honest, even if there is no perfect ending, the beauty of the process is worth remembering!
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