If you have long lost the heartbeat when you first met love and have forgotten the original appearance of pure love, you can watch the movie "Please call me by your name" to relive the beauty of the beginning of love and the sour and sweet suffering . This is a film with fresh style, beautiful pictures and sincere and moving emotions. In the summer of 1983 in a small town in northern Italy, the bright sunshine illuminates the cozy courtyards, fragrant orchards, empty and quiet villages and small roads, and peaceful streets with few pedestrians. There are no tall buildings and busy traffic, only old and tidy houses and bicycles that can be easily traveled at any time.
Two male protagonists, one is a college student, the other is a high school student, one is tall, handsome and sunny, and the other is gentle and melancholy. The youthful ignorance and restraint of love at first sight made the two young people who met in the time tunnel bewildered. It takes some good luck to meet the person you like at a good age, and the most rare thing is that the two sides are in harmony with each other instead of wishful thinking. This kind of unutilitarian innocent love is equally beautiful and moving whether it is between men and women, between lesbians, or between gays, just like the Weaver Girl and Cowherd, White Snake and Xu Xian, Zhu Yingtai and Zhu Yingtai in the myth. Liang Shanbo, regardless of class, demon, irrelevant to rich or poor, can transcend all boundaries, break all constraints, and reach the state of forgetting things.
Yes, the whole movie seems to be a dream from beginning to end, the kind of dream that cannot be met. Whether it is a scene like a paradise or all the characters in the scene, they are unified and coordinated in that way, which makes people yearn for. A group of people with the same beautiful heart and appearance are feeling family, friendship and love in pictures like landscapes everywhere. Although there are emotional ups and downs, inner struggles and frustrations, this is the most true experience of being born: all emotions must be felt, contemplated and judged by themselves. From youthfulness to maturity is an unknowable painful process of transformation. , Even the dearest parents cannot substitute for design, arrangement or deprivation of this fundamental right.
The 17-year-old Ellio didn't understand his feelings for Oliver at first, and his heart was full of timidity, doubts and anxiety. In order to relieve his boredom, he had a relationship with a female classmate, and later determined that he was irresistible to Oliver. His unusual love, he began to avoid her with guilt. The girlfriend felt very hurt, but she did not resent Elliot, but took the initiative to forgive and understand him, and would like to become a friend forever with him. Such tolerance and generosity have also made her own cuteness and beauty. If she always puts herself in a deceived role, over time, regret and resentment, disappointment and depression will slowly immerse her fresh and pure face and heart. The appearance becomes an ugly person. This change may not be visible in one or two years, but it will be obvious after ten or eight years. That's why people always say: Xiang is born from the heart. A beautiful attitude makes a beautiful face. Oliver fell in love with Ellio at first sight, but he was worried that his feelings and behavior would harm the immature Ellio, so he restrained himself, very cautious, and always pretended to stop moving as if nothing had happened. . This made Elio, who was eager and unable to get an answer, even more painful and tormented. Until they finally broke through the thin layer of window paper, the suppressed emotions gush out to be comforted and released, and the mind and body merge into one. . They call each other by their own names. You are in me and I am in you. They have found the sustenance of belonging and affection. That kind of sweetness and lingering is the most ecstasy of love.
The most rare thing is Ellio’s parents. This middle-aged couple who are in love with each other are full of heartfelt love for their son. They have a wise scholarly demeanor, and their understanding and respect for his son is awe-inspiring. They secretly helped their son to experience this pure and beautiful relationship, because their keen insight and profound experience judged Oliver to be a particularly kind and considerate person in every aspect, good character and knowledge, and worthy of love. They do not have so many worldly prejudices and narrow thinking, although they are still soft, sensual, healthy, and warm in their hearts. Mother enlightened her son with fairy tales, the princess in the fairy tale said: If you can’t confess, it’s more uncomfortable than death.It was the voice of Elliot. He got the inspiration and mustered the courage to boldly confess to Oliver. Towards the end, my father’s frank conversation with Elliot is the finishing touch of the film. It brings the thought of the story to a higher angle, and a long and earnest summary is the feelings and regrets of the people who passed by. The greatest helplessness in life is nothing more than this. When you wake up, everything is too late.
The best way to live up to the years is to be brave to feel, give and give, and grow and mature into yourself in the process, regardless of the results and the gains and losses. Otherwise, the light has passed away and the age is getting older. Both the body and the spirit are exhausted, all feelings have been dull, a lively and rich heart is also stiff and numb, and even completely closed the door of his own heart. Nothing can enter, living is like dying. Oliver said he really envied Ellio for having such a good father. If his own father knew the truth about him, he would definitely send him to a labor camp. Therefore, due to the pressure of the world and family, he prepared to marry a girl. He called to tell Elliot of this decision. Ilio, who couldn't change reality, smiled and blessed Oliver on the phone. They called each other affectionately by their names. This call will be embedded in each other's flesh and blood, becoming a permanent imprint. Then, Elliot walked to the front of the fireplace alone, sat there, turned his back to the busy family at the table, and cried for a long time. At this moment, how lonely and lonely he is, letting his heartache spread all over his body, letting tears keep falling, but he has no alternative. A beautiful and innocent relationship is destined to be fruitless. Ellio mourned in his heart. Those past time scenes and a dear person will always be frozen in memory. Waiting for time to lighten them and slowly push them into a more profound background......
