, which is called "love to learn to succeed" .
roughly means that as long as you pay enough enthusiasm and love for one thing, you can walk on the bright road to success.
So now a large number of "blind love" people have appeared in this society. This group of people
has a characteristic, their "enthusiasm" comes quickly. They can quickly judge their liking for a thing, and quickly invest a lot of time and energy to enjoy the freshness or pleasure that the thing brings to them.
But at the same time there is another characteristic that their "love" disappears very quickly.
When they find that they need to sacrifice something else to like one thing, or that the like will not last long, they will give up. The power of
"love" is indeed endless, but it is also a force that is difficult to control.
01
Don't say you, this is love
, this is just desire
Ang Lee was once asked by Xu Zhiyuan in "Thirteen Invitations", if one day he quit filming, what kind of legacy can he leave in film history?
Li Ang smiled honestly and replied:
"Probably he is a person who works hard to make movies."
In fact, at the beginning, Li Ang didn't waver "love movies".
After graduating from the New York University Film Production Institute, he did not immediately devote himself to career struggles in his best years like all young and energetic dream-seeking teenagers.
has been eating "soft meals" at home for six years, and became a housekeeper who washes, cooks and takes children every day, waiting for his wife to return home from get off work. He uses the gaps in the housework to watch DVDs, and studies the script structure of Hollywood movies. Production mode.
no matter how much love, it seems that it will be gradually worn away in this day after day, without hope.
Ang Lee once suggested that he wanted to learn computers, so he could learn some skills and earn some money after spending some time. As soon as his wife Lin Huijia heard it, she scolded him on the spot: "There are so many people who study computers, so I don't care about you Li Ang."
Accompanied by Lin Huijia's hard work, Ang Lee persisted for more than two thousand days and nights, and finally became one of the most influential and successful Chinese directors in the world.
won three Oscars, one Golden Globe Award for Best Director, two Golden Lion Awards at the Venice Film Festival, and two Golden Bear Awards at the Berlin Film Festival.
Now that he is 64 years old, Li Ang, who is in the middle and old age, still does not stop.
No one is as persistent as Li Ang in the matter of "technology combined with movies", and enjoys it.
From "The Fantastic Drifting of Youth Pie" to "Billy Lynn's Midfield War", and this year's "Gemini Killer". He has been passing the "120-frame 4K" technology through movies, allowing everyone to experience a whole new world of movies.
Although in this "technological revolution", only "The Fantastic Drifting of the Boy School" survived, the other two works did not achieve the expected results, and they were defeated by Waterloo.
even when filming "Gemini Killer", the cost of US$138 million lens made Ang Lee stretched out.
But for the quality of special effects, he put all the funds that can be moved, including his salary and the profit of the production company, all in. It is undoubtedly an unpredictable adventure for
to make this kind of technical film, but Ang Lee still faces it all calmly:
"I have been shooting for almost 30 years, and it is not easy to get me excited. This thing makes me feel very humble, very ignorant, sometimes very helpless, but sometimes very excited. So I am very interested in pursuing it."
sees this from Li An Love is not so much a power as it is a belief.
When you focus on doing one thing, you only focus on itself.
Even if you get nothing, you will still walk forward desperately.
And when you do it with purpose, it's not love, it's desire.
People with desires may succeed, but not necessarily happy.
Because in the end, desire will swallow up the original love, allowing you to turn what you originally liked into a tool that can achieve your purpose.
can only be called passion if it flows in your blood spontaneously.
"It's fine if you can't see it. If you see it, I will definitely want to make it clear."
, like Ang Lee, is determined to "walk one way to the dark", walking, you will find that it's dawn.
02
When love becomes a kind of ability
you will definitely suffer
All Chinese girls envy a man named Li Jiaqi.
is not only because he has nearly tens of thousands of lipsticks, but also because he has turned his "love" into a personal ability, with a monthly income of up to seven figures.
I believe that many girls have envied him. They feel that they can have a bunch of cosmetics that can't be used up, but they can also make money by talking about "planting grass" with fans.
Indeed, everyone is eager to be able to engage in the profession they like and do what they like.
But not anyone is willing to bear the price that needs to be paid behind this ability. The live broadcast of
needs to talk non-stop. The year is not over. Li Jiaqi's live broadcast has already reached more than 300 times. The live broadcast during the promotion festival requires him to maintain a passionate and high-pitched voice for 4 hours and 17 minutes. Promote products with crazy stuck on the screen. The work intensity of
made him suffer from very serious bronchitis.
used to run to the hospital after the live broadcast. Now, in order to prevent emergencies during the live broadcast, he will carry emergency medicine with him.
, as China’s “big brother of lipsticks”, he applied 300 sticks of lipstick directly on his mouth without breathing in a live broadcast.
In the end, his mouth was so painful that he was unconscious, and he suffered from severe dermatitis.
Until now, his lips would be very sensitive once they touched something spicy or hot.
But in spite of this, he still insists on the principle of "test color of each lipstick will be recommended".
A few years ago, Li Jiaqi was still a department store cabinet who was interested in makeup and liked to communicate with people.
At that time, he just wanted to live the comfortable days of eating hot pot and playing mahjong during the day and drinking and playing diligence at night. He never thought that one day he would turn his interest into passion, and then his passion into his own business.
Compared with the red light on his face when he just debuted, the thin and haggard Li Jiaqi in front of the camera has obviously been tortured by his "love".
"You can care about me, but there is no need to pity me, because this is your job, and you make money through this."
actually loves it, so it is not a kind of internal friction.
If we want to turn it into our own ability, we have to accept the fact that it will slowly deplete.
Li Jiaqi, who faced the same predicament, actually chose a very smart approach.
Everyone who has watched Li Jiaqi's live broadcast knows that every once in a while, he will leave the live room for a few minutes with the excuse "I'm going to the toilet".
Everyone believed it to be true at first, but Li Jiaqi himself revealed the truth:
"I can hold back urine for four hours. I just found an excuse to go to the balcony to breathe. The pressure was too high, so I could only adjust myself quickly and let myself go. Get rid of the high pressure slowly."
When your love really becomes an ability, it must make you feel painful.
is not that it is impure, but that you give it more meaning.
Escape from pain can only get a temporary relief. Only by enduring pain can you get closer to success.
03
likes to be presumptuous
professional is to learn how to restrain
in the turbulent years of professional e-sports players, many people have begun to re-examine the rising industry of e-sports, can not help but think:
likes e-sports, can set foot in the e-sports industry ?
Regarding this issue, Huang Zhizhong made a metaphor in the domestic first original e-sports open course "Jing Ran So" produced by Tencent E-sports.
He said that when a person praises the other party for a good debate, it's not that his mouth really speaks.
is saying that the person can quickly grasp the key points from the problem, can put forward valuable content, canExpress the problem logically and clearly.
This is a deeper ability rooted in the inside.
And this kind of ability is not achieved by having a quarreling mouth. The same is true for e-sports. It is not difficult to become a person who "likes e-sports". But it is not easy to become a professional e-sports player.
Love does not mean professionalism. Behind all the successes, absolutely nothing happened overnight.
Passionate love is not the key to success, it is just the key that opens your pursuit of success.
is like what Huang Zhizhong said: likes to be presumptuous, and professional is to learn how to restrain.
Those who have gone from ordinary lovers to become "legendary" professional e-sports players, the kind of hot emotional transformation they have experienced is far beyond our imagination.
Many people are curious about the "Royal Clash" professional player Huang Chenghui, how did he counterattack all the way from the factory assembly line in Shenzhen to the Asian Games venue? According to his statement,
has changed from one "uninterested assembly line job" to another "interested assembly line job." In order for
to change from a "good player" to a "professional player", he can only play, watch, replay, play, watch, and replay continuously.
repeats this process non-stop every day, only to achieve him who can face all kinds of situations in the competition. The reason why top-notch people at
look so good is because they have done a lot of tedious and fatigued basic skills. The successful process of
must be boring, there is no shortcut, only repeat and repeat.
Maybe, we can't understand the meaning behind every love.
However, we must respect the meaning of every love for its existence.
Like to be presumptuous, and professional is restraint.
