Recently, the post-90s topic seems to be a sensitive topic. Unknowingly, the post-90s have grown up and become a unique group. Weibo topics about the post-90s age also rushed to the top of the topic list. Someone summed up the topic of "the first batch of post-90s":
"the first batch of post-90s are already greasy"
"the first batch of post-90s have been divorced"
"the stomach of the first batch of post-90s has collapsed"
" The first batch of post-90s are already bald"
"The first batch of post-90s’ ovaries are declining"
"The first batch of post-90s have been ordained"
Some 90s said "I 97 have two children" "I 98 "I don't admit defeat in 1999" "I don't know how old I am in 99 years". No matter how you dissatisfied with the old, the truth is: time is the fairest. Whether poor or rich, 30 years old will arrive on schedule.
Xiaoou
is a 1991 entrepreneurial woman, now 28 years old. Graduated from a prestigious school and the owner of a startup company is her halo. Due to the high pressure of the company, opening eyes and closing eyes every day is a KPI; although a small career has achievements, it is like a busy dog every day. At 28 years old, I still don't have a boyfriend, and my life is a mess, and I don't know how to do housework.
Wang
is 26 years old. I always feel that I am still a child. I have never done housework at home since I was a child. I am a spoiled baby at home. Until now, my life is irregular, I can’t do housework, I have no savings and no girlfriend.
A Peng
I just graduated from university, and I came to Beijing for the first time to live alone. Although I am a post-95, I am really old; on the one hand, newcomers in the company are afraid of doing well and work hard overtime while drinking health tea. Although I am under pressure, I am still full of illusions about the future. The only downside is that after leaving home, my housework will be a mess.
小敏
I am a treasure mother, after 1995, I got married and had children after graduation; I regretted choosing this path before, why didn’t I go for a break at a young age; now I’m fine, I learned to organize the academy through Firefly , Became a professional recruiter; this job not only taught me to have an orderly life, but also gave me a good income. Support my life and supplement my family. After
90, you have entered the ranks of Ben 3. The first batch of post-90s has entered the 30-year-old palace. When
is young, you will hear: "When you are thirty, you can be who you want to be". When
was approaching thirty years old, he heard: "You must start a family and start a business when you are thirty, and you must take care of your family!" The life trajectory of
has long been changed by other people's expectations. It has become numb and unchanged. Maybe this is the same as most people's state. .
But I hope everyone can jump out of the vicious circle of being numbed by the sense of crisis
In this ever-changing society, none of us can predict what will happen in the future.
We also have no way of knowing whether the future will get better, the only thing we know is to start at this moment, choose a goal that suits us, and then move forward bravely.
Everything is updated, and new things are born every day, which means you have multiple choices, you can be buried in crises, and of course you can stick to yourself and break through this vicious circle.
has strict requirements on oneself, self-limitation to find the true self in the coming mid-life crisis, and become oneself, not the appearance of others.
is widening every minute because of the gap between people.
When you want to give up, think about what kind of person you want to be; when you want to relax, is it true that those who are behind you have come from behind; when you fail and frustrate, others have already Dry tears...
There are thousands of possibilities in life, and the most likely one is the one you built for yourself. What kind of person
wants to be, there is no need to ask others for the answer, no need to long for the arrangements of fate, God rewards hard work, and man can conquer nature.
