On February 5, Leslie Cheung’s former agent, Chen Shufen, shared a group of photos of Tang Hede’s birthday with his family and friends on social platforms, with the text "I wish Mr. Tang good health and happy birthday."
61-year-old Tang Hede looked very good. Young, with a lovely smile, and a warm gentleman, but he always feels a little bit missing, sunshine, yes, sunshine. Although he doesn't look like a 61-year-old, his eyes are lonely and haggard.
He stayed with him when he was at the lowest point of "Brother"'s life until he jumped. He accompanied him for more than 20 years. During the last illness of "Brother", he stayed with him and stayed with him. At the funeral, Leslie Cheung’s niece said to Tang Hede:
"Uncle has always cherished the feelings with you. He said that you had accompanied him through difficulties. In the past year, I have also seen what true love is, and you are inseparable from your uncle ten Abandoned, take care of him day and night. On behalf of Uncle Ten, thank you very much. Uncle Ten has you, so happy. No matter how sad we are, I believe it will not be as sad as you."
Now it has been 17 years since the death of "brother", let Let us review this enduring love again.
At the end of 1982, Leslie Cheung and Tang Hede met at the godmother Mrs. Zhang’s party. At this time, the 23-year-old Tang Hede was already a handsome, elegant, restrained, handsome man. This is not their first acquaintance. They had a relationship when they were children, and they knew a little about each other's family background. It didn't take long for
to have a similar growth environment and a compatible world view. The two became good friends who talked about everything. At this time Leslie Cheung encountered a bottleneck in his career and was unable to break through. During the years of his debut, he had been mediocre, was criticized and not recognized, and was once financially struggling to make ends meet. At that time, Tang Hede was also a newcomer who had just joined the company, and his salary was not high. He saved a few months of salary to Leslie Cheung, which can almost be said to be helpful. He ate instant noodles for several months.
and they have been with each other for 3 years. During this time, they understand each other to their heart's content, and their emotions have become deeper and deeper, even surpassing the definition of friendship. They have developed dependence, almost love, but both of them are tacitly aware. It was not until 1985 that Leslie Cheung became popular. In an interview with
many years later, Hong Kong star Zheng Peipei said when talking about Leslie Cheung:
"The first person to share homosexuality with her was "brother". Leslie Cheung was still not popular at that time. They made a film called "Women Thirty". "Three" was in the play. She said "Brother" is too perfect. She doesn't think homosexuality is a terrible thing." The drama
happened to be released in 1983. It can be seen that at that time, the relationship between her brother and Tang Tang was already very good.
Because of this love, Leslie Cheung's life has become more legendary. Tang Hede's life is also true. After
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became popular, Leslie Cheung carefully protected this hard-won love, especially Tang Hede. He drove him to banquets and parties and appeared as a driver, silently warming him behind him.
Leslie Cheung’s concert, Tang Hede always sits in the inconspicuous corner of the last row, stands up with the fans and shouts, waving light sticks, and shouting "I Love You" together. No one knows, this big man in Yushu. He is the person most qualified to say this sentence. In an interview with Mao Shunyun later, Leslie Cheung said, "Mr. Tang is like my elder brother and family, he is a gift from the Lord." When he was sent to study abroad by his father at the age of 13, Leslie Cheung didn’t miss his home so much. I realized that I really had a home, and someone at home was waiting for him. After
became popular, Leslie Cheung had a hard time. Although some people were brilliant and dazzling, while others were heart-rending, he had been living in doubt. When everyone was waiting for him to shine, he made an amazing move "Farewell to the music scene." So there were 33 farewell concerts from 1989 to early 1990. After
, he and his lover, Tang Hede, far away from this arrogant dispute and went to Canada. Tang Hede shifted the focus of work to Canada in order to accompany his lover. From then on, the two of them avoided the public view and concentrated on enjoying the peaceful life of the two in the world. In the days of
in Canada, the two of them lived in simplicity and lived a slow-paced life. Leslie Cheung's hands that were shaking because of tension before returned to normal after arriving in Canada. Do notNeedless to say, Tang Hede played a very important role during this period.
Regardless of Leslie Cheung's decision, Tang Hede will support and follow him. He will come back a few years later and Tang Hede will do the same, as long as he is happy and happy. Only Tang Hede can give him selfless and generous love in the spiritual world of his brother Leslie Cheung without asking for anything in return.
In 1995, Leslie Cheung made a comeback five years after leaving the music scene, and Tang Hede decided to return to Hong Kong from Canada in 1994. He knew that his lover is a workaholic and loves the stage very much. The loneliness here is unbearable. He The best way to do this is to stay with you to the end. When Leslie Cheung returned, Tang Hede had already joined the Hong Kong Standard Chartered Bank and continued to be with him.
In 1997, Hong Kong's return is imminent. Leslie Cheung confessed to his lover Tang Hede at the "Across 97" concert. He said:
"Tonight is a very exceptional night, can I sing a few more songs?"
fans certainly hope he can Sing a few more songs. As for what "exception" is, no one probably knows, and I will not worry about it.
Leslie Cheung first said to send a song to his mother, then he said:
"At the same time, I also want to give this song to a very important friend in my life, that is your godson. When he is frustrated, when the economy is at its peak, he can lend me several months of salary to let me tide over the difficulties. He is Mr. Tang.”
logically he should give at least 3 seconds to the audience. The audience cheered as much as possible, but he led to the song "The Moon Represents My Heart" that was about to be sung with almost no gaps. It was obvious that he was nervous in his heart. He didn't know how his words would affect him, but he Can't care about so much, he must give his lover Tang Hede a solemn expression. The lover
is so good, he is qualified to let the world know his name. No matter how the outside world and those paparazzi contemplate them, he just wants to be himself. He doesn't want to be sneaky with his lover, he just wants to enjoy the sweetness with integrity.
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must have lived happily for a few years after saying those words, but the day did not follow their wishes. After they announced their love affair for only 6 years, my brother jumped out of the Mandarin Hotel and ended his short stay. Another legendary life.
Many people speculated about the cause of his death. Some said it was "media murder", some said he was "sick", others said that Tang Hede had changed his heart, etc. They said everything. I asked Leslie Cheung's friends and the answer was " He may not know it himself.”
Maybe all of these add up to make him overwhelmed, and Tang Hede is undoubtedly the most sorrowful person. At Leslie Cheung’s funeral, Mr. Tang was utterly desolate and grief-stricken, relying on others. He could barely stand up with the help of Zhang. The elegiac couplet he gave to his brother was "Forever and forever, this love will never end!"
After that, he lived alone in the house he bought with Leslie Cheung, guarding his brother’s ashes and staying with him. The next dog, and the dog died later, he lived there alone, and he would not be absent on every day related to his brother, and kept in touch with his brothers and friends, as if his brother was still there.
On the tenth anniversary of his brother’s death, Tang Hede wrote a eulogy for the first time, "Ten years of life and death are boundless, unthinkable, unforgettable. The water passes away like this, perseverance day and night, life is impermanent. Only love has eternity, let us continue Spoil Leslie Cheung."
