is the crystallization of parental love, sustenance for the rest of his life, and hope for the future. The flesh-and-blood relationship makes them a connected relative. Because of this, parents must set an example and play a role of standardization and example for the future growth of their children.
In St. Exupéry’s "The Little Prince", there is a sentence in it: "Never be a boring adult." Children are called children because their souls are pure and without Contaminated by the outside world. But the reality has to force children to learn to grow and accept. The
movie "I 11" is about how the little boy Wang Han grew up quickly when he was eleven.
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The little boy Wang Han lives in a relatively wealthy and stable family. His father is an intellectual, his mother is a factory worker, and his income is relatively stable.
Wang Han was selected by the teacher as the leader of the exercises because of the standard of exercises. He just mentioned casually, I hope that Wang Han can change into a new shirt, so that standing in front of the exercises will be better. But when Wang Han went home and mentioned that he wanted to buy a white shirt with his mother, his mother slapped him directly, saying that the white shirt is optional, and the family’s money is just enough for life, and there is no extra cloth ticket. Wang Han buys a new shirt.
may also be the cause of children's self-esteem. Wang Han wanted to steal some money to buy his own shirt while his mother was taking a nap. But in fact, Wang Han's heart was still kind. He had already taken out the money, but in the end he didn't have the courage to put the money back.
and seeing Wang Han still wearing his old shirt and doing exercises on stage, my mother couldn't bear it, so she bought cloth and made a white shirt for Wang Han herself.
Wang Han was very happy, but what he didn't know was that it was this shirt that brought tremendous changes to his later life.
Because he was playing with his friends by the river, Wang Han lost his white shirt. In order not to be scolded at home, Wang Han could only bravely walk up the mountain, trying to find his white shirt. However, he was caught by the murderer Xie Jueqiang. He was surrounded by Wang Han's white shirt, but the shirt had been stained red with gurgling blood. Xie Jueqiang promised Wang Han that he would let Wang Han go and compensate him for a new shirt as long as he didn't tell others where he was. The frightened Wang Han nodded and agreed. When she returned home, she would inevitably be scolded by her mother again. Despite this, he did not tell the truth.
In order to regain the friendship of the friends, Wang Han had to tell the other three friends about it. Unexpectedly, the little mouse who vowed to promise Wang Han still told the relevant personnel in charge of the investigation. Although Xie Jueqiang was not caught, Wang Han still blamed himself.
Later, Xie Jueqiang was finally caught and was to be executed. At this time, Wang Han also received a parcel from the prison, which contained a brand new white shirt, which was sent by Xie Jueqiang.
On the day Xie Jueqiang was executed and punished, the four partners planned to visit the scene, but the journey was far away. They had been running, but they could not keep up with the speed of the broadcast. Seeing his friends running farther and farther, Wang Han suddenly stopped. He stood there for a long time, unable to return to his senses. Perhaps this incident will still be printed in his memory many years later.
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The year when he was eleven years old was destined to be an extraordinary year for Wang Han. During this year, he experienced many firsts.
He learned other skills for the first time; the first time he did not succeed in stealing money; the first time he saw a dead person; the first time he met a murderer; the first time he lied and did not succeed; the first time he experienced betrayal by a friend; I have ignorant feelings once.
has experienced so many for the first time, he is sensible, but in fact, he is just a boy who has not graduated from elementary school. His psychology quickly matured, but only he knew this. His parents only knew that he cared about his food, clothing and study, but no one cared about his psychology. When
learned that Wang Han lost his shirt because he met a murderer, his mother blamed him for not saying it earlier. But after all, isn't this the parents' negligence? If they were not so harsh on Wang Han, Wang Han might tell the truth at that time, so that it would not lead to a series of things later.
But the fact is just the opposite, parents are strictTreating him harshly, friends didn't understand him and betrayed him, which caused Wang Han to fall into a situation where no one could talk to him.
And when he rushed to see Xie Jueqiang's execution, his sense of self-blame suddenly came. He felt that if he and his friends hadn't talked about it first, the little mouse would not have expanded the matter further, and Xie Jueqiang might not have fallen into such a serious situation. The white shirt he received, the frustration of losing his trust, and the worry of holding the life in his hand, made him more and more self-blaming. He could not forgive himself, and this "mistake" will also give him future Life leaves a lingering mark. All the flowers of
will be pruned, and Wang Han is no exception.
Some people say that maturity is a good thing, but maturity will become meaningless when the edges and corners of the innocence are sharpened by maturity. Maturity and growth are two different things. Growth is gradual, and sometimes growth is only overnight. For the 11-year-old Wang Han, his body and mind cannot accept sudden maturity.
Maybe his parents gave him the name Wang Han, hoping that he can be himself honestly, but this experience is destined that he will not become a satisfactory adult.
