never thought that a hot search for
made the entire office collectively melancholy-
33 days
more people yelled on Weibo, congratulations, congratulations to mention 30 and stand
Some people say that the post-80s are busy with the second child The post-00s are busy in love, only the post-90s have a stable batch, busy earning money
to send her (him) an embarrassing but polite smile
in the thirty-year-old world, how would
remain confused? Lonely? The hair is getting less and less? Do you get fat? Or if you have a house and a car...
cannot be defined and cannot be predicted. When
is in junior high school, the teacher may be full of expectations for you:
will be in two years, and you will graduate smoothly from here, in another three years, You will go to the university you want to go to. In five years, you will start your career and you will enter the world's top companies. After that, you will get married and buy a house. After ten years, your life will basically settle down. In another fifteen years, you will be thirty years old, and your life trajectory will be finalized...
may be more confused after listening to it, or it will not hurt or itchy, because your age and growth are not yet Exactly match
Today I will not give you chicken soup, just share the story
The protagonist is different, the story is different, and the same is that they all encountered something weird about
challenges around the age of 30. She insisted on
since she was born, her parents were disappointed. Extremely, her clothes are all blue, because subconsciously, her parents are still taking her as a boy to raise
. Once she asked her parents: When my sister was born, were you also disappointed?
parents replied: Without
, she said: Is it because you found that giving birth to girls is also good?
parents replied: It’s not
for this. She cried all night when
was 12 years old, she went to church as a cleaner to earn pocket money
In 1990, her mother died of illness. She was 25 years old that year, and she had not had time to see her. The last glance at
became the biggest regret in her life.
When she was 27 years old, she chose to marry the boy who fell in love with her at first sight. At the age of 28, the first child was born
. She thought she had found true love, but her husband was rude to her. Crude language, at Christmas, she was driven out of the house
desperately, she chose to return to Edinburgh, Scotland
when she was 30 years old, she made an incomprehensible decision-divorce, to be a single mother
30 years old Turning the rudder meant that she had to take more risks and put in more effort. There was no money, no contacts, no dependence on
. The difficult life made her fall into depression. Then she spent nine months on self-help
to survive. Going down, she went to apply for government funding. The weekly cost of 103.5 US dollars was all the living expenses of her and her daughter.
. In order to keep warm, she pushed a stroller and went to a nearby cafe to write
. After being ruthlessly rejected by 12 publishing houses, her first A novel was finally published (this experience was later turned into a character in her own novel by her, and then made into a movie by a big company, with a global box office of more than 900 million US dollars)
When she was 30 years old, she took the life of herself and her daughter Betting on the gambling table, later, there is no fear of
, unwilling, do not give up, become the norm
became famous, almost a year of work, she also ushered in the most brilliant ten years of her life
who is she
she It's J.K. Rowling. Before she became famous, her name was Joanne Catherine Joanne
. She was the original author of the "Harry Potter" movie series and the "Where are Fantastic Beasts" movie series, and the screenwriter
. The famous movie is called "Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone", and the character she imaginary in the novel is called "Dementor"
Low, peak
When he was 28 years old, he met the most hesitant day of his life
facing the public He turned off his mobile phone and went to apologize to his girlfriend in other countries overnight. Before that, he was an entertainment star with all-round development in film, video, and song. When he debuted, he was one of the top celebrities. Support him-
superstar A helped him write the song; when the new album was released, the film tycoon B gave him a platform; the entertainment industry sister C said that he would be popular if he was obedient.
became famous as a teenager, and his recognized talent is as an actor. Not only is he handsome, talented, but he also has a good natural resource
, but he has never understood what acting is about. The scene is an honor for the producer
until that time when he was embarrassed in public, he suddenly realized that
was a play by a big director, starring Tony Leung and Andy Lau. He was picked to play a villain
filming him. During the scene, he kept NG, the director was angry, and he was even more impatient. The director
walked up to him and asked: Are you tired?
He replied: I am not tired
—pop, a slap on his face, " If you’re not tired, give me a good role."
He was sleepy and dim, so he was awake, dumbfounded for a few seconds, and then silently slapped
, so that he learned to respect roles, actors, and himself
after that. Every one of his works is a witness to him as an actor
. At 30 years old, he still wants to turn against the wind. He disappeared for two years.
. Before that, he had 2000 friends. He called him a brother every day. There is no more
. He said that
. In those two years, he finally realized what it means to take the tea cold, and no one even wanted to get involved with him
. But he was not convinced
Two years later, he changed his identity and returned—— The singer, who returned with him, also has a music album called "CONFUSION"
. Some people say that he is an unkillable Xiaoqiang, who does not admit defeat, admit mistakes, and does not compromise with popular tastes.
has experienced youthful ambitions, overnight decline, He made a comeback, he never fell down
When he was 30 years old, he let go of his rebelliousness and started seriously what he likes
, but there are regrets-
acting is my passion, they took my passion away. They won. This is the only place where they beat me
. It turned out that he never let go. It was acting
. He made unwatched movies in a foreign land, and he played a small role without anyone's attention even if it was officially released. No, he has no complaints. This is his 30-year-old
, he is Edison Chen,
, and A is Leslie Cheung who wrote songs to him; B is Jackie Chan, the film and television boss who gave him the platform; C is Anita Mui, the entertainment industry sister who encouraged him; The big director who beat him is Liu Weiqiang. That movie is called "Infernal Affairs"
. Think about it again, what kind of
is in the 30-year-old world. There must be wind and rain in front of you. When you are really in it, you are not particularly excited. No and don’t be embarrassed.
Similarly, if your teacher also told you the opening paragraph, now you should understand that it’s not all right.
Someone graduated at 21 and didn’t get a job until 27; someone graduated at 25. , But immediately found a job
Some people did not go to school, but in I found what I love when I was 18 years old; some people made a lot of money after graduation, but were unhappy
some people knew what they wanted, but after ten years they changed their minds
everything in life It all depends on our own time.
Some people are far ahead of you, and some people are behind you. Be patient, because everyone has a different rhythm, just like Zhang Yi is 27 years old and is still running the cast.
For the upcoming 30 years old , It’s not difficult to say
Positive attitude, calm oneself
is enough
