Except for Stephen Chow’s comedy and "Charlotte Annoyance", I rarely watch a movie four or five times, five or six times, and even to the point where I can follow it as long as it is shown on TV, Huang Bo Xu Zheng’s "The Flower of the Heart" is a comedy movie that is worth brushing in my mouth.
There is a bit of absurdity in reality, absurdity is the source of laughter, and reality is really true. I even think that every married and unmarried couple should take a good look at this movie. It can even become a love and marriage educational film for a couple. The whole article "Heart Flower Road" only talks about two issues:
1 Why did Kang Xiaoyu fall in love with Geng Hao, and then derailed in marriage and left Geng Hao?
2, shadows are also part of our lives, even if we have had failed romances and marriages.
Why a woman loves you, and why she left you
Kang Xiaoyu has never found a suitable boyfriend, because all she has contact with is a layman, and she is a literary youth, yearning for romance, poetry, wandering... Under common standards, few people can meet the tastes of young literary and artistic young women, so Kang Xiaoyu resolutely bought a ticket to Dali, because it is a "sacred place" for literary and artistic youth.
As he arrived in Dali, Kang Xiaoyu gradually turned from the initial longing to disappointment. I came to the bar next to the inn and drank a glass of wine, and found that the people here are not literary cafes like her, they are all vulgar cafes who are greedy for one-night stands. When they come here, the men are like wild wolves who have been hungry for several days. Just shouting "I want!"
When Kang Xiaoyu was disappointed to leave Dali, he met Geng Hao, who was engaged in music. Geng Hao is different from the men she met in Dali. He is humorous and can sing. Every action and every sentence fits well with Kang Xiaoyu's dream partner, so Kang Xiaoyu and Geng Hao are together.
No amount of romance can withstand the torment of marriage. After getting married, Geng Hao gave up his music career because of his life and became a seller of second-hand stereos, and this became a straw that crushed their marriage. In Kang Xiaoyu's eyes, Geng Hao was no longer the romantic and humorous literary youth, but also a layman who bowed his head for life. Kang Xiaoyu derailed.
A lot of red men and green women are like this. After being together, they treat each other in a way that they think is good, and the result is often not what the other party wants. For Kang Xiaoyu, Geng Hao changed from a music player to a second-hand audio player, thinking that this was the performance of Ikang Xiaoyu, but in fact, this was not what Kang Xiaoyu really wanted. Geng Hao always thought that Kang Xiaoyu derailed for money, which is the case, if it is for money, why should he be with a poor singer in the first place.
And Kang Xiaoyu's departure is also to illustrate one thing: I love the once brilliant and unworldly Geng Hao. If it is for money, I can find a better one. Sure enough, Kang Xiaoyu finally chose a richer one.
The most feared thing in love is to blindly move oneself, to abandon everything for the one you love, but when you abandon it, the one you love will no longer love you.
Some people who blindly seek ideal love will eventually learn the secular through failures. Kang Xiaoyu, a young literary girl who never finished her career from the beginning, has also become a secular young girl who pursues a high-material life. But what I don't know is that if Kang Xiaoyu, who has been with "Xinhuan" for a long time, meets the former Geng Hao, will he still have no hesitation.
standing in the sun, there must be shadows, this is fate
when Hao Yi told Geng Hao anxiously: "Shadows are also part of your life, why can't you come out?" Geng Hao didn't understand at that time. He couldn't figure out why he was so good to her, and she would run away with others, so why should my marriage have a shadow!
When he came to Dali again and saw that his ex-wife in Shen Teng’s bar was as tricky as a joke, at that moment, Geng Hao suddenly understood what Hao Yi said. Shadows are also part of life. Happy marriages are mine, and failed marriages are mine. With these, my life is more complete and three-dimensional. Even if I am an ex-wife, that is my life.
In real life, how many of us have been afraid of admitting themselves after experiencing failures. Like Geng Hao, they have trapped themselves in a vicious circle and kept asking: Why are you! Not as good asIt is fate, like the spirit orb and magic orb in Nezha, which coexist by nature, and where there is sunshine, there is shadow.
Shadow is also a part of your life, and then you will find that it is just a part, you may be stagnant because of this part of the shadow, you still have more sunlight to shine, and you have more people. Need to know, you still have a broader fate to touch.
At the end, when Geng Hao said to the newly-acquainted little girl, "Now do you have time, can you help me point to my music", he finally came out completely. The movie
has one more thing to say, that is, you must have friends, otherwise when you fall into a slump, no friend will pull you out, and you are sad. Geng Hao is mixed up like this, and Hao Yi stays next to him. When you are in the dark for love, please cherish the good friends who accompany you to persuade you.
