Qin Chuan's father is seriously ill and needs major surgery. For this reason, Wang Ying volunteered to ask friends in Moments for help, but the other party either answered the phone and refused to pick up the phone, or simply refused to answer the phone, and even asked Yang Cheng, "Why didn't you answer Wang Ying's call?" At this time, something happened to her father, which immediately made her feel the warmth and coldness of human feelings and the coldness of the world.
But could her friends be blamed entirely? There is a saying in
that "A person's biggest misjudgment is that he has no self-knowledge, takes himself too seriously, always mistakenly regards the success of the 'platform' as his own ability, and has a strong sense of superiority." This "platform" can also be extended to the success of family, family background, parents, etc. Qin Chuan replied to Yang Cheng back then, "Although my second-hand car is broken, I earned it with my own ability. One day, if you don't have your parents to rely on, you may not have my ability and be self-sufficient."
Applying to Wang Ying, it is not against the peace, right?
Then, the most scheming people surfaced, Wang Ying and Ren Siyu were all used. Who is this person?
When Yang Cheng's mother learned of the accident, Yang Cheng's mother immediately changed her face, and emphasized to her son, "You and Wang Ying are just friends, and you must not cross the line." But before that, she had treated Wang Ying as her future daughter-in-law.
And the most scheming person, is Mother Yang?
Regarding her son's marriage, what Yang's mother likes to emphasize the most is "the right family". Whether this concept is right or wrong, we should treat it in two parts, right?
Before Wang Ying's father had an accident, the two families were indeed well matched. However, if the prince's father had an accident after the two got married, would they still be considered well-connected, right? Since it can't be counted, then, is Mother Yang going to change her previous attitude, treat Wang Ying differently, and even force the two to divorce?
, in the style of Yang's mother, obviously can do it. And this is the misinterpretation of "good match", or "vulgar understanding"?
The purpose of "matching each other" is to achieve "consistent frequency" between the two parties, so as to avoid conflicts arising from too far apart concepts and cognitions that are difficult to reconcile. Is it a misinterpretation to ignore the basics and focus on the external form?
And the most scheming person is none other than Mother Yang.
Yang's mother's hypocrisy and scheming are not only manifested in her respect for Wang Ying.
Yang Cheng is a man who likes to play and is erratic about love. At the beginning, Yang's mother said to Wang Ying, "Yang Cheng has many girlfriends, I know. But even if he has a hundred girlfriends, as long as he is not the last one, it doesn't matter to me." These words are very scheming, to stabilize Wang Ying and give her a reassurance, right?
And Wang Ying was used by her. She drew a big cake for Wang Ying by fooling her, and set a tone, telling Wang Ying not to find a boyfriend, but to wait for his son. This one.
For her son's marriage, her goal is to be "the right family". In Yang Cheng's words, "My future marriage is beyond my control. I have to accept whoever my parents arrange for me."
From her point of view, you can play whatever you want before marriage, if you have had enough, then you will have a marriage partner arranged for you, and you will have nothing to say. Ren Siyu, is Mother Yang secretly pampering her son and letting him experience enough of a "tool"? Taking other people's pain in exchange for her own goals, Mother Yang is not only hypocritical, but also extremely selfish, right? It can be seen from this that Ren Siyu was also used by Yang's mother.
So, how to interpret "good match"? The essence of being well-matched is to ensure that the three views of the two parties are consistent and the frequency is consistent. At the same time, the core of being well-matched is to pay more attention to "regulating the family with virtue" and "family harmony".
The "right family" under the "righteousness of the family" will not cause Wang Ying's family to decline, and Yang's mother will immediately change her face.
One of the biggest manifestations of "virtue" is to emphasize conscience, but the river demolishes bridges and adds insult to injury.Life is a long road, who can guarantee that you will not encounter setbacks and accidents in your life on the uphill road? There is a saying that says, "To communicate with others, one should look at the lowest point of the other person's character, not the highest point." This lowest point is a person's moral bottom line. The higher the moral low line, the higher the moral level, even if it is not good, it will not do outrageous things.
A family based on morality is naturally a family of "harmonious family and peaceful home". It can be seen that Yang's mother's "right family" is too narrow, right? No wonder she disliked Wang Ying as soon as something happened to the Wang family.
In addition, about making friends, there is a saying that says, "When you have not reached a higher level, your connections are worthless, and you can only get corresponding help through an equivalent exchange. Although it is cruel, this is the truth." Wang Ying's family has fallen, and those casual acquaintances in the circle of friends immediately ignore her.
After this incident, Wang Ying learned from the painful experience and began to improve her abilities. Relying on others is never as good as relying on yourself. One's own strength is the greatest confidence. At the same time, Yang Cheng is also getting better and better, and there are signs that he will finally get together with Wang Ying and break his mother's notion of family status.
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