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Some people say that the more people who thirst for love, the more careful and softer they are in love.
For example, the actor Hao Lei once said that she is "not greedy, not greedy, not greedy for money, but greedy". How "rigid" Hao Lei is in career, is more concession in love. When the
TV series "Crane Huating" was on the air, the related topic "the moment when the old opera's acting skills burst" frequently appeared in hot searches.
And among these old dramas is Hao Lei, whom everyone hasn't seen for a long time.
In the play, Hao Lei played a guest role as the insider Zhang of the Shangfu Bureau. She burst into tears and committed suicide by gritting her teeth at the last moment. Netizens once again called her a real "burst acting".
Unfortunately, Hao Lei, who has an outspoken personality, doesn’t care about this evaluation. A few years ago, she even went straight on the show:
"What kind of explosive acting skills are very ridiculous. The so-called big explosive power is all you did in the drama school. It should be done in the second time.” The implication of
is that acting is the basic skill of an actor.
People who are familiar with Hao Lei know that she has always been so "rigid". She said: "Even if it is not understood by others, I have to persist until I prove to everyone what a good performance is."
Indeed, many times Hao Lei It gives the impression of such a "axis".
She dared to speak up and speak out her dissatisfaction with the industry as a whole.
But such a woman who is extremely confident in her career is willing to compromise in the face of love. She was very "silent" in a few romances, never actively vocalize, and was unwilling to take the initiative to "show affection".
Some time ago, if her family were not disturbed by secret media shooting, she would still not announce to the outside world that she had divorced a second time.
This is certainly related to her personality. She believes that actors should use works to speak. She has repeatedly said: "The public should be closer to actors' works and farther away from private lives." But why doesn't all this have anything to do with her past emotional experience? Hao Lei, 41, has three relationships and two marriages. There are happy and sweet moments, but at the end, Hao Lei's silence and retreat always make people feel distressed. The first familiar feeling of
is about Deng Chao. Hao Lei said: "I have never loved someone like this."
In 2002, Hao Lei and Deng Chao fell in love with Deng Chao when he was filming the TV series "The Young Man". When she was young, she treated love with passion and intensity.
Hao Lei herself has a strong personality. At that time, her career developed better than Deng Chao, but when she was in love, she was still willing to "get everything in."
When two people get along, it is inevitable that there are some contradictions, but Hao Lei, who has a hot temper, is willing to wrong herself for the sake of her lover. She once said: "I thought my sacrifice and tolerance can be exchanged, but in fact nothing has changed." When the film "Summer Palace" auditioned, Hao Lei initially rejected the request of director Lou Ye. She said: " Because of this movie, I will lose love." She knows that part of the large-scale performances in the movie will not be accepted by her boyfriend. Even if Lou Ye is her favorite director, the script is a good script she recognizes. She was first to love her. Still backed down. At the moment of refusal, Hao Lei said with tears, "I feel I am giving up the job that I love as always." But fortunately, with the insistence of director Lou Ye, Hao Lei finally starred in this movie, and then "Yu Hong" This classic role gave Hao Lei the opportunity to stay in film history. In the
movie, Yu Hong is obsessed with love. Everyone he loves will be desperate, even if love hurts her and makes her lose control. But when she meets a new lover, she will still do her best to love. When
is acting in an emotional drama, other people's performance is: My heart is broken.
Hao Lei said: "That's not enough. I was heartbroken, ground into a moer, and suddenly another tornado blew away."
So all the roles she played had a kind of "fierce": love Crazy perseverance, love vigorously, with a feeling of being out of control, probing on the edge of human madness. Unlike in the play, in reality: she also loves deeply, but when she loses, she will only heal herself silently. Because of the movie "Summer Palace", she and Deng Chao broke up. There are different opinions on the reasons for the breakup. But Hao Lei did not render to the mediaFor her own sadness or grievances, she just responded flatly to the public: "We are all victims."
has a very "rigid" acting and a very popular career, but she has always given way in love, even if she is injured, even after others. How many tears she shed, Hao Lei, who was in front of people, never slandered her predecessor, leaving enough respect for the other party. This unforgettable love eventually became Hao Lei's unspeakable. "I don't want to mention a certain person's name, because I think everyone is living their own lives. He is very happy and I am happy for him." When Deng Chao got married in 2011, Hao Lei left a message on Deng Chao's Weibo: "Fu Now, happy and happy.” After the breakup, the two people have no intersection. Whether it is film, TV or various activities, if it were not mentioned in the media, the new generation of netizens would not know that they were a pair of close lovers.
Especially in the eyes of ordinary people, Deng Chao is already a first-line actor in the entertainment industry, and Hao Lei is almost out of filming, so he won't be able to catch the heat of his ex?
In 2015, at the Golden Goblet Awards Ceremony of the 18th Shanghai Film Festival, the organizer arranged for Hao Lei to present awards to Deng Chao. At that time, both the media and the audience were watching the excitement, and some people even looked forward to the "Century Reconciliation" of the former couple.
But they never thought that the loving couple would meet again many years ago. It was so peaceful, there was no ambiguity in the imagination, and the love revived. They just passed by in a hurry and looked at each other politely.
Some people say, break up to see character.
Hao Lei is just like that, sensible and advancing well.
is cautious about her love, after the breakup, she is generous and daring to love and hate. After
broke up with Deng Chao, Hao Lei experienced a second emotional relationship.
In December 2008, when Hao Lei and Li Guangjie were participating in an event, they suddenly announced that they had been married for two years.
She never uses love to hype herself. She once said:
"Some people may like your acting, like your looks, and even like your taste, etc., but he does not treat you as a person."
The love that Hao Lei pursues is the mutual understanding of souls, pure and clean love. Hao Lei had been famous for a long time when he was with Li Guangjie, but Li Guangjie had no reputation.
But Hao Lei, who is obsessed with love itself, is still married, although there is no wedding and no wedding ring.
Friends who knew about this all felt that Hao Lei was dizzy, but the secular vision could not stop a woman's determination to fight for love. For the straight-tempered Hao Lei, love is very simple. If two people fall in love, then they will be together. Why care about the opinions of outsiders and be happy. But this carefully guarded relationship still failed to reach the end. In May 2009, Li Guangjie also revealed to the media that he would make up a grand wedding for Hao Lei. But things were unpredictable, and soon after, he was photographed by the media holding another woman in hand. This was like a bolt from the blue, and public opinion was in an uproar for a while. The scene where Hao Lei was talking on the street and crying while breaking down seemed to have gone to bed. Personal feelings are forced to be exposed to the public, with a little embarrassment, which is not easy for Hao Lei.
Faced with public opinion, she restrained and issued a divorce statement, denying the rumors of derailment, only saying that the relationship between the two met a red light.
confronted with strength alone and broke up decently, which is Hao Lei's greatest respect for feelings and her former lover.
does not complain to outsiders. After breaking up, he "blocks" his predecessor, does not raise or complain, and silently faces all kinds of comments from the outside world.
Hao Lei, who makes perfect emotions, has never compromised in her career.
In 2010, she won the 47th Golden Horse Award for Best Supporting Actress for her role as a mother in the movie "The Fourth Picture"; however, she did not accept the award because she was rehearsing a play directed by Meng Jinghui.
Someone asked her if it was a pity that she didn’t go to the scene to accept the award, but she directly replied: "Anyway, I got the award, what's the regret?"
She said that her goal is to be a female artist: "The biggest The honor of my name is that my name appears in the performance textbook." As for whether to walk on the red carpet, not make headlines, and whether there is a hot search, it is not something an actor should pay attention to. For the hidden rules of the entertainment industry, Hao Lei disdain to do it. In the face of the "journalists friends" who love and hate by celebrities, she is also rude: "You think it is important to have a good relationship with all reporters, or let everyone go to the cinema. It’s important to see your performance? I’m an eagle, don’t keep me going in line, bigThe wild goose lined up. "
Hao Lei once sang in a song: "All the light is coming to me, all the oxygen is absorbed by me, all the objects lose weight, I have almost reached the end of all roads."
she He was covered with thorns to fight against the unevenness of his career, but only when facing love, he put away the thorns. After
broke up with Li Guangjie, Hao Lei spent a long time in the window until he announced that he married Liu Ye from outside the circle in 2013, and She gave birth to twin sons.
years later, just when we all thought that she was enjoying happiness in the life of firewood, rice, oil and salt, she announced again that she was divorced.
still said goodbye decently this time.
has gone through three stages. Feelings, two marriages, although she is still the woman who is greedy for love, she has a different understanding of feelings and lovers.
In 2009, in her divorce statement with Li Guangjie, she said: “Emotions and marriage are indeed The whole of my life is, the present is, and the future is too. "
But in 2019, after ten years, she has been a mother. In her second divorce statement, she said:
"There is no relationship in the long river of life that can measure the meaning of human existence. The way of happiness may be Not only one kind. "
Someone once worried about Hao Lei, and felt proud and strong, can she accept the failure of her two marriages? But in fact, divorce does not mean failure, perhaps as Hao Lei said: "Bravely give up the wrong, the right will Coming to you. "Life is very long. When you look back at the past, you will find that all the unwillingness and pain of the year are just a millet in the river of human growth; life is also very short, so short that there is no time to entangle with the past. The drama "In Love" There are several versions of "Rhino", the most impressive is the version performed by Hao Lei and Duan Yihong.
, especially Hao Lei, has a red dress and a neurotic performance that has made countless people remember this beautiful and paranoid. Obviously obsessed with love.
Liao Yimei once described Hao Lei and said: "She has a special willful energy in her. That energy is especially like "Rhino", it is the feeling that you can't control the energy, desire, and hormones in the body, and all attempts to the world have to spray out of the body. "
Hao Lei's humbleness and persistence in love in "The Rhino in Love" are much like her in reality. No matter how hard she is at work or with foreigners,
often uses concessions to leave love when facing her lover. The last decent.
Leslie Cheung sings in the song "When Love is a Past":
Don’t mention the past, life has been stormy
Even if the memory can’t be erased, love and hate are still in my heart
really want to break the past, Let me continue tomorrow.
, don’t ask me for the news.
. For Hao Lei, past relationships and marriages are memories that can’t be erased. The love and hatred of the past are there.
But when love is a thing of the past, After a laugh, it is to reconcile with the old self and with the years. After the second divorce of
, she appeared again on the stage of the drama. She once again played a complex character and full of emotions in the drama "It used to be" directed by Lai Shengchuan The character.
As screenwriter Cheng Qingsong commented on her: "Hao Lei, China's most underrated actress. "
Hao Lei, in her job as an actor, she has never disappointed. She is always able to play every role, and can contribute all her acting skills and all her emotions to her career.
But she treats her feelings. We can only be forgotten with the former lover.
We can be attached to love and devote ourselves to everything when we love; but we must also learn to let go. Since we have become a stranger, we should not think about it, and we will be well.
Love and hate, both It's just a past event. Hao Lei, 41, can still look forward to a blossoming.
